How frequently you meet similar minded people

For me, it has always been difficult to meet like-minded women. Back when I was in India, I used to share my fetish during intimate moments with casual partners, but the responses were usually:

"I have no idea what you're talking about."

"Seriously? That excites you?"

"I might have experienced it as a child, but I don’t really remember."

I even tried chatting with a few moms online—around 20 or so—but only one showed any genuine interest. She was interested find ways how to give her son a suppository while trying to avoid tantrums.

This made me wonder: is it genuinely this difficult to find women with a similar mindset, even globally? Or is it something that’s especially rare or taboo in Indian culture?

PS- I am now in Sweden for almost a year, still trying to figure out how the fetish things work here, and really looking forward to meet or chat with some people who are enema enthusiast.

It's difficult but you just have to keep trying. It's even hard to find like-minded women here on Zity who are interested in a relationship of just enemas for enemas sake with no strings attached.

Recently I became reacquainted with a non-Zity old friend and somehow enemas came up, I likely mentioned it because both she and I have a common interest in things that are health related. She calmly mentioned how she would ask her mother for enemas for the relief of menstrual issues. She said that she could not give herself enemas which I found odd and would not ask her husband to give them to her. So I assumed she acquired an affinity for enemas. So like the Sagittarius I am, I stuck my foot in my mouth and told her that I would be willing to give her enemas. End of story. I should be spanked and put to bed holding an enema.

Best of luck @suppofun-india.

@easy123 How did she react, if it’s not indiscreet?

Very open @Jacana until I put my foot in my mouth. I had a lot of questions I wanted to ask like whether her mother used a bag or bulb but after my stupid comment she said the conversation about enemas was over.

BTW, I have since brought up the enema word in some context in subsequent emails but have gotten no response. I keep hoping. It sure would be nice to have a fellow friend of enemas to chat with. Maybe more sometime.

@easy123 Well, she’s married and it would be awkward wouldn’t it?

Maybe @Jacana. Her husband is somewhat disabled and she and he seem so have troubles. Plus she was born on the day after the close of the Sagittarius season and Sagittarius (like me) have no issues with guilt when there are extenuating issues in a marriage. I think if she really had an issue she would've ended everything and I would not have heard from her again.

@easy123 So maybe you were too much in a hurry..

I believe now that that was exactly what caused the issue @Jacana.