What was your first same-sex experience like?

I'm not sure if that's a normal question to ask or not, but there you go...

Here's a story about my earliest MM experience with a cousin -->

My earliest sexual awakenings occurred with my cousin over 60 years ago. We were the same age, and we did everything together growing up as kids. We were truly inseparable. It was with him that I shared these early sexual experiences, my love for masturbation, and mutual masturbation.

We started when we were about 9 or 10 years old. We would get together as often as possible for sleepovers, hiking in the woods, or playing with our beloved army men in his basement. We were so young and innocent then!

We would start out by just playing together with our army men while in our pajamas, or under the covers together in bed with our flashlights. But then, for some "unknown" reason, our little penises would get "hard". We would then pull off our pajama bottoms and thoroughly examine each other's smooth, hairless, rock-hard penises, and velvety-soft, tight scrotums.

His penis would stick straight out at a 45 degree angle to his body, and was somewhat shorter than mine. My penis would stick straight up with the topside of my erection almost touching my body.

We would love to lay on top of each other, rubbing our penises together, or feeling each others soft, smooth testicles.

My favorite position was when he would get on all fours—doggie-style, and then I would slide my hard pulsating penis up-and-down the slit of the his butt. At the same time, I would lean over him, reach around, and massage his stiff penis, and soft, squishy balls.

After several minutes, we would switch positions. Because of the angle of his penis, he would slide his erection underneath my scrotum, and up along the underside of my erection. I would grab both of our penises and squeeze them tightly together. The warmth exuded from our bodies was absolutely amazing!

We also played a game in his basement at night when it was completely dark, called the "dark game". This would consist of one of us hiding, while the other one groped through the darkness in search of the one who was hiding. When we found each other, we pulled our pants and underpants off in the darkness, and rubbed our bodies together. The sensations were electrifying!

These were my earliest sexual awakenings, but they never actually resulted in orgasm or any evidence of sexual fluids until a few years later.

After these early experiences, we actually took a hiatus from our sexual explorations together for a couple of years.

During this period of sexual abstinence we both started growing pubic hair, and we each discovered "orgasmic" masturbation on our own.

Then, when we were about 12 or 13 years old, we resumed our sexual experiences together. At first we started masturbating ourselves, while watching the other. This gave both of us a chance to compare our technique, as well as measure the amount of cum each of us produced. It was great fun, as I recall, seeing how far each of us could shoot streams of our semen. It was amazing how much cum we could produce back then, when we were so young!

A favorite rendezvous location to stroke ourselves was on a couch in his basement. It was such a turn-on to intently watch each other, and try to time when we would cum, so that we would do it together. It was great fun, and quite a challenge!

At some point in time, we agreed to "help" each other masturbate.

One of our favorite places to masturbate together was in the woods when we went hiking together. We would completely strip off our clothes and stand together rubbing our penises together and massaging our hard cocks until we would each explode with cum all over the other's genitals.

My favorite position as we got into our mid-teen years was for him to lay on top of me, with his face towards the ceiling. I would slide my penis underneath of him so it was resting on top of his scrotum. He would masturbate me until I would cum all over his balls and his penis. I would then massage him to orgasm using my cum as lubricant. He would shoot all over his stomach and some of his sexual fluids would seep down and mingle with mine.

What a wonderful and exhilarating feeling it was to give each other such pleasure!

Now we are both 72 years old, we've both have been married for for many years, and we both have three children and grandchildren of our own. Sadly, many years have passed, our lives have grown apart, and we no longer share such, exciting, and pleasurable experiences together..

But, WOW, how I miss those days of innocence, exhilaration, and innocent pleasures with my cousin. The masturbation techniques he taught me then, I still use to this very day.

@dar1359 wow really amazing. I love that dark night experience and masturbation in woods. Lovely experience.

Would you like to meet him again in such occations? Did your relation turn into a friendship or platonic one?

@Swiss_cheese

Despite the many years that have passed since our childhood/teen days, and the distance that now separates us, when we get together in privacy, we can share many facets of our current sexual, erotic experience. I have shared with him stories about my sexual activities with other guys in recent years, and this seems to excite him. However, the times we get together, and get together in private are few and far between.

I would LOVE to have more sexual experiences together with him! However, now that we're both in our 70's, and we live very far apart, I doubt there will be any opportunities to see if we could enjoy each other's body again.

@dar1359 lovely! We recommend you both meet again when possible and cherish the moments 😊. Thanks for sharing this wonderful experience.

@Swiss_cheese - Here is another one of my early sexual experiences, learning was cum was......

This is a true experience, and helped to shape my sexuality today—almost 50 years later. That being said, I have been married for almost 40 years, and consider myself "mostly" heterosexual....

I was probably about 11 years old, and had experienced getting "hard" for some time. But, had not experienced "cumming" yet. A (guy) friend and I started meeting after playing basketball for "experimental" sessions in an unused, and mostly dark, racquetball court at a local recreation center.

We would pull down our gym shorts and then our white, cotton underpants. Both of us would be very, very hard, by this time, and our dicks would stick straight up, almost touching our stomachs.

Our penises were very similar in "direction", although his was probably a little thicker, and longer. I remember his penis was very hard and bent almost arching back to his stomach. We both had just a little bit of pubic hair.

I remember this as if this happened just yesterday! At first, we would just rub our penises together. His penis was soooooooo warm, hard, and purplish at the head! It felt so good just touching each other's penises and rubbing them together. It felt velvety smooth, and warm.

