WOMEN: thoughts on seeing an erect penis for the first time

This thread is for women please.

Inspired by the 'opposite genitals' thread, I'm going to ask the more specific questions to my lady friends:

How old were you when you first saw an erect penis in the flesh? What were the circumstances and what were your thoughts?

As for me, I was somewhere around my 14th birthday. It was with my boyfriend. I was a HS Freshman, he was a Senior. We had been dating for a bit and we had several back-seat make-out sessions under our belts by then. I had rubbed his cock through his jeans prior to this and he had fingered me with his hands inside of my jeans and panties. We were parking and he was trying to get inside my pants and was having a hard time. I was wearing some painted-on Gloria Vanderbilts. I pushed them down a little so he could get access and they went down further than I intended. I think he took that as an invitation to take his cock out, which he did, pushing his own jeans down.

Of course I looked!

My initial reaction was "Jesus fucking Christ that's huge!" I swear, I was thinking, wait, that's supposed to fit inside of me? It hurts putting in a tampon, how the fuck will that fit? Almost immediately after was, it's kind of cute. It was circumcised and smooth, which to this day is my preference (I don't know if that was formed by my first or if I just like it better that way. Chicken/egg). I touched it, of course, and was intrigued at how good the skin felt. So soft while the cock itself was so hard.

I gave my first hand-job that night.

@Nurse_Phillips You remark on the softness of the skin is interesting. Was it about the glans or the rest of the penis? Two girls, who were trying fellatio for the first time with me, said "oh it's so smooth!".

The glans is soft, sure, but the skin on the shaft is silky.

I was 16 when I saw my first erect penis and it was part of the wonderful man I got married to 8 years later. It was a nice warm July afternoon and I went around to his house.

So when we were both naked and I had seen his penis in quite a soft condition at first he got erect especially when I started touching it and it got really hard. He has a lovely natural uncircumcised penis. I enjoyed pulling his foreskin back and looking at his bare glans and touching its smoothness. I like how it felt in my hand throbbing like that and I just thought about how it was erect because of me!

@Amethyst i love your response!! Yes, knowing you’re making someone you care about hard is such a WONDERFUL feeling!

And I had a lot of fun playing with it too @Nurse_Phillips, not just looking at it. And when He was inside me for the first time in the doggy position, WOW! 😃 ❤️

@Amethyst i wish that was my first intercourse experience. Mine was more like ‘that’s it?’ 🤣🤣

Satisfying to have gotten it out of the way but that’s about all. He eventually got better at it but my ex-husband was a meh lover at best.

I was young, I remember my father would come into the 2nd bathroom when mom was using the master bathroom. Sometimes he would come in while I was in the shower to pee in the mornings and I remember seeing his and it looked big to me...lol

I was 16 when I saw my first erect penis and it was part of the wonderful man I got married to 8 years later...He has a lovely natural uncircumcised penis. I enjoyed pulling his foreskin back and looking at his bare glans and touching its smoothness. I like how it felt in my hand throbbing like that and I just thought about how it was erect because of me!

Not to embarrass you @Amethyst but your comment is so innocent and sweet. Love it.

I don’t remember the first erect penis I saw that clearly or exactly when it was, because it was probably my brother or one of my cousins. I do remember seeing my dads one day when I was young and he was out in the garage alone. But I do remember some of the first guys I was fooling around with getting it out in front of me.

I like how it felt in my hand throbbing like that and I just thought about how it was erect because of me!

I really resonate with @Amethyst’s comment, about those early memories… How pretty I felt because him looking at me/ touching me/ thinking about me has made that happen to him.

The first guy I went out with, albeit we were only 21, it was such a shock for me. Having said that it had its uses.

My wife once told me that when she saw an erect penis for the first time, she thought to herself, "OMG, where is all that supposed to fit inside a woman?"

I was 20 and the first time I ever saw him nude with an erection, I really cannot remember what was said, that has been 35 years ago. I do remember over time telling him how I thought it was cute. Well OK.

@Tillie they are cute!

I was shocked. I thought how the hell is that going to fit in me 🤣

I saw the erect penis of my dad and brothers many times growing up. When I was 16 my friend and I snuck into a bedroom during a party. He took out his erect penis and I rubbed the head and shaft with my hands. It felt so smooth to touch and yummy to look at. I put it in my mouth and he blew a load real quick.

I was shocked. I thought how the hell is that going to fit in me 🤣

Wd40 lol

I was in high school. "Exploring" with a dear friend, Max. I was amazed at how large it became and how thick and warm it felt. I was shocked in a very good way.

I was 20 and the first time I ever saw him nude with an erection, I really cannot remember what was said, that has been 35 years ago. I do remember over time telling him how I thought it was cute. Well OK.

@Tillie they are cute!

I conquer… But guys really don’t like hearing that.

Thinking of that scene in Finding Nemo where Dory goes “Well hello there little guy!”

