I have no problem spanking men

I think I took this line from a TV show called "Angel" where the hero interrogates and spanks another man. Let me start with a question. Does a man spanking another man make it "gay "? Maybe a better question, and this is a broad and general one. Does spanking at times, cross sexual orientation lines? Does sexual orientation seem to bleed into the world of spanking needs tops or bottoms.?

However, we must give credit and respectful room for individual comfort levels Maybe that fact alone is one answer to this question. but, are there those out there who have ventured into this territory with trepidation or with great rewards??

I have no problem being spanked by men!

Spanking is my thing. I am a hard wired spanko. But it's not sexual at all for me. What matters is the credibility of the person disciplining me. They have to have a real air of authority that I can believe in.

There's likely to be nudity or, at least, a degree of exposure. For me that's embarrassing and shameful. And the reality is, if it's a proper spanking, my focus will be on coping with the pain rather than worrying about whether it's a man or woman who is dealing with me!

In my experience with Spankos, it is the spanking not the sex of the spanker that matters. I have spanked both men and women at play parties. I will say that with a male I can pay less attention to the force of my blows than with a woman. My palm doesn’t care 😃

Fascinating. Do you personally find it more interesting to spank, a male in his twenties or a man closer to your own age. That is if age difference makes a difference. For myself, I have preferred spanking men younger than me.

I don't think I'd take issue with spanking a man either as long as he didn't try turn it into some sort of sexual advance.

I can't say I've ever wanted to be spanked by a man. I could imagine it maybe happening but my criteria would be pretty high as far as what would make me comfortable with the idea and again I certainly wouldn't want there to be any sort of sexual advance.