Weird question, but have you ever wondered who’s all secretly masturbated to you?

I was just thinking about the vast number of different people and scenarios I have used as a mental image to masturbate to throughout my life. It’s usually someone I know personally to some degree.

Then I started thinking who all might of secretly masturbate to me. I’m not talking about mutual masturbating used in for play, I mean when their home alone and horny and as they lay back with their toy/hand/lube etc and they close their eyes, how many have used a scenerio with me in it to get off to? Who might be some of the more taboo ones? Any big surprises? Or the people who may have used photos I’ve posted on here or other forums?

Idk I just thought that would be really cool if you somehow you could just magically know. I mean really cool in as, I could know everyone who thought of me while at the same time getting to keep all mine a secret! 😆

I know it’s a weird question but I can’t be the only one who’s ever thought about that

Cool? It depends on who it is that masturbated to you. Be careful what you wish for, they say.

It's one thing if an attractive guy or girl has lovingly caressed their genitals to the thought of you... but you wouldn't want to know if the creepy old man down your street or your own uncle has.

I personally didn't grow up imagining anyone alive would ever desire me in any way, so I didn't really think about whoever would masturbate to the thought of me, but... I wouldn't want to have this kind of knowledge either as I think that statistically I have more chances of being creeped the hell out (those sleazy old guys, old enough to be your dad or grandpa, who ogle teen girls, for example) than flattered.

A few years ago an online friend of mine has confessed having polished his pole to an innocent picture of me where my neckline just happened to be a little low, and I was... perturbated by the news. It would have been one thing if he had been someone I was attracted to, but he wasn't. I wasn't quite creeped out as he was younger than me and not otherwise creepy, but... just kinda not entirely okay with it, either. It's not something I would have wished to know.

On the other hand, my gf has told me, after I asked her, that she had imagined us having sex a lot of times, and I assume she has probably flicked the bean to the thought of me. And I found it hot, because it's her. It really depends on who it is, really.

But still, unless it's my own partner, I just prefer not to know.

@Curious85 yes, I have wondered about that many times. Sure wish I could read minds sometime. Would help in finding a "friend"!

@Curious85 yes, I have wondered about that many times. Sure wish I could read minds sometime. Would help in finding a "friend"!

I try to imagine if and how people I know masturbate -

My female Doc.

The female pharmacy owner.

A good friend of ours.

The young veterinary techs.

A woman I used to work with (she's told me she does but won't say "how").

…. ( sleazy old guys, old enough to be your dad or grandpa, who ogle teen girls, for example) …..

@Hi_iaka Guilty as charged! a 30 year old woman is young enough to be my granddaughter! Ogler only. I’ve never masturbated thinking about someone I know, met or ogled at. Fantasized a few times - more as a young kid thinking about a hot teacher or someone’s mom - but that’s as far as I went! Pants stayed on and zipped!

I should be so lucky as to have that happen, even though I'd never know anyway ...

Ok, I admit it. Before I met my D, four years ago, I did a lot of online dating.

I had phone sex, vanilla sex, mutual masturbation sex and God knows what?!

I did nine years of online dating, with a couple of two year relationships scattered in there.

I’m also a tease naturally. I dress, covered head to toe, but I never wear a bra, and my nipples are always hard. I wear a lot of cashmere sweaters. You get the picture.

I’d love to think, men all over the world are masturbating to my erect nipples, and the imagination of what’s under all those stylish clothes.

Not because I need my ego stroked, but because I think it’s hot.

I’m extremely sexual.

I am 49 and profoundly disabled from birth. The first time I spent the night with a babysitter that had a daughter around my age, I was probably still in a body brace. Not exactly somebody I'd expect anybody to flick their bean over. She was breautiful, and I sw her in her PJs that night, but I had never thought of myself being the object of somebody else's desire. I was only concerned with being around girls that I desired.

As @Hi_iaka said, be careful what you wish for. It could well come true. I'd hate some young woman I wasn't attracted to masturbating over me. Especiallyu since I hav-e a history of attracting outcast types who want to be friends. I shudder at the idea of any of them thinking sexually of me.

If I could somehow limit it to college gymnasts/soccer players and ballet dancers, all very effeminate, then cool. Maybe. But I can't control that.

There have been times in the past where i have wondered. But on a few of my profiles, I include "If you jack off to my pics, I would be flattered if you told me, either by dropping a note or saying "hi" in a pvt chat in the mature chat room." And men have told me. Some I didn't even know existed, until they sent me a DM. For me, it's an honor. And i always say "It's always appreciated to be appreciated"

I must say, I've never even thought about it. I've never assumed I was quality enough in any aspect to elicit masturbation material for anybody, male or female. However, it is hot to think about. I would definitely take it as a complement if I ever did find out.

Mmmm....oh yes!!!

I think you have some of the most intriguing stories.

I have had some experiences with women that I believe were having masturbation sex with me. The majority of it happened in my younger years. I’ve always looked younger than my real age. Some of the encounters it was really obvious with what they said to me that they were pleasure cruising with me.

As I became older the obvious encounters became more subdued but it still happens with older ladies but a lot less than my younger years.

Feels like a bit of a double edged sword. I’ve always wondered about specific people but I’m not entirely sure I’d want to know the full real answer lol.

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My wife has informed me on at least four occasions in the nearly 46 years of our marriage that four different women had been flirting with me and had crushes on me. I, being married to the most beautiful woman in the world, never suspected a thing--just thought maybe they were being friendly.

While my wife says I'm very attractive, I think I'm more average in looks. I suspect she strokes my ego on my good looks because she doesn't want me to sulk or mope around feeling sorry for myself. I believe possibly my most attractive feature is that I am kind and caring to everyone, especially women and children. I am gregarious by nature and I give genuine, specific compliments whenever possible. My wife says that my friendliness and my kindness make me very attractive to some women, especially those who may not be treated with kindness by men.

Three of these women were married and one was a widow at a fairly young age (in her 50s).

So according to my wife, and she has remarkable intuition which I trust, four women have had crushes on me.

Now, I have never even considered the possibility that these women might rub their nub with me in mind. I tend to doubt it . . . but then again, who knows?

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I would love to have another man or woman thinking about me while they masturbate. It could be either secretly or openly, and would be quite the compliment to me or most anyone in my opinion.