Who has had a vasectomy?

I wondering how many guys like myself got vasectomies and what that process was like?

I was referred to a urologist that actually suggested I wait because I was “only35” and I might want another child. I already had 4 and said I was not having anymore and if he was reluctant to do it I would get another referral. That changed the course of discussion and he went into the risks and recovery. Then he had me drop my pants and did a full genital exam with particular attention to my testicles and cords. He then said all looks good and should be a normal procedure and I could schedule with his receptionist on my way out.

I had one in my mid 30s also. The topic came up in my yearly exam. After inquiring, my doctor had me drop my pants and performed a thorough genital exam. He explained the anatomy and what would happen as he examined me. I was mostly erect by the end as he thoroughly felt my tight scrotum. He said everything felt like I'd have no issues and gave me a referral. When I saw the surgeon, we had a pretty quick discussion and he also had me stand and drop my "trousers". I also got an exam from him, but less through and focused strictly on my scrotum and testes. Upon exit, I met with the desk to sign a couple forms and schedule an appointment. I was surprised how quick they moved, as they were ready to have me back a few days later.

I had mine done when i was about 35. Had two kids already and was marrying a woman with two kids, so I didn't want any more.

No regrets.

Yep , after my second child was born I booked an appointment with a urologist and a week later it was all over. No real problems didn't really swell up either. Less ejaculate now but that was it.

I was also snipped and clipped at the end of my 30s and after 7 children (3 didn't make it to term) and 4 full term with a set of twins in there. He also put me through the are you sure, I just looked at him like really?

The procedure was easy, the recovery went well also.

However within a few months I developed post vasectomy pain syndrome (it's real). To be specific the right testicle gets swollen and painful along with the epidytimis because of backed up sperm. They still keep pumping em out by the pipes are intentionally clogged.

Many urologists over the years and the end conclusion is I need a reverse vasectomy on that side to alleviate the pain (hopefully).

I had mine done in my late twenties. Already had two boys, and that was enough. Procedure went smoothly, with little post-op pain, although I was a motorcycle cop at the time, so had to take about five days off, to prevent any bleeding or swelling.

I did nothing feel like it changed. Castration might be a better option

I never got one, but I have friends who have had mixed experiences with them. One wasn’t even married, but did it at his girlfriend’s request. After they broke up, he got married, but because of medical issues with the original vasectomy, he was unable to have children. He also claimed that it caused him to gain weight. I don’t know if that was the cause.

Mine was done in the GP’s office with his assistant under a local. Rather quick as I recall. Needed to ice my crotch for several days afterwards and avoid heavy lifting. Ordered to use a condom during sex for two weeks and to masturbate every day to clear the sperm out.

Another guy in my office had had one and we talked about it in front of a younger co-worker. I stated that it was weird at first that nothing came out when I ejaculated. He concurred that it was weird at first but that he soon got used to it. The younger guy got agitated at this news to the point that we admitted we were BSing him.

I had mine done at the age of 26.......

I wanted it at the age of 18 but they wouldn't do it......... I didn't want any children.........The one Woman at the hospital That I talk to told me I was too young to make a decision of whether I wanted to have a vasectomy........ I told her if I'm too young for that how come I'm not too young to get drafted into a war?????????????? "this is the actual nice version of what I said to her"

I had two boys 1 From each wife......... each unfaithful wife............ that I had to Pay child support for.........

Mine was when my second was about two months old. Pregnancy was rough for so we had no desire for more kids. When I asked my primary care doctor for a referral to a urologist for one he said he does them and got me in the next week. It was pretty easy. They had me take off everything below the waste and gave me a paper sheet to coverup with. Doctor had me lay back on the table. The worst part was the lidocaine injection into my spermatic cords. Done in 10-15 minutes. After cleaning the pipes out for a few weeks, it took a cup of my own semen in a brown paper bag to the lab to drop off. Got the all clear for cream pies all the time. It’s great!

I did, after our 4th child was about 9 months. I scheduled it and 2 days before i was to go under the knife. My wife at the time said, " Here is your last chance" and basically dared me to knock her up. Of course we were laughing at the time about it. 6 weeks later we found out she was pregnant with our 5th child. She was a bit pissed at that, so she made me go and get tested to make sure i was shooting blanks. 3 Times. Over the next 6 months.

About 5 years later the marriage was on the rocks and she started cheating on me and low and behold, got pregnant again. After complaining for years about not wanting any more kids to let her body get back in to shape.

From a very early age, I knew I never wanted to have kids. That realization came about after observing on many occasions parents with their children and how difficult it was dealing with the kids. I always found it very irritating when I was out at restaurants or shopping and there were small kids crying and having a screaming meltdown. I kept asking myself, do I want to put myself in that situation. My conclusion was I never wanted to be in that situation.

When I got married at age 30, both my wife and I were deep into our careers and working long hours. My wife at first wanted kids but was lukewarm on the issue. I consented but she knew I really didn't want kids. After a brief period of trying to get pregnant which failed, I got a vasectomy and put the end to the issue. We were both relieved to just put the whole issue behind us and get on with our lives.

We both have never regretted our decision and even in hindsight as the years rolled by, we are totally glad we did not have kids and have no regrets at all. It was absolutely the right for decision for us.

