Outted as a e-freak?

About 25 years ago my first wife divorced me. She knew about my devotion to the red bag but didn’t share the interest, if fact she thought it was pretty gross. She could be a vindictive twat and I was worried that she would out me as an e-freak (by name) to family, friends, and the rest of the world. Thankfully she never did and it’s been years now so I don’t think she ever will.

Has anybody else been in this situation? Have any of you actually been outted and what were the effects of the disclosure?

Keep it flowing,

Bill

Yes, but was worse than that, SHE (who must be obeyed) rang my friends and told them what I do. SHE has been given notice.........DCB. (don't come back). regards, irrigator333

You are not alone after 17 years of marriage, my wife comes home and shares that she won’t do any more kinky things , …that was it ..I went to counseling by myself , I shared openly with my counselor what I was into, I shared it all , it was a rewarding experience, I learned that by my being open and honest about my tastes/our tastes that it was (was ) a rich relationship, and that over time people grow apart, I believed that my ex had an agenda. I put it all in the rear view, I’ve met some wonderful hole women who have the same tastes and interests, I myself just share from the jump ,after you get through the feeling out process.

@irrigator333 Have you heard the saying "Don't throw the baby out with the bath water"? In your case it would be "Don't throw the wife out with the enema water"