What’s the most embarrassing experience you’ve had or witnessed dealing with one of your kinks?

I realize more and more how the sense of embarrassment plays a big role in many of my kinks.

For example some of mine would be: enemas,suppositories,spanking,rectal temp, and 90% of the other topics on zity. Any of these experiences outside a sexual situation are overwhelmingly embarrassing for me.

I think mine, at least as an adult would have to be when I got a very unexpecting suppository from a young attractive nurse. Where I was mortified in the moment, it would become a huge turn on thinking about it later.

What’s your embarrassing experience or what embarrassing experience have you witnessed someone else go through?

My main kink is medfet, and embarrassment in definitely a major part of what I like about it. Standing in front of a provider and dropping my pants is soooo embarrassing. The exposure, physical touch and manipulations, and the power dynamics in a medical setting all add to my embarrassment. Like you, during the actual moment, I am mortified and cringing so bad on the inside. But afterwards, I love thinking about and fantasizing to the memories and the way they made me feel.

Also like you, I received a suppository one time in the hospital from a nurse about my age, while my wife stood next to the bed and actually helped me roll onto my side while the nurse stuck her finger up my butt. That was super embarrassing... and arousing. Other than that, my favorite embarrassments are when I first drop my pants to expose myself to the doctor. That is very nerve wracking. I also like when the doctor first looks at my butthole before a DRE, and the first touch I feel back there. I feel so vulnerable and exposed at those moments.

My most embarrassing medical experience was at the Urogynecologist. I share the full experience in my blog. But the TLDR version: I suffered a bad tear during birth that managed my sphincter. I don’t have much control back there and went to the urogyn for evaluation. He recommends surgery to repair the muscle after an extensive exam.