He asked me if I had ever cum before. I didn't quite know if I ever had, but didn't think so. He said that sometimes he oozed some white, milky-white fluid after rubbing his penis for a while. I said I didn't think that had happened to me yet.

One of the times we met for a "session", I lay down on the floor, and he lay on top of me. We rubbed our hard penises together. WOW, it felt soooooo good!

We had been going for several minutes, when all of the sudden I felt like I had to pee. I got up quickly, telling my friend I had to pee. He touched the end of my penis and felt a small amount of warm, milky-white, sticky fluid. He said that is "cum", not pee. I felt it also, and rubbed it between my fingers. That was my first time!

We had many other sessions together, but later grew away from our experimental sessions as we became older teenagers.

@dar1359

Wonderful. Nice experience. I also had similar experience. It was from a chubby friend from school. However, after school we diverted our paths and could not meet him after.

@Swiss_cheese Those early experiences were sooooo erotically charged, the ones with both boys and girls!! Many great experiences!

My first experience with another guy took place when I was 11 3/4, only a couple of months after I had started jacking off. One day my next-door neighbor invited me over to his house. We went down into his basement and he showed me a secret room he had fixed up in the crawl space under the front porch. He had broken up some cardboard boxes and laid them out on the dirt floor - even had run an extension cord in there so we had a light. He had recently turned 15 and had a stash of porno mags (which I assumed he had "borrowed" from his Dad). We looked at them for awhile and of course, before we knew it, we both had nice boners sticking out of our pants.

He suggested we do something about it and being young and naive I said, "what should we do?". We didn't really have much headroom in that secret room, so he said, "follow me". We climbed out of the secret room and were standing in a corner of his basement. He said, "take down your pants & briefs and I'll show you". So we both took off our pants and briefs. When he had removed his briefs, I was amazed to see that his cock was very large. At some point we did measure our cocks and his measured a full 8 inches. My slowly developing cock only measured 4 inches at that time. Like mine, his cock pointed up at about a 45 degree angle and had a nice big head on it. He had lots of pubic hair and I was hairless. We played with each others cocks for awhile and then he said, "do you want to jack me off" and I said, "sure". 

So we stood in that corner of his basement and I stood somewhat behind him, reached around and started really going to work on that big cock of his. It wasn't long before he said, "here it comes" and his cock started firing off long ropes of cum. He must have gotten off 5 or 6 good shots, the 1st three were 6” to 8” long ropes which traveled about 3 feet before impacting the cement floor in front of him with a splat! I continued to stroke his cock and was rewarded by some additional oozing of cum out of his cock head. Boy was I excited to see all that. I was still having dry orgasms then and had never seen a guy shoot his load before. I was hooked and couldn't wait until I started shooting like that. He and I got together about 10 times over the next 10 months before he turned 16 and joined the Army and I always enjoyed jacking off that big cock of his.  Each time after I jacked him off he would jack me and I would have one of my intense dry orgasms. About a year after he went into the Army he was home on leave and I wanted to get together again but he said he wasn't into that anymore. Too bad, because I was shooting by then and really wanted to have him see me shoot and maybe even shoot on each other! 

My first sexual experiences were in essence two fold. At 11 years of age, for two years I played OTK spanking games with a friend of mine who was my age. We both got into it, then he sort of lost interest.

Then at fifteen, my older (male) cousin asked me to jack him off. I loved it, and so did he. We did it in many positions. Then he taught me how to suck him...I enjoyed it.

My first was actually when I was 20 or so and dipping my toes into medical fetish play. I already had my first exam with an older woman, but found this first experience very overwhelming and confusing simply because it was my first true sexual experience involving another person touching my genitals. I agreed to meet with a male play doc who was 30 or so. He was into a lot of the same medical play things as I was. I let him examine my genitals and my rectum/prostate, which I was initially very hesitant about but found the experience surprisingly enjoyable. He asked if I was okay with him masturbating me knowing this was a new experience for me, which I said yes to (he listened to my heartbeat with his stethoscope and had me listen to mine with my own at the same time), and it was up to that point the most incredible orgasm I had.

My only same sex sexual experience so far in life has receiving enemas from a guy who is also a member of this site. I met with the same guy a few times, it's been a few years since I last seen him. I'm hoping some day to again manage a discreet meeting with a guy for enemas and anal play and I'd be willing to go a lot further than that.

When I was in the 7th grade I was at my friend's house and I woke up to him sucking my cock. I had a split decision to make, do I stop him or just enjoy the moment? 9 rolls of the dice I'd have stopped him, but for one reason I let him finish and I came like you wouldn't believe.

Kinda gay. But I suppose that's the point.

I was with a group of 4 boys in jr high school. we would go to Kensily's house in the evening when his mother and father were at work in the hospital. We loved to get naked and explore each other. One of the other boy's older brother joined us sometimes. He was our first experience of have a cock inside us. From his we learned to take enemas, and lube before being penetrated. I quickly found that I enjoyed being the one to be explored and fucked. I was happy servicing the guys into high school when we discovered girls could be fun. I still enjoy men using me and have never had a bad experience - some disappointment of guys not being able to get hard!

@jhenry922

Actually if I'm like a Kinsey 1 or 2, he was like a Kinsey 4 or 5. We were at opposite ends of the scale but who turns down a blowjob in the morning when you got raging morning wood?