For the Ladies: discovering your man's circumcision status

Whether or not your man is circumcised, does that matter to you. And if so, did you first discover your man's status by asking, or after actually seeing. Or perhaps you went for a feel over his pants or underwear.

I would think those who would tend to be concerned would be those who would want to perform oral sex, or have hygiene concerns about smegma, etc.

Much like penis size, I suspect this is more an issue for men themselves than women. Yes I have a preference but it’s hardly a deal-breaker.

I think I can speak for most when I say we prefer it be clean and of average size.

@Nurse_Phillips Regarding size, can we summarize by "too small = difficult to feel it, too big = it can hurt, especially in the back"?

Whether or not your man is circumcised, does that matter to you.

I am glad my husband is uncircumcised so yes that matters to me. But I think a lot of British ladies do not care so much about if a man is uncircumcised or circumcised. Also there are a lot who definitely prefer uncircumcised men like I do but there are some who prefer circumcised men too. I think we are opposite to American ladies about what we are used to.

And if so, did you first discover your man's status by asking, or after actually seeing. Or perhaps you went for a feel over his pants or underwear.

I found out when I saw it but I do not think not really wondering all that much about it before then. I think I just expected he would have a foreskin. He did and I love it.

I would think those who would tend to be concerned would be those who would want to perform oral sex, or have hygiene concerns about smegma, etc.

I would not really know what to do with a circumcised one. It would be less for me to play with, and I would not be sure how much less sensation a circumcised one maybe had compared to the uncircumcised one I am used to. I would wonder what I would need to do differently because I have heard it is not quite the same.

As far as I'm concerned, there are enough cocks to suck, and there are enough people willing to suck them. So basically I can stick to circumcised only, and all the uncircumcised ones will be fine., with plenty of other people willing to suck them.

I was curious about how the ladies felt because, well, it's gotta go inside ya. So maybe you would have a preference.

Before I answer about the moment I found out about the penis of my current partner, I have to admit I find myself agreeing with @Nurse_Phillips and @Amethyst again!

I think I can speak for most when I say we prefer it be clean and of average size.

Yes!

I also have my own preferences (plural), but I wouldn’t walk away from it if it wasn’t what I expected to see.

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When I met my current partner, I didn’t ask if he was circumcised or not while chatting. I did start picturing what I thought he would look like as we agreed that we were not going to send each other nudes. Given our age, I was 50/50 on whether he would be circumcised or not, but I was leaning toward circumcised because of where he grew up (not a capital city), and the fact his parents were older when they had children.

I was very ok with that, because I thought that I was going to have a good time analysing how, when, why, etc. But on the flip side, I love uncircumcised penises, and the right of bodily autonomy they represent also.

The first time I invited him round after a coffee date, I remember pulling his pants down and revealing what looked like the most perfectly proportioned penis that I had seen in a long time. Covered with what I thought to be a beautiful foreskin.

But I think a lot of British ladies do not care so much about if a man is uncircumcised or circumcised.

In general I agree with Australian women. As long as he’s happy with it, we’re happy with it.

I think we are opposite to American ladies about what we are used to.

I think women my age here are used to seeing an uncircumcised penis too, and younger women definitely are.