An Audience when spanked as an Adult

This is a question for those adults here who are currently or in their (adult) past have been spanked; Does the presence of an "audience" (could be one person, or more) observing your spanking ad to your excitement? Embarrassment? and does each of these elements accelerate each other??

Several professional disciplinarians/dominatrixes I’ve seen included an observer/assistant option in a spanking session. They are usually female and occasionally male. In one session the observers were a m/f couple. The embarrassment factor was off the scale. Instead of one person seeing me strip and submit to my punishment there are two or three. At the same time it was very exciting to hear their comments or discussion with the spanker while I was in position and taking the strokes.

Trying to visualize such a scenario from both the observer and the one being spanked with an audience present, I think that I would feel the following ways:

1) Being the observer, I think it would be a big turn on particularly if it was a woman being spanked.

2) As the one being spanked, I would be mortifed with embarrassment and humilation to have someone watch me getting spanked. Exceptions would include my husband and possibly my mother who has spanked me many times in the past.

Denise

I would find it a huge turn on from the perapective of an observer. My wife and I and planed this to happen last month. Our friend was supposed to spank her while I watched this with his wife. But he broke his forearm and it required a plate and pins so that has been postponed.

From her perspective she is tentative, nervous and a little scared / Embarrased.

From the perspective of the one getting spanked. If it were me, I think it would be very embarrassing. Im not into the humiliation thing.

The excellent comments to this question raise another question, directly related to it, because it seems that exposure/embarrassment, play a vital role in "excitement" so, does the gender of the observers matter? How, for instance, as a man, being spanked would you feel if there were men in the audience? Or if you were a woman, does observer gender differences matter??

I have been spanked, naked, while watched by others. I like embarrassment it brings and excitement caused by it. And being watched by females is definitely much more embarrassing.

Did you know the people who observed you submit to your spanking, Gauguin? Or were they strangers?

Yes if II was spanked in front of an audience other than family, I would be highly embarrassed and horrified if it was not while fully clothed. Would it add to the excitement? Not sure what the author of the question is really asking, but I definitely would cause quite a bit of excitement in trying to get away. Ever try to corner a wild cat?? lol. Denise

Pretty new to spanking but admittedly having a 3rd person watching, OMG, that could be so so good.

@Mummy_Alison On some occasions I knew them, on other like playing in a club, I did not know them.

I like to be spanked over the knee and at the same time she may insert a finger in my ass to punish me more. We have a pretty good relationship with amazing chemistry so not sure an observer would add anything but happy to try every thing once. Personally it would have to be a female.

Yes and yes! BUT only with my wife or another woman doing the spankings AND only other women watching! I know it will never happen but it is more than a fantasy for me ( At least once) 😃

The idea of a (female) audience is quite appealing. I've actually experienced it once with a fairly regular spanker connection and her friend. It was a workplace role play concept where I was a manager, my spanker friend was head of HR and her friend had accused me of promising a promotion in exchange for sexual favors. The accuser watched with great interest as HR scolded me and gave me the option of keeping my job if I accepted a spanking. I, of course, agreed and watched the accuser's expression as HR bared my bottom and gave me a long hand then hairbrush warm-up before a finale with my own belt. The whole scene lasted a wonderful hour and there was plenty of spicy banter from the accuser about how I was getting what I deserved for my transgressions and my retorts that her blowjobs made a spanking seem like a fair trade. She even gave me a few swats herself, though I wish they would have tag-teamed me even more.

Yes adults only event so no kids present but I've been spanked in front of people before. I was pulled behind a building dress lifted, diaper pulled down and given 5 hard swats for being disrespectful. I know at least another couple seen/heard as the guy was laughing and anyone in the parking lot seen for sure, he/we didn't realize until leaving that you could see in the fence but not out oops.... Anyway Security came over a time later and asked if everything was ok...

That was the embarrassing part, because it was clear someone had definitely seen!

I told the security guy that everything was fine (it was) and he gave me a card for a domestic violence line 😂.

We now only spank at home or in very very secluded spots!

I was told afterwards that this happened by accident but I'm not so sure. Basically I was naked and over the kitchen table being spanked when there was a knock at the door. My wife answered it and it was her mother. They both came into the kitchen where my wife told her I was being spanked. So she carried on. When finished I was told to stand facing the wall, Hands on head, until told. I stood for maybe 10 mins then got dressed and went upstairs. Now my mother in law obviously saw everything and I was very embarrassed but I think I was set up.

OMG what an amazing post! I have just been reading some of your other experienced whilst being punished and you certainly have a history, Spanked , I expect in your early days, by your Mother and Aunt, in the nude, and now by your wife - you certainly are living the dream.

I agree with you that this latest experience where your Mother in law witnessed your punishment was probably a setup as your wife would not have simply opened the door to anyone . I can only imagine my excitement if I had ever been placed in your position- you had all the security of it happening within the family and that opened so many possibilities ,apart from the intense humiliation, primarily that your Mother in law might in future take a more active part in your punishment. I can just dream about being punished by my wife as you are, but if my Mother in law had been involved as well - although in my case she was not attractive sexually, the possibilities of future developments would have made my head spin! You lucky b*****d !

I got lots of spankings in years past - sought them out. Found them exciting & fun. Now I'm the spanker :-) But this is about the Past -

One time I was over the lap of a fairly elderly gentleman, my bare ass getting the back of his hairbrush. Also in the room was a sporty good-looking guy who was also there to be disciplined. I'd never met him before. He watched me learning my Lesson with a smirking grin. His presence greatly contributed to the experience. I returned the favor hen my punishment was over & watchd him get his. He had a great round meaty buttocks that I thought was perfect for spanking. He kept looking over at me while he was being spanked. His anguish & helplessness was - frankly - hot as all hell for me to see.

In LA there are quite a few public events where men & women are given spankings - clubs, etc. Famous well-known spank event for males is called "Moonburn". Never been to any of those, which I've been told are very well-attended (or were); being seen by many while getting a spanking is apparently a very popular choice for many.

I was part of a 'group' spanking with a couple friends IRL as an adult, to be totally honest, in the moment it was kinda a blur because it was sprung on me pretty much an hour before. I do remember blushing a lot as my diaper was taken off, seeing as I was the only one wearing them at the moment. but once we were all getting our bottoms warmed I honestly didn't notice.

An audience is the absolute peak of all fantasies for me

An audience and also being part of an audience both add to the excitemen and embarassment

I'd love for the audience to make embarassing comments tbh

I think I would enjoy a mixed audience watching my bare butt being spanked with a belt or paddle at a spanking party. I've never done that but I've had the fantasy.