What's the proper term?

My wife was jerking me off today (and I got to play with her tits). I asked her "What do woman call what you're doing? Jerking me off? Masturbating me?"

She replied "I don't know (liar!!). Masturbating is when you do it to yourself."

So, if masturbation is proper word for the solo act, what is the proper term for making someone else come? My brain isn't in gear.

A hand job?

A hand job?

Mistressbating?

Mutual masturbation.

Lucky bugger?

So, if masturbation is proper word for the solo act, what is the proper term for making someone else come? My brain isn't in gear.

Sexual activity.

Couples bonding.

Jacking him off.

Pleasuring her.

Keeping him happy/pleasured.

I'll stop now...lol.