How do husbands feel spanking their wives?

A friend wrote to me in her letters about her fantasy that I would stand in front of her after some misdemeanor and pull my belt out of my pants... For another, I prepared a vase full of flexible hazelnut branches and bamboo sticks in her bedroom, which inspired her to engage in all kinds of role-playing... I spanked yet another one outdoors—in meadows or in a barn—because that's what she wanted... And then there was that woman who got turned on by even the slightest slap on her bottom and almost came to orgasm when I tied her up in the diaper position and beat her anus with the wooden handle of a bath brush... Yes, the aspects of punishment and pain always played a role, but without eroticism, without willingness, without the partner's desire and sexual pleasure in submission, I would never hit a woman. It would not give me any pleasure; on the contrary, it repulses me.