Are you (your sub) prey or brave during SM/enema sessions?

Do you (your sub) prefer to be in prey/victim role like "no... please. i can't take it anymore. please! take it out!".

Or you (your sub) prefer to be brave/provocatory like "yeah! f** me harder... oh is that pity thing supposed to scare me? .. heh.. just two liters? don't you mind to use adult volume on me?".

Or you (your sub) prefer not to play such roles an just by yourself?

Prefer being myself (something in-between this roles, maybe with a slight bias towards vulnerability), but can act differently depending on current situation: "Prey" if Master is feeling upset or aggressive (begging really turns him on), or, if I want things REALLY hard - provocative, to shut off any possible empathy

I'm surprised this doesn't have more replies. For me I think it depends on the partner but usually I'm more of the prey/victim type. I'm generally just a very anxious person so being scared or nervous in these situations is most natural for me.

And does that arouse you @Lindsay ?

@LordJim2 You'd be surprised at just how much it does. Yes, being scared and helpless arouses me *very much*

You sound like my kind of girl @Lindsay . 😃

So you prefer your sub to be the prey type then? Scared but unable(and let's be honest, probably unwilling) to stop you @LordJim2 ? Because that's exactly the type of girl I am. I'll say no and beg you to stop 100 times over but you can bet your ass I won't use my safe word unless I really mean it.

Pity you live so far away @Lindsay . 😃

The truth is, I've never really thought about it. My husband has been my only sexual partner, and he was already dominant when we met. And although I read a lot about dominance and submission, this question makes me think.

My husband is a very kind man in general, especially with me. He always speaks to me calmly and says, "Please," "Thank you," "Stay still," "Breathe," and "You know what has to happen." He doesn't like to tie me up; he prefers that I submit to punishments or experiences willingly. That is, if he's going to spank me, I have to offer my body for it. I never ask him to, as I've read some submissives do, because we both know that what happens isn't my decision, but I do have to submit to his desires.

So, I don't know if I'm a prisoner or not.

Prey or submissive ....either or with me . Depends on both our moods

@Lindsay that is my thoughts too....only called red in 25yrs. Was not what Sir was doing. Was my body being stubborn