@Sopaysophie said,
If taking solo or when self and husband took an enema for actual need we were seen a few times by our own two. I don't think its a bad thing when they are small, knowing enemas are not a baby thing, that when needed grown ups still have to take them.
Like you and your husband, my wife and I used enemas for both health and pleasure. And our kids, received enemas on doctor orders for constipation. So, when they required an enema, as a rule, we usually took care of that during their evening bath. As they got older, after receiving a couple of enemas at bath time, then put to bed. It wasn’t unusual, for one or both, to need to use the bathroom again. Walking in on us from time to time, as we gave one another a couple of enemas, after the kids were in bed.
From an early age, we purposely let them see mom and dad giving each other enemas. So, they’d know what to expect, when it came time for them to receive a couple of enemas. Helping take some of the uncertainty out of what was going to happen. Making them feel a little more comfortable.
As they got older, we used those occasions to teach them personal hygiene, including how to give themselves and each other enemas. Much like, my siblings and I had been taught, around the same age by mom and our aunts. It was also, a perfect opportunity, to start having a conversation with them about basic sexual activity/feelings. Being enemas started inducing feelings of a similar nature around the same age.