Hard masturbation

Does anyone else really enjoy masturbation which is really, really firm? I really enjoy it hard! So hard that my foreskin nearly fully retracts with every stroke! So hard, in fact.. that I've had several girls in the past say they don't like to do it as hard as I like it, because they're afraid they're going to hurt me. I'm wondering how common it is to enjoy it so firm? I also don't like lube! I'm uncut, and like the feeling of my foreskin being pulled back. I find that with lube, I can't cum as quickly and when I do cum it's way less explosive..

I think it all depends on how horny I am when jerking off. I have never liked lube when doing it either tho I am cut tho and for some reason I just never liked lube I think it is because after I cum I don't want to have to clean all of it up. I will also admit I do have a special super soft blanket I use to jerk off. I don't finish in the blanket but I do use it to get myself to the edge. If I am super super horny I want to be jerked or jerk myself really hard and fast but if I am only a lil horny the strokes are more gentle and slow.

Interesting, thanks for the insight.

Some of the most amazing and intense orgasms I've had have been from a girl I used to date - we used to do surgical roleplay together.. and she'd finish the surgery by putting a flat palm either side of my penis, gripping hard (the latex of her gloves would really assist the grip) and she'd push so hard, leaning over me... she'd do it so hard every stroke was painful! The latex would grip my foreskin so well that she'd draw blood from the slight chafing from the sheer force she'd use. I used to like saying after... "that hurt so good" 😄 The recovery from one of her surgeries would take a week or so... There would be little cuts and grazes all around the top of my penis - sometimes so bad she'd actually have to do some legit nursing as aftercare (she was a nurse).

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In my younger years, I did some "hard" masturbation sessions, solo, in my teens, and, years later, mutually with my wife.

These days, at age 67, there's an additional kind of hard. With each passing year and decade, it becomes "harder" to reach orgasm and so by necessity, most sessions are "hard" as in more pressure and intensity must be applied, whether you like it or not.

Similar situation with my wife. At 67, it's harder for her to climax so it takes more pressure and intensity to accomplish what was so easy a few years or decades ago.

As a senior citizen, I’m not aware of a “soft “ masturbation. If you’re able to achieve masturbation without being fully erect, then I’ve just learned something new.

@UKMedFetEnthusiast If I rub hard on my circumcision scar it will hurt. So no, unless plenty of lubricant is used.

My normal technique is to stroke the shaft will moderate pressure and no lube.

However, another technique I sometimes use is to put a copious amount of lotion in the palm of my left hand and make a fist and then force my penis in and out of the small hole created by my thumb and index finger. My glans is squeezed very hard with each entry and a great deal of pressure on the shaft is required to push the penis in. I find the orgasm from each method being different, with the latter technique being more diffuse and more like intercourse.

Since I masturbated for the first time I remember, I always did it quite moderate to enjoy the intense feeling of pulling my foreskin back and forth along the whole length of my really hard penis and to expand the moment of ejaculation later on. Me, and my ladies, did it all the way throughout all these years because I enjoy this feeling itself and push the point of no return as long as I can. A couple of months ago I caught myself rubbing him quite tight, hard and really fast. A hot and quite different experience for me. Now, I keep on doing it this way mostly, but always followed by an intense orgasm.

Yes, I agree, nice and slow and gentle to just enjoy the pleasant feeling in my Cock. But at 76, in order to come, I generally need forceful rapid stimulation in order to ejaculate.

@Gynagog - I'm the same age as you (ok, +1) and it takes a big effort to orgasm & ejaculate. And it only happens maybe every 2-3 days. But masturbation itself is another thing - I play with my cock at least 1x daily and some times many. I had a great session this morning in the last 15 mins of being in bed.

There have been times that my cock seems to get harder than usual while masturbating, it's usually when I've abstained a few days prior and I'm worked up in a frenzy to cum. And I've done it raw, with no lube to the point that it's painful. However, the orgasm hasn't been any more rewarding for me.

I've found that if I stick to a slow and steady pace and allow my lust to cum to slowly build, I have a more full body orgasm that is just mind bending! I've gained patience as I've grown older😃