Partner meeting halfway

I worked up the courage to discuss my fetish with a former partner and it took her a while to warm up to letting me come with her. In the meantime I took great pleasure in her willingness to describe the exam bit by bit and answer any questions along the way. She’d even undress and “act the part” a bit beforehand.

Anyone else have similar experiences of their partner warming up to the thought?

My wife never did "warm up to it" but did for my benefit go along with speculum exams including on a real exam table with stirrups. She helped fulfill my fetish but it would have been better if she shared the same interest.