With regards to being spanked, is embarrassment a source of stimulation?

When you, (who like to be spanked, or want to be spanked) get spanked, do you ever feel embarrassment, and then does that embarrassment ad to or create excitement??

Yes, absolutely. The elements of anticipation and humiliation are huge for me. A spanking is very often humiliating on its own but I’ve always been fascinated with ways to enhance that part of the experience. I find that ritualizing parts of the experience is one of the best ways to heighten those feelings.

When I was a kid my mom would often put me in corner time before or after a spanking. Sometimes both. Sometimes my butt would be bare and/or I’d have to hold the implement that was used/going to be used. I remember having that same feeling of excitement during those moments as I would during the actual spanking and that’s continued with me to adulthood.

Embarrassment & humiliation, for me, are an essential part of the experience. The embarrassment starts when I've been found out. I am scolded by my domme; she confronts me with my misdeed, asks if I knew it was wrong, why I couldn't control myself and more. I am defiant (usually) she immediately makes me strip. I'm a full time cross dresser. She often has me keep on my bra, garter belt and nylon stockings, but no panties. She mocks my lack of masculinity: my wearing lingerie wearing and small penis, small balls. other times I have to get naked. Nothing makes one feel debased like kneelng naked when the other person(s) are clothed and standing looking down. Other humiliations: she puts a small leather cat collar around my scrotum & leads me around by a leash; she puts a 'humbler' (wooden clamp) on my balls behind my legs so I can't stand straight. I often get an erection OTK spanked as my penis rubs against the leg. More humiliation by a penis spanking. then it's corner time with my red butt.

Yes everytime it was announced in front of females as a teen that I was going to get a spanking from my father that night I got an erection. This included my girlfriend and her friends, my sisters friends, neighbours and female cousins!

Being exposed and on display is all part of the spanking experience IMHO.

I think it melds fear of the spanking pain with the excitement of the occasional touching.

As an adult yes, for sure! As a kid no! Then it was just another negative emotion and unpleasant ritual to have to endure! However, once over the parental or other adults knee, you quickly forgot about feeling embarrassed or humiliated! Since the only thing on your mind then 'was the inferno being lit on your behind' and 'the flames consuming you buttocks'! AND JUST HOW MUCH IT WAS HURTING!!!!!!! Obviously it was not much of a consolation but you soon forgot about feeling embarrassed!

No, I haven’t ever been embarrassed or humiliated getting spanked. I find the thrill knowing I am fixing to get spanked very exciting, the butterflies in my stomach and thinking how it going to sting and burn really gets me going.