Masturbation without orgasm.

Is there anyone, like me, who masturbates without orgasm? At my age (77) I'm good for about 2-3 or orgasms per week but feeling my cock has been a life-long pleasure. I do it at least once daily and the best time is for the 20 minutes before I roll out of bed. The next best time is when reading at Zity or watching porn. Many times I will do it far more times per day and sometimes when on the porch. I love twiddling a fingertip on the frenulum.

My wife will do it for me if I don't ask too often but she isn't as good as I am. She can't make me come anymore as it's an intense effort even from me. But, she jerks me while I play with her tits.

If my wife slips her hand in my boxers while we’re in bed and starts giving me a hand job I immediately cast my underwear off, spread my legs wide and thoroughly enjoy putting my balls in her hand while she quickly brings me to orgasm. She and I both would rather I’d last a little longer but she makes it feel so great I’m unable to hold back.

Since prostate surgery in the early 90s, it’s become increasingly difficult for me to achieve orgasm. Being in my 82nd year probably has something to do with it. That being said, if I have a female friend attempt it I usually still get there if I wait 2-3 weeks between serious tries. And, if I sense it just isn’t going to happen, I still greatly enjoy the attempt!

Since prostate surgery in the early 90s, it’s become increasingly difficult for me to achieve orgasm. Being in my 82nd year probably has something to do with it. That being said, if I have a female friend attempt it I usually still get there if I wait 2-3 weeks between serious tries. And, if I sense it just isn’t going to happen, I still greatly enjoy the attempt!

It's great when they play with the cock isn't it? When we were younger ejaculation, and quickly, was everything wasn't it? No we can savour the attention and to me anyway, orgasm is a bonus and not a requirement.

I’ve let my wife know how much I love her masturbating me, and she definitely lets me know how much she loves doing it. I could easily enjoy having her do it every day if she wants to.

My gf will play with me and tease me before we go to sleep so in the morning I am ready to go! I love when she plays with me and whispers in my ear and then tells me to wait til the morning!

I had prostate cancer 22 years,ago. Used radioactive seeds., and they worked. Doctor's told me that sex was not possible. For 22 years, I let my cock alone. Then, I started playing with my cock, while watching porn, and after 2 months, had an orgasm! Couldn't believe it happened!!.

I was already interested in having sex with a man, so I started having oral sex with men. The sensations are great, but orgasms are rare. To date, I have had four. But can't say when one will happen. I often think that if the doctors hadn't said what they did, I could have been having sex, and orgasms, all along. I still can't "make" an orgasm happen, but trying to is fantastic!!

Doing so since 12 y.o - quckly discovered, that unreleased sexual tension feels better than orgasm, and was doing my best to hold at least a week between orgasms. Then discovered edging and orgasm control fetishes, that solidified this habit even more. Even when started chastity, and learned to consistently come from nipple stimulation, I kept this habit in addition to chastity effect

Now, despite masturbating several times a day, I come only once in 15-20 days, just to keep system healthy

Is there anyone, like me, who masturbates without orgasm? At my age (77) I'm good for about 2-3 or orgasms per week but feeling my cock has been a life-long pleasure. I do it at least once daily and the best time is for the 20 minutes before I roll out of bed. The next best time is when reading at Zity or watching porn. Many times I will do it far more times per day and sometimes when on the porch. I love twiddling a fingertip on the frenulum.

This description fits my situation almost exactly - - I could have written that post!

Nev-4636 I wonder if it would be arousing for you if I were to be there with you and I would be playing with your Wife’s Tits and pussy while you watch. Then you would take over and fuck her while I watch from close up and encourage you by sucking your Cock when necessary, to regain your strong erection.

Yes, as I've become older, I masturbate more and more often with out orgasm. I have orgasm once or twice a month. But I masturbate a few times per week. It still feels good.

For years I rubbed myself to sleep. Just doing it as a way to self-soothe and relax, no orgasm.

Well, I do play a bit with myself indeed.

Going to orgasm has two drawbacks: it takes a while and I may get irritated, and it depletes the batteries, so to speak, for marital intercourse.

