Telling my provider about my fetish

Hi im what you call nerodivergent and I have a provider. And I've wanting to tell her about my fetish the only thing is every time I want to. I get scared and also I have roommate that has hearing aids. And he could probably hear through the walls. How do I tell my provider without being scared

I’m not exactly sure why you feel the need to?

But, you could write a note, and hand it to her. It could later be destroyed, if desired too.

You don’t provide many details so it is hard to give advice. If this person is a professional provider they could lose their position if they become involved sexually with a patient, if this is the case I would strongly advise against any overtures. If they are professional the best that will happen would be that they would turn you down, at worst they may have to report your advance and you would be assigned a new care giver.

If this person is more of a friend or long term acquaintance that you don’t feel would compromise your relationship you could always print out a favorite story from the web and leave it somewhere they would see. If they were interested in pursuing they may comment, if not interested they would not bring it up further. The downside is if they don’t proceed they will know your inner secrets.