Does anyone elses wife get really turned on giving you an enema

Unfortunately due to some internal problems my wife can't receive enemas, but she really gets off giving me one.

We have a higginsons syringe with a curved couch nozzle.,and she says that the sight of this disappearing into my tight anus is the first turn on.

I'm then in her complete control which she loves, she will usually gently trickle the first two or three squirts in, followed by a couple of really hard squirts and so it continues.

All that I can do is lay on my back and take it!

Whilst watching the level of the warm soapy water in the container steadily dropping, knowing where it's going.

She uses her right hand to work the bulb, whilst her left hand gives attention to my very erect penis., making sure not to climax whilst still taking the enema.

After expelling she will either bring me,or we have some pretty amazing sex.

I'm a fortunate man, with a great wife with a common interest.

How has anyone else fared?

You are a very lucky man.😁

Congratulations having a partner so willing to share the pleasure between you. From reading and chatting with others, this is not as common as so many would truly wish for. It's too bad, say enemas, should become more attractive growing older. If you need it, why not have pleasure getting it or vs versa. Also love the Higginson. Lay on your back with a smile cause you did find the one in a million!!

Not a wife but had a girlfriend and I was afraid to bring it up about my love of enemas. After about 1 year I told her about my coffee habit 3 times a week. She did not seem to surprised about it and said would you want me to give them to you. Not quite what I expected but said yes that would be wonderful.

About once or twice a month she would say I think you need to make an appointment soon. That was her way of saying I am going to give you one and Mr. Friendly perked up pretty quick. It would always be early in the morning when telling me but appointment would be later in the afternoon. I believe she did that to tease me and make me think about it for the rest of the day.

I was aways told to lay on my stomach with legs apart and her in the middle of them. She played as a nurse and talked me through all the things she was doing to me telling me I was being a very good boy.

She had purchased some play items and I never knew what she was going to use on me after I got up to relieve myself of the coffee enema.

Well, not quite, butt... My ladylove is very vanilla in most (not all, but...) aspects and if I ask has no problems giving me an enema. However, given her somewhat parochial upbringing (not in the religious sense, but both her parents were public school educators, so....) is very naïve regarding most things sexual. She is very understanding about my kinks and has no problems with me visiting several e-nurse/dommes every month (or more!!!). In her "defense", she is very focused on doing things "the right way" and I, being a guy, am not real patient giving instructions so I just get many of my pleasures elsewhere. I do love her for trying as far as that goes...but when you are watching porn and she is constantly asking questions, it does get a bit frustrating!!! .

For me enemas and wife went hand on hand since the beginning of our relationship. It started the first time I hinted I would have loved to play with her butt hole... she said a\she was not ready for it and I perked up and said I would take care of it...we were in my cabin on a cruise ship and my faithful traveling bag was soon ready and she enjoyed it at the fullest. Did not take long to her to apply the knowledge to prepare my hole for her ministrations. A strap-on was a wedding gift. For many years we shared enemas and sex in a very satisfying way, every time we had the time/place... not always when raising two daughters. Never had any fancy equipment until girls moved out but the ever present traveling bag was always ready for double duties...

I had one older, by 8 yrs, lady friend that got enthusiastic about giving me enema. She called herself “Mommy” and treated me like a child.

You are truly lucky. Nothing anal from my wife and really despite having permission not able to find a female to share enemas with. Oh well.

@Armadillo4 I'm in the same position here. Like you say, Oh well! Hopefully find someone close by soon.

Lucky guy! I am envoius!

My wife is really aware of massaging my prostate with the nozzle. The turn on for her is turning me on. I always am the one making the suggestion so I'd say turned on would be a stretch, having fun in the moment probably more accurate.

My wife enjoys giving me an enema and on occasion will suggest that I have not had one in a while. No matter what excuse I might have, usually. that I was busy at that moment, she is typically quite insistent and it isn't long before warm water is filling the bag and then shortly after that bag is filling me. I have to admit that she gives one great enema, but that I usually enjoy getting one from her too.

My wife enjoys giving me an enema and on occasion will suggest that I have not had one in a while. No matter what excuse I might have, usually. that I was busy at that moment, she is typically quite insistent and it isn't long before warm water is filling the bag and then shortly after that bag is filling me. I have to admit that she gives one great enema, but that I usually enjoy getting one from her too.

