How are women supposed to give a handjob to a circumcised man?

@Nurse_Phillips I think there is some variation in outcomes depending on tightness and scar placement, which may explain why some mention no difficulties while some circumcised men mention girlfriends rubbing them raw. (I did experience some pretty unpleasant handjobs, and I need to be careful if rubbing myself.)

You wrap your hand around his dick and stroke it back and forth.

Vary the pressure you used to hold it with. You want your hand to slide back and forth. Unless you’re tearing skin, you’re unlikely to hurt it.

It isn't that difficult as @Nurse_Phillips says. When you have an uncircumcised cock that needs hands on attention you do your best to deliver the pleasure. Spit, lube, lotion, coconut oil, whatever works in the situation at hand.

I think that the issue is that women who are used to uncircumcised penises tend to grab the foreskin and move it back and forth while squeezing and if you do the same on a circumcised penis you may cause discomfort or damage because of the direct unlubricsted friction and pinching of the scar.

I also had the same experience eith a sexually inexperienced girl, perhaps because of clichés about wanking (squeeze and move fast up and down).

Again, the experience may vary according to position of the scar, tightness... My scar "pinches" easily.

As an uncircumcised male, I might shed some light in the darkness, although there doesn’t seem to be too much darkness anymore … 🙂 (as @Nurse_Phillips pointed out 👍). Even as I don’t have any experience living without a foreskin, I prefer to be masturbated by stilumulation directly on my glans. That preference comes from the first time someone (yes, a female doctor) did it that way as part of giving me a complete genital exam. As my foreskin was retracted during the whole time, and being erect, my glans was dry. Being dry it becomes really smooth and therefore it’s quite easy to slide over it without shafing…so, forming a ring with the thumb and indexfinger it is quite easy to move up and down the glans and making sure the foreskin stays back at the same time. Keeping the touch quite loose and moving slowly avoids possible shafing also. At the start of doing it that way it didn’t take too much time to come to ejaculate but when doing it often that way, makes you to get used to the feeling and that kind of direct stimulation. An advantage therefore is that you can postpone your orgasm much longer which means you can stimulate your female partner also much longer vaginaly with your tool before cumming and have a lot more chance to actually give her pleasure while you’re inside her. Disadvantage is that itnmight take more time to come to the point of no return when you ‘need’ to be faster 🙂 (If that is a disadvantage at all…)

Therefore, I conclude that, even being circumcised, it shouldn’t be not much of an issue to touch and move over the bare glans of a circumcised male. (And when needed, there are ways enough to provide a kind of lube, I guess 😎☺️)

I can always tell if a girl has learned giving handjobs on a circumcised or uncircumcised penis.

If she has learnded on circumcised, she grabs the shaft and moves her hand there, without going over the glans.

Or she kind of massages the glans without moving the foreskin, but spitting on it or spread my precum to lubricate it.

I have stroked and sucked both circumcised and uncircumcised penisses

I can not say I treat them differently, I tend to be guided by the bloke.

If what I do is enjoyed i carry on, if not I change.

In my experience no 2 men are alike in what they do or do not like, regardless of foreskin

@Secret-sub sounds great/perfect!

If what I do is enjoyed i carry on, if not I change.

In my experience no 2 men are alike in what they do or do not like, regardless of foreskin

That works very well. Because sometimes one "trick" works one time, but not the next. Personal moods change as well for a guy.

Uncircumsized here and enjoy masturbation or receiving a hand job so much! Love the loooooong slow jerking!

I haven't had any uncircumcised men and if and when I do it will be up to me and him to figure out how to make it work for both of us. My guys have all been circumcised and they are very sensitive around the rim of the head of their cock and it doesn't take a lot of friction to get them off and you don't have to have a death grip on it when you give them a hand job. I love holding and touching their cock in general and letting it build to the point where they are ready to let it go and just lay back and let it happen.

@JT1999 @Amethyst your ladies sue know how to please your man! Your guys are so lucky!!!

Seems like it all boils down to listening to your partner and not blindly rubbing hard. Same for pussies.

Oh my! I enjoy this site so, so much! So many topics and discussions here where no place else! Thank you all!!! Let's keep the interests up! (pun intended guys)!

Lots and lots and lots of saliva

Lots and lots and lots of saliva

There were times when I found that to be a bit icky to tell the truth ...

Lots and lots and lots of saliva

Sounds more like a blowjob, or combination job?

Some lube, and a nice and easy stroking motion is going to get the best results. Absent of that, just go with an old fashioned blow job.

