An age old Spanking Question: Is over the knee the best??

Of all the postures to assume, or be placed in to receive a spanking. Which one works the best for you:

OTK

Over Chair

On bed over pillow

Bent over

Just a few that come to mind

OTK to me can be too tender and familial for some scenarios but I admit I don’t see a thick pair of thighs on a woman without thinking that mine should be across hers with a hairbrush in her hand. The power of OTK spanking is also compromised by the dynamics of the spanker’s arm at that angle, but power isn’t always required.

Over the edge of the bed is where I was spanked all of the two or three times I actually got one at home. It can be good for play too, but for a really drastic scenario, EG prison caning, flogging, school strapping, et cetera, I think standing, legs slightly apart, bent fully over and holding the ankles is best.

Diaper position is fun but it only occurs to me to use it when I’m actually getting diapered or diapering someone.

As I always say in answer to such questions, it really should be what works best for the one administering the punishment.

However, for me - as an adult - a spanking should feel like a real punishment. That means a position where the disciplinarian is able to put as much oomph in to each stroke as possible. I'd say having the spankee bent over the back of a chair or over a table or desk works very well in that respect.

For me it is to bend over with my hands on my knees and present my bare bottom for paddling. I have tried several times otk with the wife but it like she can’t deliver a hard enough or accurate swat.

Over the knee with pants and underpants down to my ankles is how my mom spanked me with the back of her wooden hairbrush until I got too big to fit over her knee at about 10 years old. After that it was over the edge of my bed and she started using a doubled over wide leather belt which hurt even more than her hairbrush.

@gboy I hope those spankings worked for both of you. How long, age, did she keep spanking you?

Linda

OTK is degrading in that the spankee knows what is going to happen and submits to it

I was spanked naked over my mom or dad's lap until I got too big. I was too big for mom about age 8, who then placed me over the bed or a piece of furniture of suitable height. I continued going over dad's lap until about age 11. Then they were mostly over the bed in my room.

OTK only really works if there is a considerable difference in size between the spanker and spankee. I am around 180cm tall and weigh around 80 kg which is definitely too big to be spanked OTK. Simulating an OTK position can be quite good fun if you have a good imagination, but to indulge in the real thing I would need to find a partner around 140cm to spank, or one over 2m tall to spank me. Which I think is just too far outside the median to reasonably expect to find a partner.

@LindaB My mother only spanked me occasionally and the spankings stopped at about 12 years of age. The last one I got was at 13 from an uncle who gave my 12 year old cousin and I a severe thrashing with his belt, bent over the arm of a couch with pants and underpants down to our ankles after we got in serious trouble at the cottage.

@William5 I don't see OTK as degrading, more humbling. You're right, the spankee knows what is going to happen and submits to it. It's a joint thing for the betterment of the spankee.

OTK spanking with the spanker's leg over the spankees legs with dress up/pants down, and panties down is embarrassing, humiliating, and very effective in correcting improper behavior. That being said, I feel spanking over the knee is best but a variety of other positions keeps up the suspense when you know you are going to be spanked. Denise

Absolutely, OTK is the only way to go

I'm almost 6 feet tall and my play partner still uses OTK because she knows that in this position I feel more like a six-year-old than a grown man and that's exactly the feeling I crave. It may not be the most effective position for spanking an adult, but for me, what's going on in my head at that moment is more important than the pain itself.

@gboy --- Not surprised when you said cottage. Summers seemed made for mischief and I had many a good spanking at the cottage to help me redirect summer energy. Linda

Spankings are best when it's not my bottom being spanked. Tender are my buns! lol!

Over the knee and bent over would always be my top choice. It’s something about the positioning and exposure just where I like it lol open and ready for my barehands, paddle, or whatever I’ll be using

I think Spanking OTK brings a spanking couple mentally together.

The Spanker can feel every movement, jump and reaction the Spankee makes.

It may be an "age old question," but there really is no question. Over the knee is the clear gold standard for spanking along with many other sensually humiliating intimacies. While other options may offer greater access or be more clinically traditional, the direct physical contact and the fully and personally surrendered posture of over the knee make it the best possible position for spanking, temp taking , enema administration and many other tender practices.

A spanking isn’t just about the actual smacks to a miscreant’s bottom. It’s the whole ritual - being sent upstairs, ordered to strip and wait for me.

Lowering him over my lap is another important part of the ritual. He know what’s going to happen, and there’s nothing he can do about it.

