The difficult situation to have a like minded

I am pretty sure, some are locky to have a relation vith someone, who are into the same game like yourself. But we are probably more people here , that your lover know about your true needs. But dont like it themselves. Then its hard to injoy it trusfully. When your partner dont share it or injoy it the same way you do . When they dont have there hart into it like yourself.

Then you need space for yourself, to inbrace it to the full extent. Just the truth for many here in the way to injoy Enemas .

My wife does not share my kinks, or minimally (in the past she was a bit more adventurous).

My wife does not share my kink in enemas. Never participated even though we talked about it. She knows I get periodic colonics and doesn’t object. Fortunately, we’ve had enough other kinks we shared, mostly involving anal activities, that overshadowed anything I was missing out on at home.

My husband does not only not share my kinks, he doesn't even like sex

Luckily we have same kinks and it compliments each other. We both like exhibitionism and I am more of a voyeur of others seeing her. It makes her safe and gives kick to me. However, we do have some kinks that my gf don't like eg bathing in gym showers, swingers club, running fun etc. The most important aspect is that talk each other and be honest with your partner.

They will like it if you can appreciate them though you are not into it. That is how we do 😊

@Swiss_cheese How do you mean “……running fun……” exactly? Thanks,

Eric

@ericmacson it means exhibitionism after running when you slow down or rest in a park. I can remove shirt to cool off and so do her. She will also try tight shorts and firm tees. The point is that you have to be quite sweaty to do that in a realistic way. We love realistic exhibitionism where people our purpose is not showing. However, to do that we have to run quite a while and she is lazy for that hehe. I have to really push her to come for running.