A remarkable encounter

Hi everyone - unrelated to my enthusiasm for sex or anything else on God's green earth, I had the most remarkable, random encounter last week and I would love to know your reactions? What follows isn't a story or a fantasy, so I figure this is the right place to post this:

I was at my favorite beach in Southern California, swimming (or rather, floating on my back) in the gentle surf, as is my wont. I no longer live in that area but I swim there whenever I'm back. This time, I'd been in the water maybe five minutes when a female voice calls out to me from about thirty feet away: "you look like you're having fun!" I peered over and this young woman was gently swimming in my direction. I did the polite thing and returned her pleasantry, said I loved "swimming like an otter" in the gentle surf.

Rather than moving on, as one normally would after a random exchange like that, she stayed on, trying to engage me in conversation. She introduced herself. (Salma.) She told me her age. ("I just turned thirty. How old are you?") I told her my age, which was 2x hers, and she said "oh, I like older men!". Okay, yeah. This has never happened before, but she's marked me, wants to somehow entice me -- but, while swimming at the beach?! -- into being her sugar daddy.

She told me she was single, that her dad hadn't approved of her boyfriends, but that her dad had passed away recently. I was sorry to hear it.

"How about you?" she asked. So I showed her my wedding ring, said I was happily married with adult children. She smiled a beautiful smile -- she was quite attractive, with a beautiful, wide smile and perfect teeth -- and said "that's okay! I'm not talking about having an affair or anything!"

At this point I started to wonder if maybe she was a bit mental? But she was very sweet, and wasn't really being all that suggestive other than what I've already described. But her manner was friendly, familiar, flirtatious -- and I remained suspicious that she wanted something from me. Despite my suspicious, I have to admit I liked the way she was talking to me, even if the whole thing was a bit weird.

At this point we were standing on the sand, the water up around our chests. As the water receded, she observed my upper body and expressed surprise at how fit I am. "You don't look 60!!" I was flattered.

The water receded further still, and I told her -- figuring I hadn't asked for any of this, so it's all good -- that if she looked down I would be embarrassed. Because my body had betrayed me: I had an enormous erection poking straight up and tent-poling my swim trunks.

"Oh, no, [my name]!" - and she got another very wide smile. "Let's swim out here a bit so we can have some privacy."

OMG - I hadn't expected that! This was a random encounter *in the surf* and it's unlike anything I'd ever experienced before.

Now we were swimming closer to each other, smiling, our hands sometimes lightly touching. And then I resumed my "otter" floating, my feet near her torso as she smiled at me. I gently hugged her with my feet.

As I did that, she stepped closer to me and reached toward my shoulders with both of her arms. Now we were standing, and she drew herself really close to me, her arms around my neck and her beautiful face an inch from mine. "I'm not going to kiss you!" she said with a smile. And she didn't. But she pressed her body into mine and oh my god it felt SO good. I guess the idea of intimately hugging a complete stranger, albeit an attractive young woman, isn't repulsive to me.

We embraced for a minute, then fell away. I confess I invited her to confirm for herself how aroused I was. She said "I already felt it!", but she smiled and gently grabbed my erect cock and balls and caressed me for a few seconds.

We resumed floating, face to face, and she let me caress her breasts, her nipples erecting to my touch. We spoke softly, encouragingly.

That was more or less the end of the encounter, though. I had a pal waiting for me on the sand so we could go get a drink! If she'd let me, if we'd had the time, I surely would have done more, though it would have been a sin.

She gave me her cell number, which I remembered, because we texted each other hello. But that was it.

I really do think she wanted me to be her sugar daddy. But we established very early on that I don't live anywhere near Southern California, so it would be futile for her to pursue that with me. "Nevertheless, she persisted."

What can any of this mean? The only thing I can think is that, once she'd seen how she had aroused me, she was flattered and wanted to enjoy holding her body to mine, feeling my hard cock against her body.

Question: is that a reasonable interpretation? It can be flattering to know that you've made someone sexually aroused, but would a woman really want to feel the guy's erection against her body if she doesn't know him at all? Was she still trying to "make" me as a sugar daddy, even though I was a lost cause? Or did she genuinely want to engage in actual foreplay and enjoy herself?

