Are you dominant or submissive?

In astrology, some zodiac signs are perceived as more naturally dominant, while others are seen as more submissive.

Dominant Signs:

Aries:

Aries is known for its bold and assertive nature, often wanting to be in control and initiating action.

Leo:

Leos are natural leaders, radiating confidence and a desire for attention and admiration.

Scorpio:

Scorpios are intense and determined, with a strong desire for power and control.

Capricorn:

Capricorns are ambitious and practical, with a strong desire for authority and social status.

Taurus:

Taurus is known for its stubbornness and determination, often willing to stand their ground.

Submissive Signs:

Cancer:

Cancers are nurturing and emotional, often prioritizing their partner's needs over their own.

Libra:

Libras are diplomatic and peacemakers, often seeking harmony and balance in relationships.

Pisces:

Pisceans are compassionate and dreamlike, often prioritizing the well-being of others.

Aquarius:

Aquarians are independent and unconventional, but can also be surprisingly adaptable and willing to compromise.

Sagittarius:

Sagittarius values freedom and adventure, but can be surprisingly adaptable and submissive in relationships.

Which one is you?

@Jane_Woo You didn’t mention Gemini. We’re adventurous and curious. I think some Gemini could go either way or easily switch. Either as a dom or a sub, both, or just open to most anything. I have nothing to back this up! 😀😀😀. Other than I, a Gemini, find the dom/sub roles very interesting now later in life, and wonder if I missed out on some kinks I/we would have enjoyed. My wife is Capricorn. Very stubborn. And determined.

I’m a Sag and I’m sub. My husband’s a Leo and very Dom. My GF is an Aries and the domlyist dom that ever dommed 🤣

I'm a Cancer, so I have the nurturing way about me. As a Dom, I've always believed that the scene is always guided by the needs of the sub. Not all so-called Doms get that. I can get into that Daddy role too

I am Aries and I am submissive. How do you explain that?

AI says virgos can be either, meaning AI doesn't think sign influences whether person is dom or sub. Personally I'm sub. My medfet involves women doctor or nurse doing things to me while I'm exposed or naked (cfnm). Also another way to experience CFNM is to be the sub in a femdom situation. So I spend too much time watching femdom porn relating to the male 'victim.'

I’m not dominant or submissive. But if I’m insulted or degraded by someone who thinks they have a dominate position I have no respect for them. I just shut them down and ignore them.

Sagittarius. I'm probably a bit of a switch but I did notice I have some big dominant tendencies. Being submissive scares me because I have to relinquish control to the other person and it's something I find incredibly anxiety inducing. Restraint is a no-no unless I'm the one doing it.

Gf is a Taurus and kind of a switch too, but personally quite the follower. Like you have to push her a little to make decisions or suggest something.

I'm a Taurus and fully fit the description... dominant and stubborn. I can be fair and sympathetic. But if you piss me off... watch yourself.

sub is a Pisces and he is submissive but is more about himself, not quite what is said about Pisces.

A Cancer here… it is very much me as described!

Why either/or?

My sun sign is Libra, sign of balance.

Sometimes I like to be submissive and sometimes I like to be dominant.

As I've gotten older the dominant side is on the ascendant.

I’m Aries and I’m partly agree with this. In life I tend to be dominant and like to have control over everything.

On other hand in bed I like when someone more dominant is forcing me into submission. I will not obey unless I feel that somebody is more powerful than me.

Like a fight of two strong characters that I love to lose.

@Rigel I was just thinking that! I’m a Gemini, and can switch but my natural disposition is very much submissive.

I don’t put a lot of stock in this sort of thing but it’s a good conversation starter!

I’m extremely submissive. Also shy and more of a listener.

The only time I’ve been dominant was with someone who was very submissive… I think it was easy and actually enjoyable to be dominant with him because I could empathize.

FWIW I’m Aries.

Sagittarius, and "incel" (a nice one....imho). Born disabled, wheelchair user. Never had a relationship. Due to my limitations, I would need any partner to be adaptable. However, sex would never be any fun for me if it's not fun for her. So, while I'd likely take, and take a lot, I'd like to think I'd give.

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Switch here, so both

I’m Aries, exactly on the start of the sign (21/03) … so, I’m quite dominant (or better, can be) in real life, but at the other hand, as my med interest was probably shaped while being examined by femaled doc’s I’m at the same time kind of a CFNM ‘addict’. And in such situations also sub and like that to be the case. So, learned it through experience … which ofcourse doesn’t mean I can’t enjoy being dominant in other sexual encounters 🙂. So, probably quite a switch then …

Born right in between Libra and Scorpio. Switch, I guess.

I have more submissive cravings (I've become a slave, after all), but also enjoying dominate others (other slaves, yeah, but still)

I'm Gemini, so I don't know where that puts me.

When young I was submissive, no choice. I had to obey authority.

Now I am dominant, and the people I spank respect the discipline I provide.

In chess game i play with white or black... that s the same in those kinky games

You are an enigma @GraceT . A submissive Aries? Those are usually feisty people. My late wife was one and definitely not submissive.

There are exceptions to every rule. 😃

I’m 100% s with a man. He is my daddy, and I’m his little girl. That’s the only way we have sex. All of our sexual play entails Daddy and his little girl.

I am bi. With a woman I’m 100% D. I think I’m D because I’m unable to stomach vanilla sex. Most of the woman I’ve had sex with are very feminine, sexy and s. I’m not attractive to masculine woman, who would be inclined to be D.

There is a part of me who would love to be controlled by a dyke. To be completely controlled by her. Maybe if she were extremely masculine I could fantasize she was a man.

That would be something I wouldn’t mind trying once.

I am definitely submissive, with a man only

I'm a scorpio but lean towards more slave than sub, but i'll go with extremely submissive.

Switchy Sag here but will submit to female Aries in a heartbeat.

Well....

I'm a Virgo/Libra cusp baby.

And the Zodiac basically means nothing to me.

And as many of you know, or not, I'm a Dominant. Tried the sub thing...Just wasn't me.

I am a bit of both. Being a capricorn, I am mostly submissive but have enjoyed the dominant role a few times.

Anything goes.........

top or bottom it doesn't matter...... as long as it's in...... she's got three beautiful holes....... one for my tongue and one for my pecker...... squirt !

@toshe63 ... hmmmm.

Libra. I am a submissive, but only in the house, whereas my wife is a Scorpion and the dominant partner in our marriage, but only at home.