The time to retire from enemas and anal play

As long as we are in our own home we will play when we can. So far it isn't often enough for sub, but he is not always the best at volunteering to lighten my work load. Dirt, dust, weeds, and dishes seem to be invisible to him. *Sigh.

Dear Miss Stress !! - many thanks for this comment - and also enjoy your live with your mind liked partner, many other people would be very happy, to live their live in such a connection, i would think !! - and the other things in daily live - as keeping the household clean, washing the dishes etc. -, will be better in the hands of a woman !! - and for this part in your connection you will get the reward othersides !!

Stay as you are and enjoy the upcoming time, and always think about it - we all was given only one live, so we had to do the best what was possible !!

Hopefully my words are understandable ( my english language based in schooldays, and these are decades ago ), and you are also in a good mood to accept them !!

Kindly regards from germany and once more all the best for the upcoming times !!

VOLKER

"Never, never, never" W. Churchill.

- and the other things in daily live - as keeping the household clean, washing the dishes etc. -, will be better in the hands of a woman !!

@4711koeln: Say what?!?!? Those are fighting words in my neck of the woods!

@4711koeln: Say what?!?!? Those are fighting words in my neck of the woods!

Oh no !! - don't misunderstand me please !! - it was meant as a compliment to all of the females, who are responsible for doing the necessary things in the households worldwide !! - most of the males aren't made for this kind of work !! - and i would thought, that is not only my opinion !!

! - most of the males aren't made for this kind of work !! - and i would thought, that is not only my opinion !!

@4711koeln I think you’re digging the hole deeper! 😀😀😀

Oh no !! - don't misunderstand me please !! - it was meant as a compliment to all of the females, who are responsible for doing the necessary things in the households worldwide !! - most of the males aren't made for this kind of work !! - and i would thought, that is not only my opinion !!

@4711koeln: Women aren’t “made for this kind of work” any more than men are!

@4711koeln I think you’re digging the hole deeper! 😀😀😀

For sure, it is not my intension, to discriminate all the women around the world, but it is my opinion, that there are some obligations, that have to be seperated in a partnership !! - and, by the way, i would think, mostly these art of being together will be harmonious and also successful !!

@4711koeln: Women aren’t “made for this kind of work” any more than men are!

For sure no reason for dispute, i would mean !! - that is only my opinion, and you have another !!

@4711koeln there’s an American idiom, “weaponized incompetence.” While this can be practiced by people of any gender, and sometimes is, the stereotypical instance is a man saying he couldn’t possibly be equal to some type of repetitive, soul-numbing, usually unpaid task often performed by women. And therefore, because he “just isn’t as good at it,” the woman has to do it.

While I happen to agree that households run better with a clear division of labor, there’s lots of fair ways to do this that don’t stick one party with too many tasks, or too many tasks that neither party wants to do. And occasionally it’s good to cover for your partner so that if either one of you has to be away or is incapacitated for a time, you both understand what’s needed to keep everything going.

Back to the original topic, I hope I’m never forced to give up enemas; while I could give up the fun aspects, the medical ones buy me back weeks every year.

Sweetest Relief !! - many thanks for this comment and the declaration of the " american Idiom " !! - maybe right, i will think about it !!

Kindly regards from the other side of the ocean, from good old germany !!

My fetish (namely, giving a girl an enema) still hasn't come true. But I'm 28 and still have a long way to go. I don't consider it a priority. I enjoy youth, sex, and other pleasant things. I won't be disappointed if I can't make an enema a reality. It doesn't interfere with my life. When I'm feeling really tense, I can just jerk off and everything will be fine. Why should I chase it? I'm just living and enjoying life.

It seems to me that respect and reciprocity go a long way in most aspects. While I certainly appreciate those distinctive differences in the genders, I do believe that each of us can perform the various functions in life as necessary. That being said, I've certainly enjoyed the female nursing care as opposed to the male doctor's care. On the other hand, I do enjoy providing the male doctor's care to a female patient.

I don’t think one should ever retire. Maybe cut back some. This goes for real life too

A fr8nd of mine was not doing well, had me check on him. I was in his bathroom and noticed a homebrew enema set. Some oxygen hose connected to a fleet enema, obvious he would refill it. He was obese and asked me to give him a squirt, I think he had a problem reaching around. I did not help him. Soon after he went to a convolecent home, probably the end of his enemas. If I were ever admitted, no more enemas. Hope that day never comes.

Retire from WHAT!!??!! Never!!!!!! (Well, maybe when the last lady shuffles off this mortal coil....!!)

It was easy to quit smoking. But giving up my enemas has so far turned out to be an impossible task.

At some point someone will take the nozzle out of my hand and say: that's enough. Maybe I can then take some equipment with me to the other side, no matter where it is.

The key here is to not enjoy it too much. Number one, too much of anything can be harmful to the health. And too much enema play can spoil the excitement. My wife and I like to space our sessions out over periods of time to help keep it exciting when we do enjoy enemas. And when enjoying enemas, do so safely in a way that gives maximum pleasure without risking injury or health issues.