Masturbation without orgasm.

There’s little, or no, point in masturbation or receiving a “hand job” if you don’t experience an orgasm.?!!

Sooner or later in life, there will come a time when your body simply won't be up to orgasming because of any number of reasons, the most disappointing of which will simply be 'old age'.

At that point, the point of masturbating is simply feeling nice and perhaps recollecting sexual fun of past times.

As a massager i could tell masturbation with orgasm is possible, especially when you are older.

For older, its possible when you had a surgery or testicular cancer. I have a neighbour who also takes massages by me once in a month or so. He is a widower. When i massaged i always placed a towel on his penis. But once he moved it and asked me if I massage the inner thighs and pubic area. I did with oil and saw it got semi hard. I distracted himself with other conversation. Next time he repeated it and this time he asked if i could touch his genitals. I gave him a good massage and slowly got hard. He asked me to lower the pace anf when he got very hsrd he asked me to stop. I think he was having pain. Next times he was asking about my girlfriend and actually he was fantasing her while i was stroking him. Crazy man

Next times he was asking about my girlfriend and actually he was fantasing her while i was stroking him. Crazy man

You'd probably say the same about me if I were you patient/client and I let myself go ... probably about most members here too for that matter ... every person who fantasizes, fantasizes in their own way ... ha ha ha

Over the last five years or so, I had started masturbating with the intention to stop before orgasm, also known as edging. I enjoy playing with myself pretty regularly and I’ve found that doing this is very pleasurable and I let my desire to orgasm builds up for a few days. Then when I finally allow myself to cum it seems more intense. I usually take a day off to recharge and start all over again. Works for me!😊

Never on purpose. 😀😀😀

What a pleasant surprise to find this topic. As one of the 80+ folks, masturbating is simply enjoying and time. If ejaculation does happen,, it is a sweet bonus to the whole event. It was wonderful to read that many of us have the same approach

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Recently I started experimenting with edging and sometimes when I feel the pulsing, I think I have gone to far, but then I start again and get to the edge again and I realize I didn't get to the orgasm, just the pulsing.

My wife and I, in our late 60s, can orgasm once or twice a week, but in between we still play around with penetration and mutual masturbation and for my benefit we do anal play/insertions.

We have learned to enjoy the journey of 30+ minutes that consists of touching and making out and fondling and rubbing and massaging and sucking and licking and fooling around and penetrating and humping and grinding hips and other fun stuff. Sure, it's great to orgasm, but all the foreplay over a 30-minute period tends to be more emotionally binding and memorable than the 10 to 30 seconds of an orgasm.

After orgasms, we used to ask each other, "How was it?" or "Describe it for me?" Usually it was hard to put into words and the descriptions were often hardly descriptive at all, something akin to “It felt great” or “It was really long” and sometimes we looked back at the orgasm and wondered if it really happened at all because it was a fleeting, momentary thing.

Ah, but the 30 minutes of foreplay? We could describe every bit of it and could relive it and feel it all over again and get turned on just thinking about it in detail again with all the touching and making out and fondling and rubbing and massaging and sucking and licking and fooling around and penetrating and humping and grinding hips and other fun stuff.

The 30-minute journey is more satisfying to us than the 30-second arrival at the destination. And if you don’t get to the 30-second orgasmic destination today, then you will be that much more turned on tomorrow for the 30-minute journey and that much closer to the destination then.

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At age 76 and having had one testicle removed because of cancer, my libido has diminished. I’m a solo masturbator now…. Often masturbate while watching porn or having some fun sexual chats here on Zitybiz.

Though I do not always achieve orgasm it is wonderful to feel that zing of pleasure. When I do cum, the amount of ejaculate is much less than it was years ago but the sensation of orgasm is still very intense.

I imagine that most people started their sexual journey via solo masturbation and likely end their journey in the same manner. It has always been wonderful and I must say that the worst orgasm I ever had was FANTASTIC!

I have only experienced orgasm once, at the hands of a tantric masseur, usually when I ejaculate there are no orgasmic sensations

I used to masturbate like this before I had my first orgasm at puberty. I remember it feeling so good. I masturbated frequently as a boy.