Show me yours

Who here has had to show their penis, or saw someone showing his penis, as a kind of game or dare? In childhood, teen age, and in adulthood..

(I wrote a couple stories where some woman pushes her boyfriend to display himself.)

In childhood and teenage days. I was a shy boy. But during adulthood i started exposing and exhibitioning in nude environments like nude beach, camping, nudist resorts etc. I feel confident when my gf is with me to avoid embarrassment and as a support.

I also love showing penis in public toilets. Here also I make sure I only do when I am with my gf. She won't come inside the toilet but the person watching me might feel it was not intentional. I normally choose toilets when it is not crowded and does not have separation. It is easily in cinemas and airport toilets as the peoplr are random. I wash my hands and notr the number of people and approach the urinal exposing my semi hard penis. They don't find suspicious as i have sufficient skin and it's brown. They might think its my natural size. But when we do hiking he give a good pee show sometimes in nature where me and my gf pee together. That time i give a hard show and few men and couples have noticed us either looking at my penis or my boy. She don't look them but i love their reaction and make sure that we are not filmed. Normally it is not a long stare.

My sister and I often had Saturdays alone as mom liked to visit and shop with grandma. Sometimes we'd spend time naked around the house; watching TV, watching each other masturbate or use the toilet. Once in a while one or both of the neighbor girls would come over - they weren't as daring as us, but would play Dr. If we had time alone at night I liked to strip and wander around the backyard in the dark. My sister thought it was funny seeing my hardon bounce and bob around. This went on into my high school years. Nowadays when visiting my favorite massage ladies I have no qualms about being naked walking around the room or down the hall to their shower or toilet. In my old age I know I'm fat and no prize to look at. So even if I could get a hardon it will no longer bounce and bob around. I appreciate these lady's acceptance, indulgence and certainly their attentions.

I agree with @stiknclikit - in my senior years I enjoy nudity with my massage providers, and appreciate their indulgence/encouragement of it. One facility has a nice shower, and I use it occasionally and carry the towel rather than wrap it around me. Once on a suggestion/dare the massage therapist joined me, we soaped each other up, and enjoyed some mutual touching in a hot shower. After we dried and returned to the room, she remained naked for the massage. Would like to have that occur more often. 😉

My mom used to give my big sister and I baths together when we were kids. When my sister was about 8 and I was 4 and a half my mom wanted me to start dressing myself since I was about to start preschool. One night after giving us a bath together and drying us off she then left us alone together in the bathroom with our pajamas(t shirts and underwear) and told us to get dressed before closing the door. I then suggested "I'll show you mine if you show me yours" as we showed each other our privates while giggling. My sister then said "You know what would be funny?" and I said "What?" she then said "If we switched underwear!".

I then put on her panties and she put on my tighty whities and we put on our t shirts and left the bathroom. As we came out we were holding our t shirts to hide our underwear and our mom asked what we were doing. We then lifted up our shirts to flash our underwear and she said we were being naughty in a tone of mock surprise. She then told us to put on the right underwear so we took them off and started flashing out privates and bare butts at her and once again she jokingly said we were being naughty. We then put on the right underwear as our mom had us go to bed. That was the last time she gave us a bath together and I think it was because she realized we were becoming curious about each others private parts.

The second time I played I'll show you mine was when I was 6 and a half and had just started the 1st grade, I was at daycare after school one day. I noticed a girl named Abby who was a grade below me but I was confused whether she was a girl or boy because she had her hair in a bowl cut and was wearing a long sleeved shirt and jeans. So I asked her if she was a girl or boy and she acted confused so I said follow me and grabbed her by the hand and led her into the bathroom.

I then said "I'll show you mine if you show me yours." and pulled my penis out, but then the owner of the daycare opened the bathroom door because she must have saw us go in together. She looked at my penis like a deer caught in the headlights then said we couldn't be in the bathroom together so I never got to see hers. 11 years later when I was a 17 year old senior in high school Abby(who was a 16 year old junior) came out as a lesbian and started dating one of the girls in her class.

I hung out with a guy who regularly displayed his erect penis to the girls. We were young and at a public beach when he did this.

What kind of responses did your friend get?

We were very young, and I am not sure I can remember their reactions. I don't recall anything negative.

When we were almost 15, my best friend and myself did get the dare during a game of 'thruth or dare' to show ourselves completely naked to all friends (male and female). The dare came from my best friend's eldest sister who was 17 at that moment and a really hot, beautiful, horny and dominant young woman ... There were 2 more gf's,his younger sis and 2 bf's of the neighbourhood they lived in at that moment ... never felt more embarassed and 'turned on' before ...

I wish I was confident enough to play those kinds of games more

My brother and a neighbor kid did that behind the house, maybe in the second grade or so. My mother was in the kitchen, overheard, and they got in trouble for that. Never happened for me, and I'd love to be in a safe and consensual show-me situation these days.

