Naked male patient with flaccid penis

Does anyone else have the same problem as me? I like seeing a completely naked male patient on the medical table waiting to be examined, but with a limp penis. And I don't like it at all if his penis is erect.

Why don't you like erect penises?

@ILuvLadyDocs because in a real exam, a patient would never get an erection at the beginning. For me, it would go from something real to something sexual without even starting the exam.

@maria_fetish It depends on the age of the patient and circumstances. If it’s just a genital exam at my age by a female doctor I can usually get by remaining at half mast, but in a full physical by the time my underwear comes down I’m usually already there. When I was much younger it almost always went erect right away.

Yes, in a medical exam a male should be soft...out of respect for the Dr., unless directed to become erect.

There’s no “should” about it, @betawishes. Not all of us can control our erections. I can’t.

I have the same problem as you, but with women, I love seeing girls lying down completely naked and having the doctor perform an abdominal and pelvic inspection on them.

My experience, after being examined by female doctors/NP's and had bed baths & showers, that I'vep not had erections. I'd love to have maria_fetish see me naked!

I did get an erection the first time I had a foley catheter inserted. I needed an external catheter after an injury at age 17; application involved manipulation of my penis, and at that age I rapidly got an erection.

Erections during exams? I think it's totally unpredictable. Throughout my medical checkups, I never experienced any erection when being examined by doctors.

In my experience as a play patient and play doctor, I don't especially see this as a problem, but I can understand how it may be frustrating for some doctors if their patients’ erections don't cooperate with the realistic vibe they are looking for.

For many men, there is a bit of a fine line between the “good kind of nervous” inducing an erection and “really nervous” which often has the opposite effect, similar to swimming in cold water.

One option that might work (if it's consistent with the vibe you want) is to try to play with that nervous feeling - a strict and very dominant approach might keep some men soft. But in my experience, unless you're taking it too far, it usually has the opposite effect of what you're looking for.

When I'm a play patient, it's a foregone conclusion and pretty much completely out of my control that I'll be at least semi-hard the whole time, even for a scene that lasts a few hours. So in the doctor role, I am not surprised when one of my patients has the same response. Although I do appreciate the opportunity to see his penis in a flaccid state when it happens.

In both roles, I tend to prefer an exam that starts slowly and builds in tension and anticipation of the patient getting fully naked. With that approach, by the time he's fully naked, the patient is usually pretty excited”!

When I have been a play patient most times I've started the exam fully naked; never did I start the exam with a erection. I think the general excitement and mild anxiety of doing a play exam, along with just being a little on the cold side, just makes it a non-thing. Personal anecdote, but I know from talking with other men into medical play its really not that common to immediately get hard just from sitting naked on the exam table in front of the play doctor. I certainly understand that you, OP, are seeking a dynamic of transition from an initially clinical play exam to erotic/sexual, and can appreciate where you are coming from.

A fun physiology thing I want to add: men will get erections from Gonadotropin releasing hormone cycles periodically throughout the day (level of erection will vary widely), so its feasible that maybe a male patient will have an erection during a peak in that cycle that coincides with the start of an exam that is unrelated to if the patient is sexually aroused or not.

A theoretical approach I would take if I had a male play patient who was erect right at the beginning is to acknowledge that they are erect and ask further questions. Are they on medications that might be causing this? Are they experiencing erections lasting more than 4 hours? Are they having erections when its undesired, etc. I will ask if they have particular concerns about their genitalia or if they need particular testing at that point too. This kind of question may cause them go become flaccid, though certainly from a psychological aspect is a nice erotic touch to the exam. Once I get more details, I would tell them I am going to perform the more routine physical examination first, and then once I see that the rest of their body is healthy, I will examine their genitalia and evaluate sexual function as discussed/consented to.

Well it happens and to be honest, it's a bit embarrassing but having an erection right at the start is truly embarrassing and I fear insulting to the examiner. I would rather be in a natural state. If the examiner has an impression or thought, I don't care as I am the one lying there completely naked!

Does it matter one way or another? A penis is a penis.

Provide the patient with a square of exam table paper and instruct him to disrobe and to cover himself with the exam table paper. Leave the room until he is ready. Carry out other tasks unrelated to the genitals. Do not remove the exam table paper until his erection subsides.

@Vin and @Horace not all men are like you physiologically. What you’re describing fits *you*, because evidently you’re not blessed with a strong-willed penis. For those of us who are, it’s going to happen. It just is. And once it’s up it’s not going down any time soon.

@Badgy1 If it’s not indiscreet how old are you to have such spontaneous erections?

Neither have I. I've never had erections during real exams. Therefore, during MEDFET exams, my penis is initially flaccid, but during the exam, it becomes fully erect.

@Jacana I am in my mid 60s, and it now takes an entire physical exam usually before it starts to happen and its easier to control, but sometimes it still gets away from me. As a teen with raging hormones all it sometimes took was stripping to my underwear.

I like to feel the penis being erected while I’m examining. I’d like to exam a chubby old man with a micropenis, it’d be so humiliating check up, we will have a long talk and a lot of urologycal and proctological tests. The penis must be examined when its flacid, and then, erected.

