Enemas and Sensual Play

How many out in The Zity Community use Enemas in their regular intimacy with each other

My ex and I did, with me always on the receiving end of the enema bag. Since her all of my enemas have been solo. We had some wonderful fun during and after her giving me many enemas.

@liquidsky and I do. We consider giving each other enemas a form of lovemaking.♥️

In some respects, enemas are more intimate than sexual intercourse. My sister and I swapped enemas from our preteens thru the end of High School. A couple of years later, when both my girlfriend and I were fourteen, we started swapping enemas. Then at sixteen, along with enemas, we started having sexual intercourse.

Fast forward a number of years, once I got married. My wife and I were like a combination of my sister and girlfriend. My sister and I giving each other enemas for pleasure, and my girlfriend and I giving each other enemas for sexual reasons along with pleasure.

When I first met my wife in college, she only used enemas for health reasons, like period cramps. She had never experienced enemas for pleasure, until she shared an apartment with my sister. She’d come in one evening feeling like she was coming down with the flu. So, my sister offered to give her a couple of enemas to help feel better, accepting her offer. My sister liked to masturbate anally, while taking or giving enemas using a long curved douche nozzle. So, during the enemas that evening, she did exactly that. Causing my future wife to have an orgasm during the enemas. Turning her on to enemas for pleasure.

Enemas formed a huge part of our intimate /sensual play; not only for preparation for anal sex but foreplay in general. The anticipation getting us both excited before even an item of clothing had been removed.

As Rick6981 said: In some respects, enemas are more intimate than sexual intercourse.

I agree. Most adults have sexual intercourse at some point in their life, but there are only a few who will allow someone to give us an enema for non-medical reasons. I had been married for several years with a good sex life before I had the guts to tell my husband that the enemas I took were for pleasure, and I wanted him to give me one.

@Cheryl77177 Enemas have been such a big part of my sex life since my college and my first marriage.

I was living in the same boardinghouse an older woman, a nurse.

She invited me to dinner one evening. That innocent meal turned into a hot sexual relationship. She introduced me to erotic enemas taken and given for sexual pleasure. Another nurse, her friend, joined us and we enjoyed many enema threesomes.

They taught me some of their nursing skills and the parts of gyno exams they enjoyed. It was the hairy 1960s and they both had beautiful bushes.

I’m still partial to women with thick pubes who love enemas and gyno play.

Im still waiting for a ideal partner to do it

Hello. I like enemas

Go please speak to enema

@sirensong and I frequently add enemas to our lovemaking. Often we lay together and administer enemas while we pleasure each other in bed. We're taking a mini vacation soon at a very private getaway where both indoor and outdoor enemas will occur....weather and bears permitting! Some of our favorite videos have been captured at venues like this!

Now that my enemate and I are both retired we can spend long, lazy afternoons with a pair of red bags and anything else we might think up.

Or we can talk about our next session, which is almost as good as when we actually carry out our plans.

Keep it flowing,

Bill

We do…

My ex and I shared erotic enemas throughout our relationship. We had met on FetLife, found out that we lived within a few miles of each other, and what started out as play partners turned into a wonderful relationship. Unfortunately, after six years or so, life interfered, and we parted company.

Sharing enema interest is a very intimate experience and it definitely adds to the sex tool box. Denise

Too many years ago my now ex-wife and I always enjoyed enemas as part of our sex life. We openly talked freely about our needs and wants about our desire for enema play. It started 3 years before we were actually married. Many of our dates ended up with the enema bag being enjoyed. Enemas could begin a sex session or could also be ‘dessert’ after sex. I’ll never forget how important enemas were to us.

The one comment that seems to run thru every post is a referral to their " EX".

@jackacorn said,

The one comment that seems to run thru every post is a referral to their " EX".

Speaking for myself, my wife and I enjoyed enemas before we got married and continued up until we got divorced. The circumstances behind our divorce, had absolutely nothing to do with our activities in either the bedroom or bathroom. During a marriage, over the course of years, people sometimes grow apart for reasons that are beyond their control and unfortunately, don't recognize it until it’s too late.

I, too, have an ex - a former fiance with whom I shared mutual erotic enema (and douche) play. I introduced her to it, and she enjoyed it quite a bit as an occasional way to spice up our otherwise vanilla sex life.

The bad news is that she could occasionally be an absolute nightmare as well, and over time the frequency of the enemas and all other sex play decreased (and eventually stopped completely) while living with her became increasingly hellish. I miss nothing about her other than watching her masturbate to an earth shattering orgasm while I gave her enemas and douches.

The good news is that my wife of almost 20 years is awesome. While she does not enjoy taking enemas herself, she was willing to try it a few times, and every week she gives me a big, warm, slow sensual enema while she plays with my cock and talks dirty to me. The best part of my week is when she goes down on me and makes me come as the last bit of the bag drains into me.

Although as I crave fully incorporating enemas into our sex life by giving my wife enemas as well, and I have to accept that will never happen, I would not trade my current situation for my old one in a million years. I consider myself quite fortunate.

Thanks Rick for the marital advice, but I stand by my thoughts in that kinky play too often leads to divorce in the long run. I can't answer why, but I see it many times.

Thanks Rick for the marital advice, but I stand by my thoughts in that kinky play too often leads to divorce in the long run. I can't answer why, but I see it many times.

@jackacorn, I believe you are mistaking correlation with causation.

Talking about ones "Ex" means they didn't find the best match for them and their kink. Try again and hopefully you can find someone that shares your interest. Talking about it first, before hooking up long term or marriage can help.

Having grown up with regular twice weekly enemas in a family setting, my view of them is different from most adults. They were just a fact of life. However, entering into the world of dating, I quickly discovered that enemas were the exception, not the rule for most. That said, I occasionally found a woman who tolerated them, and a few who enjoyed them. This was before the internet, and finding an enemate is easier (by no means easy) these days. In my opinion, enemas are far more intimate than vaginal, or even anal sex.

We rarely if ever “play,” but some of our hottest romps came after one of us (mostly me!) had an enema. I was feeling terrible before the enema, so amazing after!!

For us it was a playful start going toward anal.... when she was in ass mode, she would tell me to set it up....but only at the input moment I would know if it was mine or hers she wanted to play with.... sometime I started it, usually under the shower where she was very receptive to that type of attention. Once in a while, especially when nobody else was around, she may come in the bedroom with a bag ready and after the last fill, i'd come back in to find her wearing a strap.... memories of another time....