Anyone experienced a rough rectal?

Anyone ever had an experience with a rectal exam where you experienced pain or discomfort?

My first visit with a new urologist involved a rectal exam. I always enjoy a dre, but I almost jumped off the table in pain when he inserted his finger. I'm pretty sure he didn't use any lube. I didn't say anything but in hindsight I should have confronted him. I asked for a different doctor for my next appointment. The receptionist didn't ask why but I could try she wanted to know my reason.

My first few. I remember once or twice I felt like I was about to scream. I could barely stand a finger, and one doc had fat fingers. My anal muscles were so tight and tense then, and those valves down there were geared to only open one way. And it's not like they really make it all the way to the sphincter.

It took several years to NOT have discomfort.

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O yea the question sort of meandered into a cul de sac "dead end"

Yes and often. My gastroenterologist ya I know lonnnnng title. Look it up. He has this tube thing he slaps up my arse wiggle ,turn ,slap to open the gates to my bowels. Dam that friging makes me jump every time. After that, I get the scopes and a joy filled visit from Mr snakey. It is even more uncomfortable coming out.

The first couple I had I almost jumped out of my skin. The finger wasn't eased in. One push right in.

@Bad_Princess great descriptions! I’m due for Mr. Snaky in September, but will opt for laughing gas or propofol. I don’t know long how the snake is up there, but for me being knocked out or silly, it’ll seem like a nanosecond. They schedule 50 minutes for the procedure. I will joke with the nurse about Mr. Snakey!

In my forties I complained to my PCP about inability or delayed ejaculations. He referred me to a urologist who gave me the longest and most forcefull DRE I’ve ever had, not terrible butt lots of probing with a large finger. Probably had his finger up my ass for a full minute. Not intolerable but a lot of pressure probing on my prostate and asking if it felt tender etc. His prescription: nothing wrong down there, but during sex you REALLY have to concentrate! WTF, did he think I was doing Sudoku puzzles or worrying about my IRA portfolio while fucking my wife! Wasted exam!

@Bad_Princess great descriptions! I’m due for Mr. Snaky in September, but will opt for laughing gas or propofol. I don’t know long how the snake is up there

@Rigel I don't do anaesthetics. I like to be fully conscious. It takes an hour or longer. The experience is uncomfortable for me, but not entirely unpleasant. It is shameful to admit. I like it when Mr Snakey visits.

When my former PA did a rectal as part of a work up for prostatitis I could feel a lot more discomfort than at my first exam with my internist the year prior. Both had similarly sized digits but the PA didn’t use enough lube adding to my discomfort.

My second one when I was in my middle thirties. I wouldn't say the doctor was deliberately trying to be rough but his personality and bedside manners were if not rough, gruf to say the least. After he had me bend over the exam table he said was going to visually examine me. After he was finished with the visual exam he said he would be right back and went and lubricated his finger. When he came back he stood behind me and announced that he had very large fingers and he was going to lubricate my bottom first. This only added to the anxiety that I was already feeling not to mention it made start thinking that it was going to hurt. He then proceeded to explaine that it would be better for me this way and that he was going to use his finger to smear the lube on me. As he was talking he put his left hand on my back and started to push down holding me in place. I could feel his finger moving and then I heard him say one word in a little louder voice RELAX!!! and then it was going in. It wasn't as bad as I thought it would be when he said he had very large fingers. But it did make me try to squirm away. I couldn't move forward he had me up against the end of the exam table and his left hand had me held down against the top of the exam table. I wouldn't say he was intentionally rough but he wasn't exactly gentle either. Since then I have had a few more done and none of them have been done like this one was done.

Going back a few years i made a drs appointment due to amount of talk about men needing to get their prostate checked , when my turn came i was pleased to see it was a woman dr, however my mind was soon changed when she rammed her finger in, and it was very painfull,however future follow ups to this, all drs were gentle and pain free, one even did something ,possibly a finger nai t ouching the right spot, it was a woman and i reckon if she did whatever she did again i wouldhave cum, but hey one bad experience can be forgotten , all other fingering was def good.

I had a doctor push an anoscope in a little fast one time. It wasn’t the most comfortable but didn’t hurt too bad.