In The Clerk, the naked conscript starts with a flaccid penis and then gets an erection while the female clerk is measuring him. That's one of the best moments in the whole film, thinking that it surely was not scripted.

@maria_fetish i become erect almost instantly. Sometimes I'm erect seconds after she leaves the room and asks me to undress and put on a gown. So to see me in a medical setting while soft is almost impossible lol.

Well, Maria, you are a beautiful woman and If I were naked, lying down on a table, knowing you were about to perform an examination on me, there is just no way I would be flaccid, unless I had just had a heart attack and was dead…..even then I would probably still be erect. This is meant as a complement to you and a bit tongue in cheek, 😀😉so please don’t take offence.

a male should be soft...out of respect for the Dr.

First of all, the Dr. should not be, and most likely won't be offended, but on the contrary, perhaps be flattered that s/he can have that affect & effect on the patient.

Secondly, when they notice it, they usually will reassure the patient that it is a normal response. Especially if they detect that it is making the patient apprehensive.

The respect for the doctor is not to give it overt attention, like manipulating it, or asking things like, Isn't my penis nice?" The respect for the doctor is if you just ignore it. In turn, the doctor will respect you as a virile male, and possibly even be flattered.

Great question. I prefer flaccid too.

Going way back ... my medfet really began when I played doctor with a friend when we were ages 9 to 11. He was into me more than I was into him, probably. A condition of our play was that he stay soft, and that he would undress to his white briefs and not begin the exam naked. I wanted the exam to be as realistic as possible. He complied.

His briefs would get slid down (I can't recall whether I did it or whether he did it), but his penis stayed soft during the examination. He'd flip over and I'd spread his butt cheeks apart, and have him spread his legs so I could see his scrotum. But when he flipped back around, his penis was still soft.

I never did see him hard. And when it was my turn to be the patient (I was always the doctor first), I never got hard and never desired for him to see me hard. Our last time playing, he asked to put my penis in his mouth and I said no. He respected that, but it was the last time we played.

He went on to be married with kids. But no question he was and is not entirely straight.

Since that experience, I've been more turned on by the idea of flaccid penises at the doctor than hard ones.

When I did play physicals, they were realistic, so I tried hard (pardon to pun) to present myself flaccid when it was time for that part of the exam. I was successful almost all the time. I think it adds to the realism, so I'm in agreement with the OP for my brand of med-fet.

I see your point Maria. From the professional’s point of view of rather not having to deal with an erection, it is understandable, but here’s the thing. Erections are not something that can be called up on demand, or indeed subdued on demand by sheer will power. I do accept that if a guy is having lascivious thoughts during an exam, then an erection would quite reasonably be considered to be a symptom of his state of mind. But, there is a saying about guys thinking with the ‘ Little Head’. In other words their Cock is in a state of arousal which affects their thinking processes…..True, but not in all cases. Sometimes an erection will appear as if from it’s (the Penis) own volition, even in embarrassing situations. Other times, when one is desperately wanted……nothing, Nil, Nada, gone AWOL, fast asleep.

I used to work overseas for six weeks at a time and one time we had been eagerly counting down the days, then hours, until I would be home and we would be able to make love. When I got home, after flying for a couple of days ( I was working in Nigeria at the time) so I was pretty Jet Lagged. My Wife had obviously had it all planned out. I had unpacked and was having a lie down on the Sofa in the sitting room. I was having trouble keeping my eyes open, when a vision of loveliness appeared through the door…..my Wife in a beautiful set of Brand New Lingerie, I had never seen before. Everything was arranged, Mood Lighting, soft music, a Glass of my Favourite Red Wine. We kissed and cuddled, only fly in the ointment….Mr. Hardness himself was already asleep, despite my Wife’s best efforts and me appreciating the trouble she had gone to and of course a sexy woman in Lingerie, we just did not achieve liftoff!!. She was trying hard to be stoic and not be hurt, but I could see it in her eyes as she was also embarrassed at the thought that her outfit did not ignite the usual Touch Fuse, a fact that I rue to this day.

So I know from first hand experience that my friend, down below, seems to have a mind of his own and can be damned obstinate when he has a mind to be.

From as early as I can remember up until my early college days, I was erect pretty much for the entire appointment - from entering the exam room to leaving and checking out. As a kid, definitely. As an older teen, I'd be "heavy" when walking back but at full attention when in my briefs. In my early 20s, less so, but I'd at least be on the way to fully erect and only rarely did it not get fully hard when exposed.

Now, not so much - at least not during the exam.

Generally my cock is flaccid during medical examination.

When my balls are felt, sometimes my cock stiffens a bit, but I have no control over my reaction.

These days but cock is almost always flaccid.

This is a fascinating subject to me. While I have had erections during several exams growing up, for the most part I ended up remaining flaccid during the majority of the genital exams in my life and have grown to kind of even enjoy it if that makes sense.

That's the difference between real exams and play exams isn't it.

In a real situation you know it's not appropriate to get aroused so in adulthood you don't let your mind wander to those things - control is harder in adolescence I accept.

But in a play exam, however 'real' you try and make it you know that you are both there for the sexual thrill of it so you have those thoughts because it's allowed / expected and the physical effects follow.

Agreed it does make it extra good if the patient can stay flaccid for at least some of the time.