Read all these comments to my partner hehe. Love you guys 😍😍

Read all these comments to my partner hehe. Love you guys 😍😍

Lol! How did she respond?

What the feck? It's no different either way. I have stroked plenty of willies, both hooded and bare headed. I just make em wet and handle them gently.

@Bad_Princess How nice of you to be gentle and to make them wet!

And, no, not every woman does so.

@Amethyst

a lot of circumcised men need their penises to be handled quite roughly to get them to an orgasm and I think that is a bit of a shame really

I think you're right that circumcised men prefer more intense stimulation, but I don't think it's necessarily a bad thing. It is often said that circumcision causes a loss of sensation, but I maintain that this is not exactly right. Being circumcised means that lighter sensations are not as stimulating. Before being circumcised, just exposing the tip to the air was a thrill for me. But the other side of that is that circumcised men can tolerate and enjoy more intense stimulation that an uncircumcised man would find uncomfortable or injurious. I preferred rougher play even before the cut, afterwards the benefit was I didn't end up sore for the rest of the night/next day, and we could even push it up a notch. That was a big improvement! I do acknowledge that, for many men, the need for rougher stimulation is a frustrating problem, so I suppose it depends.

I don't think anyone's mentioned that without the rolling foreskin to aid a handjob, and without lubrication, another factor is just the humidity of the skin of the participants. If everything is dry enough the parts can slide over each other with a loose enough grip, with a little sweat things become sticky. Also, silicone-based lube is just about the best thing out there. When I was 19, my girlfriend and I experimented with a lot of lubes. KY Jelly, hair gel, spit, shampoo, conditioner, hand lotion and cooking oil all suck for various reasons, but all of them get sticky much more easily and quickly than the good stuff.

I think you're right that circumcised men prefer more intense stimulation, but I don't think it's necessarily a bad thing. It is often said that circumcision causes a loss of sensation, but I maintain that this is not exactly right. Being circumcised means that lighter sensations are not as stimulating. Before being circumcised, just exposing the tip to the air was a thrill for me. But the other side of that is that circumcised men can tolerate and enjoy more intense stimulation that an uncircumcised man would find uncomfortable or injurious. I preferred rougher play even before the cut, afterwards the benefit was I didn't end up sore for the rest of the night/next day, and we could even push it up a notch. That was a big improvement! I do acknowledge that, for many men, the need for rougher stimulation is a frustrating problem, so I suppose it depends.

Yes maybe it does depend @CanD because some men on here say they can not get to an orgasm when they get oral sex and I think that is a shame really. It is like they do not feel light stimulation as much, that is how they talk about it.

I am not sure what "intense stimulation" means to you, maybe it means very rough play which I know my husband does not like at all. Intense stimulation to him means feelings I give him with light teasing touches and I definitely know how to do that.

@amethyst I have never had an orgasm from oral sex.

I fully agree with what you’ve most recently said @CanD as it reflects my own experience

Thank you @Dwayne and @Testy_Paul_a, it just sounds like it is all a bit of a struggle really and difficult to do at all. I am still not sure what I would do about it, and it just seems like using lube helps but there is a chance it could just get rubbed raw and be painful unless you keep using more lube. I do not understand the bit about using lube making the glans less sensitive either.

@Amethyst to answer your earlier post, I wouldn’t describe it as a struggle (although I’ve found it to be a bit at times) but it isn’t as easy and straightforward as with a foreskin IMHO. As I said, it needs a bit more mental focus. The stroking sometimes isn’t as pleasurable either although others may disagree. But (and it’s a very big BUT) orgasms are stronger, not quite intercourse level but closer. There were numerous times pre-circumcision when I’d knock out a quick one and be disappointed with the climax, sometimes wondering why I bothered. That hasn’t happened since.

I don’t why this phenomenon exists but have heard anecdotes by others circumcised as adults who’ve experienced the same. Can’t explain it.

Regarding the loss of sensitivity after using liube, I find its just a temporary thing. Can’t explain it, maybe it’s like walking around barefoot vs footwear, soles harden but recover softness when warring socks and shoes again.

I am circumcised and have been masturbating since age 11. I received my first handjob at 12 and strtind beating off other guys at 13 or 14. I never use lube on myself and prefer to beat another guy off without lube as well. I have found that most circumcised penises hand enough movement in the shaft skin to get a good amount of stimulation and bring the guy off to a good orgasm.

Is there anything that unusual about it? I would think that a lubricated hand, with some gentle touch behind it, should work well for most.