Going alone or going public

To the crossdressers, do you like to crossdress with your girlfriend/wife, or do you prefer to do it in private?

I would love to do it with my wife but I'm honestly afraid of the reception. She's open minded but there's the nagging concern that it's not something you can put back in the box if she's not cool with it. Thus, I do i alone.

Well I like to cum while dress and be in control do mostly by myself. We have gone to a few parties together while I was dressed that is more calming and relaxing but still fun. So it a toss up for me.

I love to be naked. My girlfriend went with me to a department store and picked out my first pink lace panties. She loves for me to wear them around the house, and when we make love. My little cock no longer functions as a cock, but my hands and mouth satisfy her.