Any advice re Prostate orgasm and milking?

Trying desperately to achieve a prostate orgasm and haven’t gotten there yet, any advice? I have tried vibrators and an aneros prostate toy, I enjoy the feeling, just haven’t gone over the top yet!

Same here. I understand it might take a lot of time and practice with the Aneros to ‘rewire’ and get more sensitive in that area. And on top of that you need to be able to relax somehow during internal stimulation. So I’ll also look forward to further tips.

The more you push yourself to get it the less likely it is to happen. Enjoy what you have, find the spots that make you feel good, and relax into it. Orgasm may come someday.

Very well said. Many times pressuring yourself will stifle the goal. Relax and let your mind go into fantasy mode, just relax.

Having had a few prostate orgasms myself, I’ll list some tips, in order of most to least important. I think it goes without saying to be somewhere where you won’t be disturbed, relax, and use more lube than you think you need.

- Abstain from orgasm for at least 2-3 days. The longer the better.

- Make sure your toy is firm. I’ve used dildos that were “realistic” or some other material, and they just don’t have the same effect. They’ll glide past your prostate which will feel good, but won’t have the same effect as just nailing it. Also, know the male anatomy to make sure you’re angling the toy the right way, if it has a curve/angle.

- I think it’s easier if the toy has a little bit of girth. It doesn’t have to be 2 inches in diameter or anything, but size up to what you can handle, and remember that your prostate isn’t that deep.

Hope this helps, and enjoy!

Great advice there - just let it come.

I am not sure if you have a partner or if you are trying for self stimulation. I have with a partner if the insert a finger or several whatever they can get in and twist their hand that makes me cum almost instantly. It is more like prostate milking. Even twisting a dildo with the proper girth that hits the spot works wonders. Good luck

It takes longer than you think to reach orgasm using a prostate toy. Relax, rock and savor the sensations.

Had this done during a "massage" once. Not sure how much the finger in my butt contributed to the orgasm as the idea of it did.

I’ve had just a few true anal orgasms and a whole bunch of losing my patience and finishing with some jacking. It takes time and when it does happen, I’m in a sort of naughty trance. It’s more of a release, my cum starts to flow at first followed by convulsions deep in my groin. It puts my head in a spin, followed by blissful exhaustion.

My most successful toy for this is a hammer shaped sex toy I got on Amazon. It rigid and has a thrusting action, having a steady rhythm helps 😊

Whatda know, that hammer toy is still available!

https://a.co/d/gzZuuPS

Never achieved a prostate only orgasm without some manual stimulation and those have been tremendous.

Having massaged my friends prostate with two fingers, his pre cum was flowing freely. He was shuttering and tensing up, knowing he was close, l kept massaging and took him orally. His orgasm was intense and immediate. Can’t say if it was the oral, the fingers or a combo of both

Give yourself a big thumbs up 👍

Arm at your side, make a thumbs up, rotate your shoulder back, get your thumb in. Follow the bottom of your rectum to your prostate and massage it.

You won't need toys, you can give yourself a long self examination focusing on your prostate, and you should get there.

You could also ask a play partner to do it for you, explain you need a long prostate massage, aiming at a prostate orgasm.

@Danner

Take your time, surrender to the feelings, let it all sink in, and don't force anything... I experienced the exact same thing with my first prostate massages: incredibly intense feelings, but no orgasm. And then suddenly – during another prostate massage at a different time – it hit me like a ton of bricks: an orgasm that shook me from head to toe... good things come to those who wait.