I see your point Maria. From the professional’s point of view of rather not having to deal with an erection, it is understandable, but here’s the thing. Erections are not something that can be called up on demand, or indeed subdued on demand by sheer will power. I do accept that if a guy is having lascivious thoughts during an exam, then an erection would quite reasonably be considered to be a symptom of his state of mind. But, there is a saying about guys thinking with the ‘ Little Head’. In other words their Cock is in a state of arousal which affects their thinking processes…..True, but not in all cases. Sometimes an erection will appear as if from it’s (the Penis) own volition, even in embarrassing situations. Other times, when one is desperately wanted……nothing, Nil, Nada, gone AWOL, fast asleep.
I used to work overseas for six weeks at a time and one time we had been eagerly counting down the days, then hours, until I would be home and we would be able to make love. When I got home, after flying for a couple of days ( I was working in Nigeria at the time) so I was pretty Jet Lagged. My Wife had obviously had it all planned out. I had unpacked and was having a lie down on the Sofa in the sitting room. I was having trouble keeping my eyes open, when a vision of loveliness appeared through the door…..my Wife in a beautiful set of Brand New Lingerie, I had never seen before. Everything was arranged, Mood Lighting, soft music, a Glass of my Favourite Red Wine. We kissed and cuddled, only fly in the ointment….Mr. Hardness himself was already asleep, despite my Wife’s best efforts and me appreciating the trouble she had gone to and of course a sexy woman in Lingerie, we just did not achieve liftoff!!. She was trying hard to be stoic and not be hurt, but I could see it in her eyes as she was also embarrassed at the thought that her outfit did not ignite the usual Touch Fuse, a fact that I rue to this day.
So I know from first hand experience that my friend, down below, seems to have a mind of his own and can be damned obstinate when he has a mind to be.