Fantasize or not while masturbating?

Maybe it’s a male/female thing. When I masturbate, I have to have an erotic fantasy or image in mind to reach orgasm. On the other hand, my wife says she just concentrates on the physical sensation. How about you?

For me, they go hand in hand (no pun intended) While simple visual or aural stimulation, such as porn or erotica, can get me hard and cause the desire to get off, as the finale approaches, my mind starts to add elements, and it becomes a fantasy. That said, sometimes the fantasy comes first without external stimuli.

Yep, I need an image or fantasy playing in my mind to actually orgasm and get off. Concentrating on just the physical feelings isn't enough for me.

Usually fantasize either about sexual episodes from my past, or sometimes about conversations/role-plays with certain ladies from Zity. ( you know who you are. 😃. )

Well, yeah - masturbation without fantasy is like a cake without toppings - all-in-all good, but clearly not the same.

Woman here and I have to have sexual thoughts. Fantasy and often porn.

Lately while masterbating I fantasize about my wife urinating in my mouth

During masturbation, one of the things I fantasize about is being with love of my life in a vintage scene (little house on the prairie style). I just walked in the door after a long day working on the farm. She is standing in the kitchen wearing a classic old-fashioned dress, making homemade soup and bread for our dinner. She gives me "the look" and we make passionate love in front of the crackling fireplace.

It depends. Sometimes if I’m especially in the mood and it feels especially good I’ll stop fantasizing and just focus on the sensation. This usually happens when I’m rubbing my clit without any toy or dildo.

Yes, a fantasy is really exciting for me, it's usually a dental scene, or something medical, I find the fantasy gets me tingly, and then my fingers work their magic, it never fails to get the result I need, Zity has allowed my fantasies to grow so much, and with lots of new ideas, so more fantasies means more masturbating❤️

Usually starts with a memory or fantasy. Sometimes the physical sensations take over by the time I orgasm.

A fantasy is always a good start to getting me excited and the blood flowing. Since being on Zity and talking to others on here let's just say I have more now and acted on them. Lol

Fantasy, or re-read a post on Zity. They do say that the Mind is the best sexual organ.

I will often watch, or look, at images of female auscultation and “fantasise” being the examining doctor, it helps enormously to reach a decent orgasm.!!👌

Always. I usually fantasize about my wife with legs wide open and her doc with fingers buried in her cunt and feeling around. Works every time.

I used to be able to just focus on the physical sensation and didn’t need to fantasise. Now that I’m older and perimenopausal and things don’t work quite how they used to, I have to fantasise about something that turns me on.

It depends honestly. When I was a teenager I would focus solely on achieving orgasm. The sensations. I did not ever allow myself to fantasize because I assimilated it to being dirty and shameful. It's only in my early 20s that I started doing that, and game has been changed.

But it's also not the same kind whether I'm fantasizing about my kink... or someone. If it's my kink it's much less emotional and more mechanical. The sensations are just really really strong, my pusspuss throbs like nothing else can make it do so, but the emotion isn't really there. It's like, whoa that's fucking hot, my body couldn't hold it.

If I love the person I'm guaranteed to have a really strong orgasm that also leaves a mark on me. I had a long distance ex I really loved and I once fantasized very vividly about her. While I usually have "normal" orgasms using the vibrator, here I got a really strong one and felt almost like crying after. (I never had the chance to sleep with her, but had I not lived 7000km away, I think we definitely would have crossed that line at some point...)

I'd also cum pretty hard about my recent ex (who, also, apparently dreamed of sex with me at the same time that I was fantasizing about her, or maybe it was the other way around, but either way she was dreaming very vividly of it during her naps and I would happen to get the mood at the exact same timeframe) and I gave myself some nice ones fantasizing about my current love interest, although things between us have become quite complicated lately. Made myself cum hard using my fingers on the clit only imagining her kissing and licking my neck while fingering me. I literally never come this hard using just my fingers.