I shall call him squishy… 😂

I was about 14 when I accidentally saw one of my cousins getting ready to do the deed with his girlfriend. We were at grandmas beach house and I was reading a book on the balcony outside one of the bedrooms. Perhaps I fell asleep but I became aware of the goings on in the bedroom. I was embarrassed but I didn’t leave, stayed and watched. They were undressing when I first saw them. His back was turned toward me so for a couple of minutes I could not see his penis. She was on her knees in front, couldn’t figure out what they were doing; now I realize she was giving him head. First time I actually saw his erect cock was when they moved to the bed. The size and rigidity amazed me. My first thought was how that thing would fit in her. They messed around a while and then she got up to get something out of her purse on the table near the door. Surprised she did not see me then. Thought it was a tampon and a box of condoms. She put the condom on him and obviously it was not a new task for her. What I thought was a tampon was a prefilled applicator of contraceptive jelly. They started missionary that went on for a couple of minutes , then she got on top of him. There is no way she could have not seen me at that point but she was driving to climax and too excited to stop. When she got off of him I was surprised at the fact his cock had shrunk quite a bit. At that point I realized I was very aroused, ended up going to my bedroom and using my magic finger to release myself. At dinner that night she sat opposite me and gave me a wink and a silent toast by tipping her wine glass toward me before taking a sip so I know she saw me. We never spoke of it after.

I was 20 and the first time I ever saw him nude with an erection, I really cannot remember what was said, that has been 35 years ago. I do remember over time telling him how I thought it was cute. Well OK.

@Tillie I am the same. At 21 I saw my sub, then just my boyfriend, naked and we had sex. I can't remember what I thought or said as it's been 41 years ago. I know after that first time I went very quiet. I'd just given away something to him that I had no idea he was really worth giving it to.

I was 18 when I saw my first erect penis, my reaction was a scream that became laughter. I touched it, this was my first experience with a boy.

Great question, it brought back some fond memories.

I was 16 and in the park with a guy who was also 16 and someone who I mostly grew up with and we could talk anything and everything. He was a nerd and helped me with my homework and we would hang out and do stupid stuff because we just liked each other. Then one night in the park we were walking back from the stadium and he was talking about a cheerleader he had a crush on and he had no idea what to do about it. Not a clue and he was so afraid of how he should approach her or what to do if he ever got brave enough to ask her out instead of being a dweeb around her which I knew she liked.

So we sat on a picnic table and started talking and we both wanted to know things about the boy girl stuff and he asked me how to girls like to be kissed? I wasn't an expert but we said we could practice with each other and it was awkward AF but it was cute how he tried and he wasn't a bad kisser. Really I didn't have much to compare him to but we liked each other in a friend way and I just wanted to help him out and I needed practice too.

We let things go a little too far and I could tell he was hard when we stood up and he was embarrassed by it but I told him to knock off the shy stuff because we were friends. I told him I could feel that he was hard and I asked him if I could see it and it was one of those 'show me yours and I'll show you mine' type things. So we did and he had a big cock and there it was so hard and standing up all by its own and I reached out to touch it and was surprised at how the skin on his shaft felt but that it would slide back and forth and it was weird how it was slipping along over his hard cock. I touched that knob and it was spongy and I loved how it felt and then it 'went off' when I was tracing my finger around the edge. And it REALLY went off and it surprised me and he shot it all over my sleeve and the side of my sweater and we both laughed at how hard he EXPLODED!

I showed him what I had and it was different after he had exploded because we laughed about it and had a good talk and all was good. We never did fuck but if we had I wouldn't be standing there wondering if it was the moral thing to do because I liked him and still do. But his was the first hard cock I ever saw and touched and maybe caused to explode where it was with my friend and not really a sex date but just some guy wanting to know how to make it work.

He was really lucky to have a friend like you @Dahiana . I can relate to how surprised you were when he came. It really surprised me the first time I saw that too.

Maybe a good job you never actually fucked. Might have put you off a bit if he was that big. Nah, probably not. 😃 Lol.

We let things go a little too far and I could tell he was hard when we stood up and he was embarrassed by it but I told him to knock off the shy stuff because we were friends. I told him I could feel that he was hard and I asked him if I could see it and it was one of those 'show me yours and I'll show you mine' type things. So we did and he had a big cock and there it was so hard and standing up all by its own and I reached out to touch it and was surprised at how the skin on his shaft felt but that it would slide back and forth and it was weird how it was slipping along over his hard cock. I touched that knob and it was spongy and I loved how it felt and then it 'went off' when I was tracing my finger around the edge. And it REALLY went off and it surprised me and he shot it all over my sleeve and the side of my sweater and we both laughed at how hard he EXPLODED!

I showed him what I had and it was different after he had exploded because we laughed about it and had a good talk and all was good. We never did fuck but if we had I wouldn't be standing there wondering if it was the moral thing to do because I liked him and still do. But his was the first hard cock I ever saw and touched and maybe caused to explode where it was with my friend and not really a sex date but just some guy wanting to know how to make it work.

@Dahiana You were a good teacher, lucky guy! 😜😉😘👄👄👄