As @Amethyst quoted at the top of her post I'd have to make the observation as to some women do give blow jobs to get a boyfriend with the intent of gaining a husband and with no small amount of premeditation on their part let that bit of their giving blow jobs fall to the wayside for whatever reason. To enter into a marriage or long term relationship with giving blow jobs and seeing the pleasure it gives to their man only to withhold it or stop it altogether after cementing the deal of marriage is wrong on so many levels.
Quite some time ago I posted this on another thread
https://en.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;msg=930468
At that time my husband was the man that I gave blow jobs to and as well written by the original poster she had this to say,
I remember the deliciously soft feel of the skin on the head of his cock ... I was hooked. I loved giving them from the first and I still love giving them ...
Since the seven plus years that I posted in another post my experience with sucking cock has expanded beyond that of my beloved husband wherein I have seen and felt added dimensions to this simple but extremely intimate act of sucking the cock of the man I am with. Indeed the taste and texture and warmth and all that has been noted here in this thread are something that I savour to my very centre and those facets alone would be quite enough to see me continuing this with those men whose cocks I suck.
But as time has gone by and my experiences with my husband and other men I have learned to appreciate the fact that sucking their cocks affords me the opportunity to keep my wits about me and to be able to observe every reaction that my man gives up and enjoy and possibly revel in the fact that it is me that is causing my man to react in this way and that. Every suck and every lick or stroke of his cock as I hold him in my mouth causes a reaction in him that I am able to observe with almost a detachment that I would not otherwise be able to do when fucking him and taking up into the cum lust mist with him and us. But I am able to be the catalyst of what I see in his eyes and body and sounds he makes and I can see how every nuance of my tongue on the tip of his cock or the feel of his shaft on my lips and in my hands makes him enjoy my sucking of his cock.
I am a right selfish bitch when I suck my man's cock and assume the role of a the one to put that quiver in his body and make it so that he loses all and every ounce of inhibition when I am the cause for him ejaculating into my mouth. It was me, I was the one, the reason that for a bit of time that he gave me his cock to suck that he had that bit of ejaculatory kaleidoscope of colour and sound literally from their very centre and into my waiting mouth to swallow. And in my own twisted way of thinking I know that their ejaculate that I swallow will be digested by me and made part of my body on the cellular level. I know full well that the ejaculate that I swallow has some bit of calories and also calcium, citrate, fructose, glucose, lactic acid, magnesium, potassium, protein, zinc, water, plasma and mucus, which is served up to me from the man whose cock I suck and bring to ejaculate in my mouth.
That bit of some women falling out of love with their chosen mate because he can no longer achieve or maintain and erection and not be able to satisfy her in the ways of their younger days is all too common. But my experience has shown me that even men with chronic conditions or health issues that deny them the 'diamond cutters' of their youth are able to ejaculate and give me their essence because I care enough to suck their cock for the pure joy of seeing their face and hearing their sounds and the their body reacting this way all because I am sucking their cock.
My reward? My ego or vanity or perhaps over estimated sense of self worth in it being me who brings them their release all because of me. But as I watch them regaining their composure and becoming aware of their surroundings, I feel the soft and gentle touch in my hair or tracing my the back of my neck and that peace I see in their faces and I no longer feel the succubus claiming another man as my victim, no the man whose cock I sucked and ejaculate that I swallowed is that of someone I love or care deeply about and I am theirs to defend them in those moments after I caused their release into my mouth.
The original poster saying that 'Locking a guy down and then taking away the physical is just wrong' and this quote from @Amethyst
I think it is not ok how some ladies seem to stop doing things like giving blowjobs and even stopping having sex as well after they marry their husbands. I think it is dishonest and I think women who do that did not even love their husbands when they got married.
These women are right. 🌹