Erectile dysfunction fetish

While not directly a part of being a sissy or being feminized, at an early age I got into my ED fetish [erectile dysfunction]. Closely allied to that was an orgasm denial fetish.

Somebody please educate me because I never imagined that ED could ever have anything to do with a fetish. So how does that work?

I actually like - and I am sexually turned on - by the fact that I cannot get an erection. Like many fetishes, this goes way back. Also, like many fetishes, it does not make much sense to those outside the fetish. But I feel more feminine. Tied in with this is my inability to climax and the love of trying but not quite getting there!

When I am in submissive role, I do not get erection, unless directly stimulated. And that lasts pretty much as long as stimulation. I do get very aroused and this 'dysfunction' makes me feel more submissive... I don't know what causes this ED issue. It is limited to play time only. Otherwise, no ED at all, on contrary, touch wood, pun intended, I am still pretty much like 20 y/o, it takes very little to get full erection.

Using an elastrator allows you to go weeks without having an erection. Many times, as happened to me, you can't cum, your penis goes numb, as if it were dead. Look for an elastrator or banding, but be careful, depending on how long you stay stuck, it can permanently kill your penis, causing necrosis and requiring you to go to the health system to have a penectomy. But for those looking for erectile dysfunction, it is a great alternative.

That would be great, if one could trigger erectile dysfunction for a limited time. Maybe there are drugs or herbs to archive such?

I like the idea but not in reality. My wife has played with making fun of ED after she stopped allowing penetrative sex. I have fully functioning and perfect erections but her calling me a limp boy plays into it (and makes me hard as well, haha).

I do not get erection, unless directly stimulated. And that lasts pretty much as long as stimulation. I do get very aroused and this 'dysfunction' makes me feel more submissive... I don't know what causes this ED issue.

This exact thing has been happening to me since I was in my early teens. I’m a submissive bottom due to not being able to maintain an erection long enough to penetrate a guy. I’ve tried a few times and everytime I’ll be rock hard and as soon as my tip is inside his asshole I go completely flaccid and even shrivel up and stays like that for a few hours. But as of lately I’ve been turned on by the idea of having ED with a partner cuz of the humiliation aspect plus then add SPH. I’m so aroused it’s insane but I’m as hard as a wet noodle. Flopping in the wind.

I can identify with the feelings. My cock stopped working for penetration when I was in my 60s. Before then I fucked my wife at least 3 or 4 times a week.

While I have been bi-sexual since Jr. High school, my cock has never been in a man, but I have had many in me.

I decided to take female hormones to develop little breasts. Taking Estradiol had the desired effect (I have small A cups now) and had the additional effect of shrinking my cock and balls. I never have a spontaneous erection. In fact, the only time I get semi hard is when I masturbate to porn. I only produce a tiny amount of sperm now - much less than a tea spoon. I have looked at it with a microscope and i still make active sperm, but just a small amount

I have been happy with my erectile dysfunction - it is not important to me now. My GF loves my mouth and tongue, and has not interest in being penetrated. I still occasionally take a few weeks of Estrodial to keep my breasts healthy, and my cock a clit!

So all is good with the world!

I have been happy with my erectile dysfunction - it is not important to me now. My GF loves my mouth and tongue, and has not interest in being penetrated. I still occasionally take a few weeks of Estrodial to keep my breasts healthy, and my cock a clit!

So all is good with the world!

What matters is your happiness. If you can be happy then it is the best feeling. You are lucky as your partner also loves it. I have seen older couples like you. I can suggest more things to make your life more happy by going to kink clubs and you could wear the sexy outfits you like, you can really womanize yourself, or watch others kink with your partner, if you are an exhibitionist you can show them your tongue skills and even give other girls the same. You know my partner told she had the best tongue from an old man who was in his 75s. He came with his wife and he politely asked if he could like my partner. We both agreed and did her in a closed cabin for 30 minutes. Me and his wife watched him. She got two orgasm with it but he was still not hard. I was super hard and he asked me to do her for the third and last one. They watched both of us. Later she told me that it was the best tongue she ever had. So you know there is always good in everything. Its all about asking and exploring. Life is short. So just enjoy.

I love to cum while totally limp. All it takes for me is something in my butt and no erection. Then I rub it like a clit till I cum.

I’ve always been incredibly aroused by having toys or other things pushed into my ass, however I would always be incredibly limp during it. I can be rock hard thinking about it, but actually being penetrated makes me limp. That somehow made me aware of chastity cages, and SPH. I love being locked up in a tiny chastity cage from time to time, and I just like the way it looks on me.