I definitely fantasize while masturbating, some are just fantasies while others are actual sessions from the past.

My all time favorite was sex that I had with a 47 year old woman when I was in my early 30’s, this was the best sex I’ve ever had.

Other actual events was when is was 14 and stayed with my aunt for the summer I received 2 bare bottom paddlings.

And a fancy from my aunts paddings was her giving me an enema and her asking me to paddle her and give her an enema.

Also like to watch spanking and enema porn both men and women receiving and giving, the best for me is when both are completely naked.

It depends on the mood and the horniness. Sometimes it's just enough to concentrate about the masturbation itself. But mostly my fantasy range is from sexual experiences from the past, wishes/dreams of it, porn scenes or fantasies about listening to the hearts of beautiful women or to be auscultated at my heart. I also masturbate while sharing/listening on HBP.

When this first started chastity training/ feminizing my wife would make me watch sexy shemale porno after a few days of being locked up I couldn’t help myself getting hard and dripping I would do anything to get out of my chastity cage we would watch these sexy big cock girls playing with each other she would have me riding her strapon and have me suck on another big cock dildo watching the porno she would tell me she would take off the cage but I would have to cum doing what I was doing,,,,it wouldn’t take much after out of the cage a few strokes and I would cum on her chest having me lick up the cum off her . Then she wanted me to Lear how to cum in my chastity cage . After a while it happened. She would make me fantasize about those sexy big cock girls till I had my orgasm.

85 times out of 100, it needs to be a fantasy of some sort, or an object related to the fantasy.

If it's a fantasy, it is predominately my laying on a bed and recieving extremely sloppy oral sex from an attractive young woman in either a school uniform with white opaque tights and black dress shoes, or an ABDL footed sleeper, culminating in my ejaculating in her mouth and her struggling with it.

Either that, or I am watching the same girl on the bed, masturbating herself, and wearing a mask because of some medical need.

And usually the girl is based heavily on a girl I knew in real life who made me comfortable with my medfet.

If it's an object related to fantasy, it is a mask, which is my medfet. Throughout my life, I have been attracted to female patients needing to be masked. It started with the "black beauty" anesthesia masks of yore, but largely pivoted to protective masks that we see on transplant patients and for COVID and other transmissible things. The sexiest masks to look at on their own, without a girl wearing it, for me are half mask cartridge respirators, usually with P100 cartridges on the sides, and usually black, with a thick halo strap set-up. And I like looking at it on the inside, as if it is ready to be put on me.

@Luscious_Liza Wow! Everything about that post is very hot. 🔥 You are so lucky to have a partner who understands your kinks, supports your exploration, and enjoys pushing you past your limits in just the ways that you want to be pushed. Please tell her that your good sharing here on Zity is making the readers horny. 🌹

@Hookajoe Hello

Funny thing is it was her idea chastity and feminizing mostly she knew about my anal needs so starting reading and this kink and went with it.

It usually takes some sort of mental stimulus to become aroused and get an erection, either pure fantasy or reading or looking at something erotic.

When I was younger I would say that masturbation always involved some form of fantasy.

More recently, there have been times when I experiment with the different sensations I can achieve by touching different parts of my genitals and, therefore, am more focused on the sensation--looking for some novelty, I suppose.

Usually lesbian sex turns me on. Particularly anal. Is this fantasy? Of course! I like women, they’re hot.

@Rigel Nothing quite like girl on girl action to make one burn in pleasure! 😉

And nothing quite like a woman to please a woman...

And nothing quite like a woman to please a woman...

@Hi_iaka I hope I get to experience it again some day. Its what I like to think about or watch when I'm playing on my own. Especially oral scenes or fingering with intense kissing.

I also focus on the physical feelings and sensations, which means that the orgasm occurs relatively quickly and intensely...

I either fantasize or watch a video of a couple having sex. I especially like the videos where I can see the woman's body as she is having sex.

Always a fantasy and sometimes visual stimulation to go with it for me