I played the "show me yours and I'll show you mine" game a few different times with some friends as a kid and early teen.

Only when playing strip poker with two other couples in college. Not real explicit, but a fun get together. The booze really helped so I don’t recall the details.

I can remember playing "truth or dare" as young teenagers. Seems to me a lot more girls saw my willy than I saw their bits. 😢

@LordJim2 Ah yes. The good old days of playing truth or dare. So much fun. I look back on it as the exciting time exploring the gray area between things I was completely willing to do, and the things I would never ever do. The gray area in between was nervously exciting. Now a days I think I have narrowed down the gray area, mostly because now I’m willing to do those gray area things. In fact I would outright love to do them. Most of my responses now would be, “yes, may I have another.”

Mutual dare with my step-brother. We were 7 or 8 back then. Unfortunately it was just it - no size comparison, or further dares

As a young one, my sister and I have a next door neighbor around the same age and we would sneak off to the corner of the yard to pull down our pants. It was pretty harmless and nothing came of it because we didn't "do" anything but look and pee in front of each other. The next time probably wasn't until college where my girlfriend and I had another couple over in our apartment. After (many) drinks we got a little loose and ended up sleeping naked on one bed. Not doing anything with each other but just kinda being comfortable. Being a little daring I got up at one point to set the alarm and let the other female friend get a look at me for a few seconds. I don't know if she remembers anything but it was pretty thrilling at the time. I never did get a view of the other guy, what a shame.

As far back as I can remember, right back to pre-school age, some of my male friends and I routinely showed our penises, balls and buttholes to each other and felt and examined each other when we were alone out of sight of our parents and other adults. There were also some simulated "medical treatments" with some of them where we would push thin objects into each others' bums like we were taking a rectal temperature, or we would push thin pieces of soap up each others' bums like the soap sticks some of our mothers gave to us or we'd squirt water into each others' bums with small squeeze bulbs like we were giving each other enemas like most of us got from our mothers.

Childhood with my best friend his older sister and younger brother (much more progressive family than mine) in my backyard clubhouse.

I should clarify that all the "naughty games" my sister and I played all through childhood never progressed to include other friends or family (cousins etc.) The two next door neighbor girls were only occasional participants and we no longer included them after a few years. Our activity remained an exciting "private thing" between only my sister and I. I know she told a couple of her girlfriends maybe in Jr High School age, but I never told a single friend male or female. We both turned out fairly "normal" haha!! My being here on Zity notwithstanding..

I think 3rd or 4th grade. A neighborhood friend had a treehouse and for some reason we had the idea of given each other a checkup. We were down to our undies and just peeked at each other by pulling the waistband away and looking down into the pants.

The best childhood adventure of all. Best was with my BFF and his brother and sister. We all bared all, pants down, for all of us to see front and back.

Some changing room antics at a day camp, and 1 on 1 with another friend.

Did this as a preteen for a number years with my two girl cousins that were a year or two older than me.

We would sneak off to play “house”, but inevitably would end up in a secluded area, comparing genitals, touching, feeling, watching each other pee.

From ages 8-12 years, I had a number of “show me yours, and I will show you mine” dares. I always enjoyed those. If anyone wants to swap photos of our penises, I will be glad to oblige.

As an adult I love playing strip and dare games so about half the time I play I end up having to show my penis.

More fun recently I was chatting with someone for the first time, and we were talking bodies, I flipped my camera on and let her see me shirtless. She later commented that because of my frame and broad shoulders she thought I'd have a girthy dick. Well once we're talking about that I flipped the cam back on, this time focused on the bulge in my boxers. It was less than a minute before she told me she wanted to see, and then fun all around!

I played it a few times during childhood and puberty. Mostly with male friends. Was always exciting and fun for sure.

Now as an adult I sometimes still like to do it online. So if you are interested (guys and gals) just send me a message!

Just one more great thing about zity is conversation like this causing me to remember things I had completely forgotten about! Growing up, there was a boy a few years older that would throw out the "I'll show you mine if you show me yours" to me and the couple other boys in our neighborhood. I don't know of the others, but I took him up on it a few times, around the age of 13 or so. I recall his penis being much larger. Having never experienced anything like this, I quickly became erect, still remaining smaller than his flaccid member. I'm not sure if I ever saw his erection or not, leaving me now curious how big it actually got.

In the past few years, I have also done trades or comparisons online. Like others have mentioned, I'll happily do so here also, but be prepared to be unimpressed. Lol

In summer camp when I was 7 or 8 years old, during the nap I happened to play 'show me yours, I’ll show you mine' with my roommate.

Just with a friend of mine to compare cock sizes, and a quick feel.

Just curiosity I guess.

Me and a couple of the neighbor girls did it when we were about 9 or 10. 😉