Is it necessary to have a gear for BDSM

I do interested in BDSM but not enough room to store it and not affordable for now.

How you guys do it?

Do you make it?

There are options. An over-the-door restraint set up is affordable for many and stores away small when not in use. Likewise a strategic eye-bolt or two can be used for something like hanging a plant but repurposed for bondage. Google DIY bondage furniture for ideas

The storage question is definitely an issue for larger pieces of bondage furniture like spanking benches or pillories. I know there are options out there/things that you can build which can be folded up and put away, but even when these are broken down they still usually have a large footprint and you still have to think about how to conceal them well enough if there is vanilla company coming over.

A lot of the small things you can make do with “pervertables” which are just normal household objects that can be used in your scenarios. A lot of beginner self bondage can revolve around these types of items. Using things like duct tape, paracord, or ratchet straps for tying/binding, using underwear as a gag, using your regular hairbrush for spanking, using something like a marker or some type of vegetable in stead of a buttplug or a dildo. It can be hard to provide suggestions as it’s largely going to be determined by your environment and what you have on hand plus what you want to do or are willing to do. You just have to approach it creatively, and trust me your mind will start jumping at things when you go to the grocery store. When I’m on the kitchen isle my mind tends to think of ways I could be spanked with certain objects before it goes to how I could cook with them. Usually you can get away with concealing a basic set of cuffs and some nipples clamps easily enough and then enhance with pervertables.

Part of the question also hinges on if you plan on just doing self play or if you plan on incorporating other people. When I still lived at home in my early 20s I kept a play bag in the trunk of my car, knowing that my mother if she was ever in the trunk of my car was never going to open the bag or ask what was in it. Sometimes I would also conceal or have certain items shipped to a friend’s house to reduce the risk of unwanted eyes or questions.

Some self bondage sites will give you some ideas too. You could try looking at those.

There is no need for much complex equipment for beginners. Good start is just bondage tape, one roll is about $10 and some spanking implements, and those could be easily adapted from 'vanilla' items.