@Westy You're a LUCKY man!!!

During our first vacation together, a year after we got married, my wife and I spent a week visiting her best friend from college. On the second day, the two girls approached me about having a threesome. Needless to say, I was floored. The strange thing was the first time I met Peggy (not her real name) I wanted to get in her pants in a big way. Now my wife was giving me an engraved invitation to take her best friend to bed and have sexual intercourse.

That evening during foreplay, after we undressed one another, we explored each other in all the naughty ways we could think of. Giving one another a couple of enemas in the process. When we finished cleaning each other out, my wife gave Peggy another rinse enema. Only this time, while she was holding the two-quart enema, my wife had me mount her. As I buried my penis deep inside Peggy’s vagina, my wife watched as we had sexual intercourse, really turning her on even more than before. I took my time with Peggy, but when she started having an orgasm, it triggered my own. Needless to say, once Peggy and I came down, it was my wife’s turn. I watched as Peggy gave my wife an enema, then as she held it, told me to mount my wife and really give it to her. Like Peggy, I took it slow with my wife having intercourse, because she had a full belly, plus I wanted both of us to have good orgasms.

Like Peggy and I, my wife and I both had really good orgasms. Her orgasm started slow and buildup to the point where her vagina was clamping down on my penis sending me into a orgasm an exploding cum deep inside my wife.

The next evening the girls reversed the scenario. As our foreplay was winding down, instead of giving Peggy an enema, my wife gave me an enema. Then, as I was holding the two quart enema, she told Peggy to bury my penis deep inside her vagina, having intercourse with my wife’s best friend for a second time. After Peggy and I came down and I’d relieved myself. The girls switched places, Peggy giving me an enema, and my wife riding my penis.

„Does anyone elses wife get really turned on giving you an enema„

Fate has been very kind to me. In my late twenties, a wonderful creature, a nurse, wandered into my life, and has stayed with me ever since. She gives fantastic enemas. This excites her greatly. I, in turn, love to give her the same feeling. What she hates, however, is when I give myself an enema. That, she says, is strictly her business. I love her so much.

You guys definitely have way more fun than me! The only time I’ve been approached is when someone needs directions.

My girlfriend gives me enemas and I think I've posted about that here before. She will insist I take the full bag (four quart) but she will be lenient about stopping it and starting it.

Sometimes, if she thinks I'm being disagreeable, she will order me into the bathroom and tell me to prepare a large enema and wait on the floor. After she's waited a long time, probably to make me nervous, she comes in and insert the nozzle too gently, starts the water on full, and stands with her arms folded.

I can get to where I'm cramping to the point where I don't think I'm going be able to tolerate it and she will sometimes stop for the cramps to subside. But she always starts again.

She won't admit it, but she does like both kinds of enemas. Sometimes I think she likes the punishment kind better!

I am a little surprised that this inquiry was not made to the wives rather than the husbands. Since my husband knows nothing about zity, I have to answer for him. I freely admit that I enjoy giving my husband enemas watching him squirm at times as the bag is nearly empty. Having total power over him during an enema is an exciting turn on for me and him as well I might add. That coupled with a good spanking is like a double treat for us both. It is also a mutually enjoyed turn on for us when he gives me an enema. and/or spanking as well. Denise

@Denise said,

I am a little surprised that this inquiry was not made to the wives rather than the husbands.

A little over a year after being married, my wife approached me about having a threesome with her best friend Peggy (not her real name). The funny thing was, the first time I met Peggy, shortly after meeting my wife. I wanted to get in her panties big time. Now, my wife was giving me an engraved invitation, to do just that. It was something, I couldn’t resist or turn down. The threesome experience my wife and I had with Peggy, opened the door a few months later, allowing us to accept an offer from another couple to engage in a foursome. It turned us both on, watching each other, being given enemas or having sexual intercourse with the other couple. And they us. It added the spice we needed, to establish and maintain, a good health sexual relationship. In both cases, it was the girls who approached the boys about having an illicit relationship.

Rick6981:

Great points...especially the last thing you say about the women arranging the menage a trois.

I've had a couple of friends who were let's say, active… who told me that the women has to set it up. I've never been involved in something like this but believe that's the truth.