I really have no choice on position. It's up to the giver to decide the position and as the recipient having to accept! All part of the excitement and anticipation!

Really wish it would happen to me, with my right hand held behind my back and her right leg locked over my leg or legs to keep me firmly locked in position spanking me till long after I could not beg or plead understandably!!

However I did ❤️ being held in the Diaper position! Unable to move out of position and watching my wife paddle me with a very determined look on her face!!

Mostly I am spanked lying on the bed. I am much more able to stay in position this way compared to being spanked while standing😃

OTK is definitely unique and it makes a lot of sense why it holds a special place in a lot of people's minds.

For me though, being made to bend over furniture or being made to be on all 4s are my preferences. My mom did use OTK on me when I was younger, but it didn't take long before bending over my bed or sometimes the couch became the most common. It almost always meant a more severe implement too, so there was an added factor of anticipation and it became the position that for me is the most submissive - I remember having to pull my pants down and bend over and just wait for her to come in as I would lay there and twiddle my thumbs nervously.

As an adult, on all 4s became my other favorite as arching my back, (almost always) showing off my private bits and holding position required a more conscious type of cooperation on my end and therefor felt more humiliating and submissive.

OTK can also be challenging/exhausting depending on body size of the two individuals.

Personally I find OTK off putting. I have never been spanked as a child, but OTK brings to my mind such dynamic rather than consenting adults engaging into sexual game.

As well, I do not think OTK allows for anything more just a few slaps. I think it is good for role play scenarios rather than for actual serious spanking.

To me! Nothing seems to match the humbling, naked position over the spankee's knee,Lap,.!

The mental picture itself is extremely sensual in nature and I suspect having a strong woman place me over her knee and whale away is

extremely arousing. Wether or not it achieves the motive of creating enough pain is questionable and varies from Ass to Ass, deserving individuals punishment is speculative. Is It Embarrassing? DAM RIGHT!!

A hand, a strap, a paddle etc can all add a lot of pain! The very thought of it is sensual!!!

OTK guy

I enjoy a spanking. My favourite position is over the knee. Being held down and "WHAPPED!" with the hand of power feels great.

Being bent over the table or holding my ankles means I am going to receive a more severe experience with the paddle or strap. It is not as intimate. Still fun but more pain than play.

Did I do something bad? Probably.

I love them all. Each position has its own component.

Standing up, legs slightly apart, bent over, is the most humiliating. I feel completely exposed. D can see my butthole, for some reason it embarrasses me.

OTK…really turns me on. My butthole isn’t fully exposed, unless D pulls my ass apart to insert a dildo. I always arch up to receive the dildo. The thought of him spanking me with a dildo up my ass, makes the pain from the spanking pleasurable. Definitely makes my cunt wet.

Diaper position, makes me feel like a little girl. The spanking is more painful. D sometimes spanks my clit. Not as arousing, and painful. I squirm a lot which makes it worse.

Sometimes D, makes me get on all fours and crawl. He spanks me with a paddle as I’m crawling and calls me names. Humiliating.

I love them all. Each position has its own component.

Standing up, legs slightly apart, bent over, is the most humiliating. I feel completely exposed. D can see my butthole, for some reason it embarrasses me.

OTK…really turns me on. My butthole isn’t fully exposed, unless D pulls my ass apart to insert a dildo. I always arch up to receive the dildo. The thought of him spanking me with a dildo up my ass, makes the pain from the spanking pleasurable. Definitely makes my cunt wet.

Diaper position, makes me feel like a little girl. The spanking is more painful. D sometimes spanks my clit. Not as arousing, and painful. I squirm a lot which makes it worse.

Sometimes D, makes me get on all fours and crawl. He spanks me with a paddle as I’m crawling and calls me names. Humiliating.

As an adult I found myself across the laps of a number of women, from colon hydrotherapists to masseuses, to registered nurses who had me across their laps as they sat on very firm chairs with my briefs pulled down or nude, and laid inIo my buttocks delivering their punishments to me with both hands or hair brushes, leaving my buttocks not only on “fire and red ” but bruised too!

There were also times when I was face down, bare bottomed on a bed receiving numerous firmly delivered hits with wide leather belts, that as well left my buttocks not only stinging and warm, but “striped” also.

OTK spankings are the most visual position imaginable, causing , in my case, to create a position to begin with which defines "SPANKING" in and of itself. I received Enemas in that position also up until Mom couldn't manage it.

To this day it is the position that creates an erection. "To start with". After that it's whatever your told to do or "else"!

OTK4fun