As far as the vasectomy goes, I have a good friend who was general surgeon and had done numerous vasectomies. I went to him and in his office under a local anesthesia he performed the procedure in about 45 minutes. I was a little sore for a couple of day but never had to take any kind of pain killers. The incisions were small and did not leave a scare and he used dissolvable stiches, so I never had to go back for a follow up checkup. Although it was not required, the doctor said to provide a semen specimen after 10 ejections to make sure the procedure was effective, which I did and there were no sperm in the sample. And that was it. A very easy quick and painless procedure with minimal discomfort for about 2 days afterwards.

Married at 28, got mine when I was 30-31. Ex and I decided we weren't going to have kids, piece of cake.

I had mine in March 1999. My wife and I decided it was easier for me to be fixed than her. Was done in Dr. office, very small incision and only local anesthesia. It was not too bad. Walked out in about 30 minutes and only needed 1 pain pill that afternoon. No stitches only band aide. Had to look to find someone that was doing this small incision type procedure. Several dr. wanted to do large cuts, stitches and in hospital operating room under general anesthesia. Pays to shop around.

4 children later and 2004 it was time to snip them things. Chronic post vasectomy pain since, your mileage may vary. Then you get to masturbate into a cup a few times to ensure success of the procedure after several weeks and ejaculations later.

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I had mine in March 1999.

@trn I heard that March is a popular month for vasectomies. Men sit at home on the couch, watching March Madness basketball, with a bag of frozen peas on their crotch, while recuperating.

I had mine at 40 years of age. A lot of the comments resonate with my experience except the pain. No pain. Less output from previous times though. First wife lasted several more years but kicked me to the curb later. Two beautiful children and I do not regret my experiences.

I had mine done at 30, recently married, with no kids. The doctor asked 'Are you sure?' several times in several different ways...

No regrets.

Had it done about 50 years ago after second marriage. Had three children between us and didn't want any more. No post op issues.

Went to my Dr and told him I needed to be done. In office procedure local Anastasia, two small incisions. Watched and was talking to the doc about what he was doing, he showed me, the nurse had to sit down. Stayed still that afternoon, woke up the next morning and felt great so I mowed the lawn (stupid of me) should have stayed in my recliner! Took 30 days for the swelling to heal. No other pain other than that.

For me, after two children and two horrendous labour experiences for my ex-wife it was a no brainer. Simple operation, no problems and it made life so easy after my ex and I split and I started dating nice ladies

4 children later and 2004 it was time to snip them things. Chronic post vasectomy pain since, your mileage may vary. Then you get to masturbate into a cup a few times to ensure success of the procedure after several weeks and ejaculations later.

1-2 times. And you get to do it at home and bring it in with the cup under your armpit...which is a bit odd but less than producing on command in the doctor's office (had to do that too for something else...)

Procedure is interesting to watch, there are a lot of layers to the spermatic cords and vas deferens. After I was glad he sent me home with some codeine b/c I found out the anesthetic doesn't last as long on my family as it is supposed to! Get the narcotics, even if you don't take them.

Very nice to not have to worry now about birth control failures.

I have also had abdominal surgery, and it's a no brainer that this is something the guy does rather than having the woman get her tubes tied.

Yes, that's exactly what I did.

40 years ago. The cat and I were fixed about the same time (sorry I couldn’t resist). Jokes aside, with proper anesthesia it is virtually painless and takes all of 20 minutes. I was asked to shave myself before the procedure. You will be itchy and sore for a few days afterwards which is easily addressed with OTC pain medication and ice packs. Also be sure to follow their instructions about getting all the fish out of the stream before you can have sex with a partner again. Good luck.

Had one 2 1/2 years ago. A couple days soreness, after that no noticeable difference. Procedure is quick, nothing to worry about.

Yes.

I had one in my early 40s. The initial stage was a visit to my GP who listened to my reasoning before referring me on to the local community hospital for the procedure. Rather disappointingly, he didn’t exam me at that stage even though colleagues at work had been.

I had to shave the genital area and the top of my legs before the procedure which was to be carried out during an evening session. When I arrived I was directed to a side room and told to completely undress before putting on a gown. Whilst I was getting ready a nurse came in and checked that I’d shaved. I then walked to the operating room where a surgeon was waiting for me. I lay on the operating table, received injections into each testicle and the base of my penis before the surgery began. I really wanted to watch but was unable to do so. The whole procedure seemed to be over very quickly and I was allowed to dress and go home after a nurse checked the wounds had stopped bleeding.

It all went very smoothly, then a week to recover and for the stitches to fall out. I had to provide a couple of samples of ejaculate to make sure the operation had been successful which was fun to do as it meant there were lots of play sessions with my other half to drain me of any residual swimmers after I’d healed.

I had mine years ago after my third daughter was born and we don't want any more. I do not remember what I went through, but it couldn't have been to bad.

Interesting about the shaving. I noticed they didn't say anything about shaving my pubic area in the instructions. I specifically asked and they said not to, which was a surprise, but I didn't. When I came in they shaved me.

They also asked if I wanted a mirror. The mirror made it much easier to see what was happening.