The only time I’ve ever masturbated without an orgasm are the rare occasions where I start To fall asleep with my erection in my hand….at that point I realize It’s time to just fall asleep 😂

I do it often/frequently even without the desire to need an orgasm. I just enjoy the feeling of slightly rubbing my hard cock during the day, but mostly before I fall asleep.

I use dildo daily... a lot of pleasure but no orgasms...

"To travel hopefully is a better thing than to arrive." - Robert Louis Stevenson

It's all about edging...masturbate almost everyday without an orgasm...it just makes when you do orgasm..that more powerful...

I start masturbating with the intention of reaching orgasm but there are times I quit before that point for whatever reason. Sometimes I am just tired, the room may be hot, hand gets tired, penis might be getting irritated, and the list goes on. I don’t recall ever being disappointed not reaching an orgasm.

Sometimes when I am by myself and just thinking about life in general I will be gently massaging my vulva because it feels good and I tend to shut out the rest of the world.

Nev-4636 I wonder if it would be arousing for you if I were to be there with you and I would be playing with your Wife’s Tits and pussy while you watch. Then you would take over and fuck her while I watch from close up and encourage you by sucking your Cock when necessary, to regain your strong erection.

Oh YES please! You've no idea how much I'd like that. I'm now rubbing the erection that you caused. I'd like to see you with three fingers up her cunt. I should send you a friend request.

For years I rubbed myself to sleep. Just doing it as a way to self-soothe and relax, no orgasm.

I still do occasionally. Reach down and fondle myself with no intention of getting off. Sort of comforting and a nice way to drift off.

Hi, I am glad we are now Zity friends and can share all sorts of erotic ideas. I too got a stiff Cock from imagining I was right alongside you and helping you and your Wife. A bit hard when I don’t know what she looks like though. Have any sexy pics you could share with me? Would you like to see a picture of my Erect Cock to show to your Wife. I will await your reply to make sure it is ok with you first.

Hi, I am glad we are now Zity friends and can share all sorts of erotic ideas. I too got a stiff Cock from imagining I was right alongside you and helping you and your Wife. A bit hard when I don’t know what she looks like though. Have any sexy pics you could share with me? Would you like to see a picture of my Erect Cock to show to your Wife. I will await your reply to make sure it is ok with you first.

I sent you a friend request. No pics of my wife but I have one of my cock which I have sent to you. It's been my best friend for 64 years.

Guys and their toys ---play with anything

I’d love to be there to watch while that happens.

There’s little, or no, point in masturbation or receiving a “hand job” if you don’t experience an orgasm.?!!

Some of the most intense orgasms I’ve had are as a result of masturbation, plus ejaculating regularly is healthy for the prostate.

I would say that I never start masturbating without the intent to have an orgasm. However, like others, for various reasons, I sometimes stop. In my early teens before I discovered how to bring myself to climax, I would rub my penis just because it felt good, although even then I was experimenting and hoping to achieve orgasm.

Don’t agree with Doctormike. My Wife and I would stroke each other for the sheer pleasure we gave each other. We would have done it loads of times when for one reason or another we did not climax.Obviously, to culminate in a wonderful orgasm, is the icing on the cake, so to speak, but to deny the pleasure of giving/receiving masturbatory attention because of the unlikelyhood of orgasm, I think would be silly. By the way, my wife died about this time last year, so I am now into solo masturbation, with the help of the photos I have of her and of course Zity.👍

However, I do concur with his opinion of the importance of regular ejaculation for Prostate health. While it is disappointing when looking forward to a nice cum, then not achieving it, the pleasure obtained from a well lubed Cock being lovingly stroked or sucked is wonderful. At my age 76, I still get really good strong erections but there is no way I can cum every time I play with my Cock. But when I do come, wow….off the scale pleasurable and quite copious although not shooting,the way I used to

I’ve been using an endurance spray occasionally on the underside of my glans when I masturbate, and like the nice strong ejaculations that result from lasting longer. I’m going to try it when my wife gives me a hand job, since she really loves taking full control of my erection and we can both enjoy her going at it until she wants me to orgasm. She has said before that she especially loves how the head of my cock feels in her hand with moist and slippery precum, which then really makes her want to keep stroking it. I’ve found that using the desensitizing spray should enable us to do just that.