What's the proper term?

My wife was jerking me off today (and I got to play with her tits). I asked her "What do woman call what you're doing? Jerking me off? Masturbating me?"

She replied "I don't know (liar!!). Masturbating is when you do it to yourself."

So, if masturbation is proper word for the solo act, what is the proper term for making someone else come? My brain isn't in gear.

A hand job?

A hand job?

Mistressbating?

Mutual masturbation.

Lucky bugger?

So, if masturbation is proper word for the solo act, what is the proper term for making someone else come? My brain isn't in gear.

Sexual activity.

Couples bonding.

Jacking him off.

Pleasuring her.

Keeping him happy/pleasured.

I'll stop now...lol.

I kinda like "jerkin' your gherkin"...alliterates nicely, don't ya think?

I'd call it wanking you off

Masturbating is manual stimulation of the sexual organs no matter who does it. It's still technically and officially masturbating. Or any of the slang terms that may be more erotic.

In the list of medical/slang and esoteric sexual terms I've compiled over the years, I found that someone who does masturbation is called a mastophallator. I suppose this could be assigned to another person who performs masturbation on someone else. Sounds fancy enough in any case ... ha ha

There is also contrectation - which is fondling another’s genitals. I suppose fondling is just as good as masturbating someone.

Then there are also these four either archaic or medical

manustupration

ipsation

amatripsis

manuxorate

so you'd get a 'manustriptator, an ipsator, amatripsistor and a manuxorator ... if you didn't pass out laughing first ... ha ha

Sexual relations by hand?

Mutual masturbation.

Manual stimulation or manual sex.

I'd say you're giving your partner (male or female) a "happy ending".

Foreplay.

Manual stimulation? Immediately put me in mind of vehicle transmission for some reason which then led me to wonder what automatic stimulation would be like? Sometimes my mind goes off in odd directions 😧

@alan20cm - "odd" might be a bit of an understatement, no? (lol)

@alan20cm - "odd" might be a bit of an understatement, no? (lol)

Oh I don't know. Given that many a first masturbation is received in a parked car on a local Lover's Lane, the association isn't that odd really ... ha ha