I'm always curious and fascinated by married couples, or couples who enjoy outside spankers

Particularly women, who enjoy watching their man get a spanking from another man, I've heard of this but don't know if it's something that exists outside of the "cuckhold" experience

That does seem to be a particularly rare combination. I’ve only heard about it in stories. I did meet a couple once where the wife went to get spanked by other women and the husband sometimes stayed to watch. I guess he sometimes did the spanking too but for certain occasions they both preferred another woman to do it.

Anyone whom loves (or is just very fond of) another is going to have times where some poorly chosen words, an accidental insult. A well meaning jibe that wasn't really received that way, all this noisy energy we are exchanging with each other accumulates in our minds our bodies, our aching joints.

I believe that consentual spankings. Rope play, wearing diapers, taking enemas, all this stuff, humiliation for those that need or enjoy it, to me this is the pinnacle of self healing. ITS THERAPY.

The sight of someone bent over another's knee, bare bottom exposed. The rhythmic slapping like a drum beat. The words spoken tonight inflict the right humiliation to make this so intimate, so personal. The visual that I'm holding in my minds eye is so crisp I'm getting an erection right now just typing the words alone.

But for me it doesn't end there at just some lustful sexual release. That's just the tip of the iceberg. Whether administering, receiving, or watching another get their turn, to me that is mental and spiritual healing taking place through the pain and the pleasure. In that moment I am processing indignation, the impollite ways I'm treated by uncaring people all week long. Somehow I'm releasing all that built up stess. Negative feelings. Into that bare ass over my knee I'm slapping. When I'm receiving on some level it atonement for the little slights, impoliteness. Even meanness I've inflicted on others this week, and surely didn't mean to. To err is human. I'm very good at saying the absolutely wrong thing to someone at the absolutely worse time. Because I am human, this is why I make these mistakes. The power. The healing that can happen during that few minutes my ass burning is immense. The soalful cleansing that happens in those few minutes of anguish, that moment of red assed pain is just what I need right then to prepare for and survive what is coming next week.

Cathartic soal cleansing, healing, getting what I deserve. Administering some healthy punishment to someone that needs it. My god if there was more of that going on there would probably be a lot less out of control, unnegotiated violence in the larger society.

This is Terry in Texas. Yall have a great evening.

Only in my and my wife’s fantasy…..

I don’t think it actually applies to women alone. Some men enjoy watching their wives or partners getting spanked by other guys . Cuckolding is such a crazy thing because you think it’s the man who’s on the receiving end that is suffering but the whole time it was what he wanted and the lady simply enabled it. It’s only fun when both parties are curious and interested in the whole situation. I’ve seen couples who can’t enjoy sex without a third party involved for whatever reasons

I have couple of friends, husband and wife, where the husband enjoys watching me spank her.

Met a "had-a-crush-on-her, i-was-too-shy" classmate at a reunion get-together. Lots of fun getting re-acquainted and laughing about it all. We were joking around and at one point she got up close, slapped and grabbed my ass, and locked eyes with me in front of everyone. Damn, I was hard in one-second.

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Met a "had-a-crush-on-her, i-was-too-shy" classmate at a reunion get-together.

@enemale24

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I had a similar experience with a woman who was extremely popular when we attended high school together. Although she was always very kind to me during high school, and we became good friends, I always thought she was too attractive, too intelligent, and too popular for me to ask her out.

Ten years after we graduated, we both traveled from out of town to attend our 10-year high school class reunion. We ran into each other during the homecoming football game on Saturday afternoon. Initially, we were sitting with other friends. As we chatted during halftime, we decided to take a walk to the concession stand together. I bought her a drink and some snacks, and I said, "I always wanted you to be my homecoming date." She smiled and said, "I would have liked that, but you never invited me to a homecoming dance." And I replied, "You represented our class on the homecoming court every year. I always thought that you were out of my league." She locked angry eyes with me and said, "I would have said, YES!"

We returned to the stadium bleachers, but before we got all the way back to where our friends were sitting, she said, "Let's just sit here together." As we continued to chat, while watching the game, I finally blurted out, "Will you be my date at tonight's class reunion celebration?" She said, "YES!".

We were both staying at the fancy hotel at which the reunion celebration/party was taking place. I went to her room at 6:45pm sharp and escorted her down to the ballroom. We sat together, laughed a lot, and danced the night away. At one point, after a loud party dance, the band started playing a very romantic soft/slow dance. I started to walk off the dance floor. She grabbed my arm very firmly, locked those angry eyes with mine again, and said, "Oh no you don't, Young Man! Hold me close and pretend that we are still in high school." As we danced, I became rock-hard erect, and she could feel it. She whispered in my ear, "You were a very bad boy back in high school. You should have asked me out! Tonight I am yours, and you are MINE! Do you understand me?" I replied, "Yes Ma'am." Then she whispered, "You also have a very naughty erection right now, without my permission! Later tonight you will be disciplined! Do you understand me?" I replied, "Yes Ma'am."

The partying lasted until about 3am, then I escorted her back to her room. In spite of her stated intention to discipline me later, I didn't want to behave like I was assuming that I was invited to spend the night with her, so I gave her a moderately passionate kiss and I started to walk away. She grabbed my arm firmly again, locked those angry eyes with me AGAIN, and said, "Get your sorry ass in here and undress me!" It was definitely a night to remember! Later, the next morning (at about 10:30am), we went to the hotel dining room for the Sunday morning reunion farewell brunch. I couldn't sit down comfortably because of the "discipline" that I had received a few hours earlier. Nevertheless, in spite of (or perhaps because of) my sore ass, I was rock-hard throughout the meal, and Elizabeth's hand frequently wandered over (under the tablecloth) to tease my frustrated penis. After brunch, we went back to her room. After disciplining my naughty penis (whipping it with my leather belt), she finally allowed me to have my way with her, doggy-style. When she was ready, she didn't say a word. She simply stopped whipping my penis and handed me the belt. First, I whipped her ass. Then, I whipped her breasts. Then, I whipped her pussy. When it was clear that she was fully submitted to me, I didn't hold back... I told her to get on her hands and knees, on the floor. I aggressively F'd her (very hard) from behind, firmly grasping her amazingly firm breasts from behind and using them to move her body forwards/backwards in sync with my thrusting.

We have now been attending our reunions together, every 5 years, for decades. My wife really enjoys watching Elizabeth punish me!

As @PutMeInTheCorner observed:

That does seem to be a particularly rare combination. I’ve only heard about it in stories.

The only situation I can think of is when couple is a D/s couple and D partner enjoys letting other dominants play with their s partners. With spanking it sometimes happens at kinky events where some degree of play is allowed. Hoever, I doubt meeting 'outside spankers' is a common thing. Unless it is someone 'playing on a side' because their partner is not into certain kinks.