Be a sugar daddy ...... for God's sake!

@jonormal I know, but...I live thousands of miles away!

Be her sugar daddy? Not a good idea. You could be throwing away more than you get.

Would your wife be cool with what happened? Fine with you allowing another woman to feel your hard-on? Perfectly happy you touched her breasts? Good with you spending money or time on Salma if you did indeed become her sugar daddy?

Or would your wife become bitter and closed, file for divorce, poison your kids' opinions of you, decide to use you instead of respect you?

Salma sounds to me like someone who uses people. And she does it with making an older guy feel sexy.

Be her sugar daddy? Not a good idea. You could be throwing away more than you get.

Would your wife be cool with what happened? Fine with you allowing another woman to feel your hard-on? Perfectly happy you touched her breasts? Good with you spending money or time on Salma if you did indeed become her sugar daddy?

Or would your wife become bitter and closed, file for divorce, poison your kids' opinions of you, decide to use you instead of respect you?

Salma sounds to me like someone who uses people. And she does it with making an older guy feel sexy.

Agree with PN. It's a nice ego boost for the moment, but long term it's a disappointing money trap - or worse.

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Run away!

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I’m not interested in whether I should be her sugar daddy. I’m not going to do that.

I’m interested in why she took me further out to play with me after she already knew I WOULDN’T be her daddy. What was that about?

Oh, honey. Be so careful.

Genuine women don't act like that.

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I’m not interested in whether I should be her sugar daddy. I’m not going to do that.

I’m interested in why she took me further out to play with me after she already knew I WOULDN’T be her daddy. What was that about?

@MDausmic You want to know why she took you further out to play after you already said YOU WOULDN'T be her daddy because you were married? She thought if she got you out further, with a little more play, she could persuade you to go all the way. She definitely was willing to go as far as you were willing to go without regard for your marriage and your wife. She didn't care if she destroyed your marriage and your wife, and she was getting pretty close to doing that. If you would have said, "I'll be your sugar daddy" and if you would have kept going with the physical petting and play, she would have happily gone all the way.

If you value your marriage and your wife, count yourself lucky that you didn't go any further than you did.

I said I wouldn’t be her daddy because I live really far away. She seriously knew I was worthless to her as a sugar daddy. And we certainly weren’t going to fuck in the water, or in a room somewhere. I was there with a friend. Nothing could possibly happen and I’d been very clear about that. And yet! Still she swam out with me and pressed into me. Strictly for marketing purposes? She was scraping the bottom of the barrel if so.

I’m not interested in whether I should be her sugar daddy. I’m not going to do that.

I’m interested in why she took me further out to play with me after she already knew I WOULDN’T be her daddy. What was that about?

I am sure she’s heard that before and she’s changed minds. I strongly doubt you’re the first person she’s done this to.

Sugar daddys can be remote and just pay the bills for an occasional hook up. It can lead to made up business trips just to get a piece…or more. Financial domination, blackmail. She thought she might have a catch, one of many she tried to hook.

I had a girl at who worked for me get suggestive about an affair. It would have led to her exploiting me for promotions, raises etc. She was attractive. Fortunately my bigger brain prevailed!

@MDausmic This just rings so many alarm bells. Flattering for sure but maybe just delete her number & move on before you dig yourself into a whole lot of trouble.

I’m sure you’re right. And there’s truly no risk I’ll follow up. I’d also thought through the risk of extortion. It’s all just too freaky for me. But an entirely new experience at a point in life where those don’t come as often because we’ve seen so much already. Or maybe I’ve just been sheltered.

Her confidence and technique made me think I wasn’t her first target. She was sweet and nice, but it was such a brazen thing to try. I figure she wouldn’t have if it hadn’t worked for her before. But she could have slapped my hand away. Did she like my caressing her breasts? Did she like feeling my hard cock as I liked having her feel it? Why not. She’d put in the work, why not reap the reward. Her sales pitch had already fallen on deaf ears and she knew it. So for both of us I think it was a kind of freebie. I’d like to think so, anyway. Even if there was more going on for her than pure pleasure.