It comes back to my understanding that men are very little about women and how they make decisions. So, if I wanted to have something like that happen, I would certainly be extra nice to my girlfriend or wife and listen to what she wants. I then would ask her if she ever thought about such a thing and see if I could encourage her or find out what it would take for her to do it.

Similar to @Denise giving hubby an enema is, and always has been, a turn-on for me.

In the early days it was his horrified look when he saw a full enema bag waiting just for him. Today, it's the absolute pleasure he gets from a nice warm enema.

Recently, we were fooling around on a rainy cold Sunday afternoon and the next thing we were in the bathroom and I was preparing a very warm enema for hubby's enjoyment. Lubing up his puckered up anus and dipping my finger inside, I could feel him getting relaxed and ready for what was to come. Needless to say, this was exciting me to no end.

As I lay on the floor along side him, he caressed my hosed legs and his tongue found the arch of my foot as he probed the inside of his favorite red sole pumps. As the enema nozzle penetrated his rectum and the warm water began to flow, I noticed he took his hand and rearranged his penis and balls so they would be more comfortable as his excitement was transmitted through them. Meanwhile, I'm pinching my nipples and furtively rubbing my special spot while I'm manipulating the silicone nozzle that is filling his rectum. As the last of the enema flowed in, my lips found his "special spot" and it was all over. Thankfully, hubby returned the favor later in the afternoon!

Giving hubby an enema is always an adventure. And I'm happy to be the tour guide that enjoys it as much as he does!

Have fun and play safe!

Deb

I started-out “having sex” with enemas. All of my “firsts” involved them. It was a while before accidentally tripping over someone else who was turned-on by them. The last year of High School and first couple of college were equally bleak, but the “changes” from England ended that. Although the partners at that time were not exactly “friendly” outside of our shared interest in “butt stuff,” which started with enemas. And she lived 200 miles away.

I have been lucky that almost everyone with whom I bring up the subject has found them equally exciting, save for a couple of people, who found them to be fun, but “too much work” to indulge with any ‘regularity.’

The wife, when I married, was tolerant, at first, simply out of necessity, due to constant constipation afflicting not just both of us, but also most of our Social Circle at the time (I was amazed at how many simply rejected out-of-hand the idea of using enemas to correct that problem, when otherwise they would be out of commission for days, dealing with the problem). It was during a specific “event” where she agreed to something for a sex show that she discovered “OH! NOW I get it!” But she remained terrified anyone would find out, especially her mother (confusing since I know her mother was a frequent user).

Now, I only see a few people with whom I am sexually involved, and only one of those has substantial independent experiences (and indulges as often as she can). While the other I finally confessed to the fetish, which she DID NOT understand, despite having a “pronounced preference” for anal sex (Her daughter refers to it as. “Butt sex affliction she inherited from her mother”). When I tried to explain “You know how you say you like it when I come inside your butt. It’s like that… but MORE. And, yes… It really takes some prep if you don’t want to deal with any “mess” that can occur.

I did recently meet a retired nurse who is a bit older than I who made a really cryptic comment about “Things doctors afflict on their patients that can just ruin some perfectly good deviations.” Saying “And then some people go looking for it.” There was a lot of chemistry, but I stupidly forgot to ask for any contact info.

Other than that… The Various wired growths on an in me are the only things that illicited enemas. And those were… Weird. Although I have a REALLY WEIRD Oncologist, who has an even weirder Nurse Practitoner, who is who takes care of “Treatments” with her “Three Bears” (although… I’d say that “Baby Bear” is a BIT Twinkish, and not “Bearish” at all). She admitted outright that “This is the sort of thing I would do for fun in my spare time” (Two of the “Bears,” Mama and Baby”, both nodded and affirmed it. Technically they are Nurses and Health Care Techs. She admitted that after observing that I seemed especially conflicted about the treatment (bicompound enema to causer DNA tagged gold to adhere to tumors in the colon. It’s kind of like the 2-part expanding foam insulation, but doesn’t solidify). When I tried to equivocate, she said “Do you know how many people I have seen trying to pretend that they aren’t at all interested in enemas, sexually, given who our principal clientele is? You are doing a worse than average job of hiding it.”

But that just doesn’t have the same thrill without the intimacy parts.