Enema rituals

It seems that many of us have enema rituals, whether done with or without an enemate.

If you have one, please describe your ritual. Do you rigidly follow the ritual? Or is it a general ritual that you improvise from during the process?

I personally don’t have a ritual. What I do however is to plan the session with my enemate the night before so that we end up with a pre planned general script but it’s not set in stone, improv is allowed.

Looking forward to your responses.

Keep it flowing,

Bill

My enemas have centered around bathing with the enema bag being on display. When I was young, I received my enemas from my morher at bath time. I always knew that I would be receiving an enema becuse the unfilled bag would be hanging in the bathroom. Enemas were never a suprise. I had plenty of time to contemplate my fate.

As I got older, my enema givers would tell me to take a shower first. When I entered the bathroom, the enema bag would be already hanging waiting to be filled. Sometimes, the bag would be out and hanging overnight if I would be receiving an enema the next morning.

It has become a ritual to have the bag on display before enema time. When I see it, I know what is going to happen. Depending on the circumstances, I automatically take a shower and wait for further instructions from the giver.

--I take enemas for two reasons. One, simple hygiene enemas to keep my colon empty. These aren't erotic, they just keep my colon free of feces. That is a sensation I despise. I start low, empty my reectum, and then with sequential squirts of water work my way higher and higher into my colon. I can almost always completely empty my colon with two quarts of water. I do this first thing in the morning, when I first get home from work, and last thing before bed. Even if I know hubby and I are going to be having sweet enema-sex shortly thereafter, this ritual is not erotic in itself.

--On the other hand, if I'm playing with enemas for fun I usually dress in a nightie or something I feel sexy in. I go through my collection of enema bags and make a choice, and almost always stay with that one bag for the session. If hubby is involved there are love-making rituals involved in which enemas are an important part, but not the only center of attention. But if I'm playing solo then enemas are indeed the focus, leading eventually but not quickly to orgasmic masturbation. Sometimes, reasonably often actually, I achieve an orgasm from the enemas alone without hands-on manipulation. I almost always seek to get water above my ileocecal valve into my small intestine, first emptying it and then enjoying the sensations of having it swollen with an enema. While I love the sweet feeling of warm water in me, for years now I have tended to gravitate to cold water when I feel the desire for orgasm sooner rather than later.

--Only at Zity could I talk of such things!!

Hugs, ~Daine

Wonderful query Bill and I definitely have a ritual. Those who know me already know my enema sanctuary is our cottage up north. I only enjoy a session when I’m assured a lengthy, uninterrupted time lasting several hours. Once the time arrives I will strip, brew 8 cups of coffee and neatly lay out all the equipment and accessories while the coffee is cools. As an appetizer I’ll plug three suppositories in place and relax on my back exposed to the sun. Once the time is right I’ll move to the second act which is 1-1.5L of warm water containing a squirt of Johnson’s baby shampoo plugged inside for as long as possible. This is usually followed by the coffee and a cleansing rinse.

I look forward to reading other routines.

When I had an enema as a child or teenager, I knew it wouldn't end soon. These were sessions of 2-3 enemas that lasted several days for the best result.

I have enjoyed everyone's discussing their intimate situations.

I try to avoid a ritual, except for undressing down to a Tee shirt. I arrange a continuous flow system with a water filter filling a 4 quart translucent reservoir. I always keep track of its temperature with a digital meat thermometer. I like to start with body temperature enema and conclude with about 85 degrees Fahrenheit kicking out all that the warm water has mixed in it. I always weigh before and after, to see if any might still be wanting to come out later. I like to keep a foam exercise roller under my hips and my shoulders on a piece of Pilates mat in a small shower stall with its drain strainer removed.

Once when at 65 years old we set up a trip to a town 4 hours away with a planned enem fucking time. She normally does not play with them, But, had been reading about them. I asked her to put down something of what she might have in mind. She went to work on that enthusiastically and proudly presented it, with her breasts thrown forward saying, "We are doing this!" I sort of memorized it, and during the travel time brought it up and asked about this and that, to see more of how she envisioned it. She tired of having to explain herself and asked me to tell her how it was going to go. By the time we found the motel, checked in, and got to the door, i could tell she was excited and a little nervous. We were like newly weds. She enjoyed me unpacking and seeing things appearing out of the suit case. She even kissed one of the nozzles for me saying, baby me daddy and get me good.

@azdiane how much water do you find you need to take to get past the ileocecal valve? The most recent wonderful colon hydrotherapist I’ve found is great at getting mine to release, but she’ll fill me with 5+ liters first and do a deep massage all around my colon, sometimes having me turn on my side while emptying as well. She also gives awesome retention enemas with coffee or a green tea mix and let me use my Silicone Nozzles colon tube last session, so I’m asking if I can bring my colonic speculum enhancer next time I see her. I’m going to try abstaining for at least a week before my next appointment, I’d love to have a hands-free orgasm while getting filled. I already drip tons of pre-cum but don’t get erect during colonics in any I’ve had. I do wish I could find an in-home enema nurse who was also into pegging like a few of my exes. Maybe someday.

@sirensong and I do not have a ritual, but on a few special Saturday nights we have hung our enema bags.... her's is red and mine is blue, from the posters of our bed the night before.... makes for hard cocks and wet pussy's during Sunday morning coffee.... We call these 'going to church' mornings!

No solos...no rituals...I play the partner I have..have to tune them in and make them sing...everyone is different....If I find the right ones, I offer myself to the nozzle....everyone does something different. With my wife we enjoyed it in different ways, according to the mood of the moment and how the session was proceeding, but we kept doing something different trying to surprise each other...kind of difficult though....

The only ritual I have is that I am completely naked. Just whenever the mood strikes is when I give myself an enema

I keep my enema bags in the walk in closet as well as all the hoses hanging in plain sight there is a shelf of lubricants ,soap,baking soda and sea salt. Then there are two big woven bins full of dildos nozzles and plugs there. The door to the closet has an exterior entry lock when I put the key in that door my cock tingles. Every time I get dressed I’m looking at my enema grear and what I’m coming home to for my pleasure. All the bags are open tops making it easy to add more enema solution to the bags from the gallon pitcher which I fill both from the bath tub. So every time you put something up or get dressed you looking at your enema equipment that’s waiting for you…..

I love to get in Enema mode . Start with planning my Enema. Get all the Enema gear ready. Fill up the Enema selusion in large bottles mix with the solution i want to have this time . And the temperature some more then body temperature. Then in the bathtub. Clean my body and shave all , then my body are smooth and clean. Then i fill up my 2 Enema bags and injoy it emensly.

One thing i love , is to shave my body. This i have done over 30 years. I have only hair on my ams and legs. The rest are clean and smooth. Love this feeling. And see a women with shave gender its so erotik and beautiful. Its always makes sex better. Its more intimate that way. I shave all . Even my butt . All clean and smooth. After so many years, i do it easy. And some body oil makes it all more fun.

And then i am reading to have a Enema. The smooth body makes all more strongly sexual. Its so easy to have a shower, after you are finished your Enema and all .

Many women loves a shaved smooth cock .

Love when a woman gives me a blowjob and she plays with my anal , at the same time .