How to make close friends know your needs.

I have always been open about everything, without pushing it on people. When I'm on holiday, my neighbors have a key to watch my cats. I always hang my 2 Enema bags freely open in the bathroom. And nothing is hidden in any way. So they can go into the drawers and see all the toys and more. Then they might be tempted to try something new and examine everything I have during the weeks I'm on vacation. A good way to be open without saying anything. My neighbor Jeanette has learned a lot. You can't help but hear how often she Flush her toilet. After all, they are wall to wall. So you know she has learned something new. She has become a secret klismo .😋

On her birthday she got a hand mixer and a Magic Wand. As I told her. Something for health and something for enjoyment. We have known each other for many years. We know each other well.

Exactly, being open and do not hide it. First it looks normal and if they have questions, they can ask. I keep my bag hanging behind the bathroom door, all in the family and close friends know I had been using it with my wife. Chemo was wrecking havoc in her insides and enemas calmed and regularized her.

It was in that period that I started to get very close with my neighbors, knew them over 30 years, but it was just neighborly knowledge as I was at sea all the time.Being home I started to meet them socially, especially him. She was very closed to my wife and was helping me taking care of her. Of course she knew about the enemas. After my wife passed, the bag kept being there. To some questions I answered that I might need it. One day he asked about it. He had some recurring problems and taking laxatives was becoming a problem. His wife had told him to ask me about it. To make it short I ended up giving him one, and then more. He was hooked. Took a little but I slowly converted him into an enema lover and was able to have him give me some. The step from enema to friendly sex was a short one. All this improved his sex drive and eventually he confessed to his wife. She took it very well he told me she even used their toy on him, first time and she started to give him enemas too. I taught him how to give it to her so that she'll enjoy them and thay ended up having anal sex. For a while she pretended not to know anything but knowing was getting her excited so, one day, I was over for dinner and before I was offered an enema aperitif. They had talked about it, really hoped it would happen, but was surprised to. We talked a lot, she got so excited she came right at the start. From that moment we enjoyed an healthy enema/sex threesome. Lasted a couple of years. Now they are in Florida. Hopefully I'll get to see them every now and then. All this thank to the enema baf in full view. Still hanging there, you'll never know when someone will ask about it....