Unfulfilled medfet/RT fantasies

I assume that most, if not all, of the people reading this have some sort of erotic connection to RTs. Some of us eroticize taking someone else's RT, having their's taken, or both. I know that for myself, for most of my life I have eroticized taking someone else's rectal temperature in some form. However, other than maybe a couple of single exceptions it has pretty much only remained a fantasy. From the posts I read it seems that many of you have had the opportunity to fulfill their RT fantasies, but I wonder how many have just enjoyed the fantasy in their imaginations and have never had the chance to act them out?

It depends on the fantasy, but, I've been able to enact quite a few of them.

I was very lucky. at age ten to thirteen, I and a like minded male friend, when we could fine alone time. we would get a thermometer from my or his bathroom and play doctor.🌡️🧴🧻

A year or so ago, I met up with a man who wanted to do a roleplay exam on me and he did my RT. It was not a fantasy of mine until then, but after that roleplay it became a fantasy of mine. I really enjoyed lying there naked in front of a strict, handsome, clothed man twice my age, all of which just reinforced his authority over my body during the exam. It was a bit uncomfortable but that somehow made it better. However, it hasn't happened ever since.

I’ve reached a point in life where I’m ok with not having fulfilled many of my fantasies. It’s not always worth the time lost and the effort spent. Allowing your imagination to take over, means that you have nothing to lose.

As a disabled person I am under watch so 90 percent of my desires remain on the screen or in my head.

@IamArrow I've played with RTs occasionally but it's been years now. It's awkward asking my spouse.

I can’t ask my spouse either, so I just fantasize about it and/or take my own rectal temp. I’ve had some very nice exchanges with similarly interested women on Zity this year, and that’s been a lot of fun. Wish I’d discovered this community earlier!

@RTF, I am mystified why you can’t ask your spouse and @Jacana , why you feel it is so awkward to ask yours. Although rectal temps are a bit kinjy, they are absolutely harmless. It would be easy for your spouses to grant something you are obviously panting for. I realize that some are totally turned off by anything having to do with The Back Door. My experience is FAR more ladies said yes than no. You never know until you inquire and you’re asking someone who obviously is no stranger. Don’t ask/Don’t get. Good luck

@MarcNY My spouse indulged me in the past. I suppose that if she does not propose, it it does not interest her. It's awkward asking people to do things they are not interested in.

I asked my wife many years ago and she was so freaked out by it that I haven’t brought it up since.

My spouse has taken my rectal temperature several times but does not like doing it. I do fantasize about her changing her mind.

So far, only fantasies.

Like @Orxxy , I have had my temperature taken in the past by my wife, who was kind enough to indulge my fantasy. Unfortunately, she also doesn’t get the same thrill out of it, so I have not insisted. But I also keep hoping she might change her mind.

My fantasies have always involved recreating childhood experiences, especially one involving a traumatic hospital stay (link to it on my wall). While I have branched out in my fantasies, all of which are anal themed and a central part is having my rectal temperature taken by a strict but kind nurse that is older than me. I act out these fantasies on myself as my wife is extremely vanilla and would not understand.