Diaper sex without the SAP

I really want to try anal sex while I'm / someone else is wearing a diaper but can't seem to find a way to do it without the SAP getting everywhere, and the absorbing properties of SAP isn't conducive to very fun anal sex...

I've tried making a hole then using various sticky tapes to seal the edges, but a tape that works on the plastic backing often doesn't stick to the inner material and visa versa. Also sticky tape doesn't look or feel very nice. I saw elsewhere that sewing the edges of the hole together could work but I'm not sure.

Anybody got any ideas or experience with this?

I think cloth is the way to go. No SAP and easy to modify I think. I never wore cloth before so it’s not based on knowledge though …

Spike

I agree with Spikey7, shouldn't be to hard to modify a cloth diaper.

I really want to try anal sex while I'm / someone else is wearing a diaper…

I've tried making a hole then using various sticky tapes to seal the edges…

@Berko I have no direct experience with holes in diapers, but this is the sort of inventive puzzle I enjoy pondering. Do you want this diaper for the giver or the receiver to wear? Or maybe both?

Assuming the giver has an attached penis and not a strap-on, I would think a small hole properly placed would allow everything to stay put and work well. On the other hand, the receiver’s pucker is set back a bit between the cheeks, and body positioning as well as angle of approach will vary the ideal placement for the diaper hole. The hole may need to be larger since the diaper surface is farther away from the sphincter, and alignment will be rather unpredictable.

Cloth diapers sound good from a modification point of view, but maybe not as good from an absorption point of view. I would draw the circle you plan to cut out, then using a zig-zag stitch sew around the circle approximately a half inch outside the circle. That way when you cut it out there will be about a half inch of fabric available to adjust, fray, and soften. This will keep the opening gentle in contact. Zig-zag stitching is more flexible on stretchy fabric or in situations where you need the stitching to have give.

For disposable diapers with SAP I might try a glue approach. Fabric stores sell bias tape(not adhesive) which is a long strip of fabric folded a couple times. With a disposable diaper you might be able to cut the hole and then use fabric glue to attach the bias tape, concealing the cut edge. Glue one edge of the tape to the outside surface, curl around the cut edge and glue to the inside surface. Do not glue right at the cut edge to keep it soft as possible. Depending on the width of the bias tape this will help get the stiff glued areas away from the edge. This way the phallus will really only be in contact with the fabric bias tape at the fold, and not in touch with the hardened glue zone.

The bias tape will also provide quite a visual aesthetic, highlighting the hole and it’s intended purpose. This sounds like a fun craft project, leading to an even more fun activity. Keep us posted on your experiments. You could also put some photos into an album for us to see your handiwork.

Cloth diaper modification would be the easiest as you don't have to worry about the sap. if insistent on using a disposable you might be able to run it through a sewing machine with the right settings to make a contained zone you can cut out. kind of like a button holer does but in a larger area. that way you can cue it out, not leak sap and its still mostly functional.

I have done this both by tape, and sewing. I turned to sewing because of the same tape sticking problem you described. Sewing does work, essentially I sew a 3" diameter circle in the diaper where my b-hole is, then cut out the area enclosed by the stitching. Im an absolute amateur sewer and do it by hand, and it takes me ~45mins, aided greatly by a 3d printed guide/clamp thingy i made. Long, somwhat strong needles, and a thimble help, its surprisingly difficult penetrating the diaper. It works, it looks way better, and you dont get unstuck, luby tape ends tickling you. Bit of a chore to do, but not terrible.