Meeting a play doc

I have been corresponding with a play doctor about a possible exam. We have a date and location picked and are working out times and specifics. I have been corresponding for a bit with this doc. He has quite a web presence with photos, videos and writings. I have not seen anything negative about him. He is clearly experienced. We have corresponded about what both of us are looking for and are interested in. Is there something specific I should be asking or negotiating? It appears that everything he does is within my boundries and we are on the same page as to what is or at least should happen during our time together. Any advise is welcome.

Where/how did you meet your new "doctor". I'm always looking for more ways to meet like minded people.

Where did you meet this doctor? Does he have a website?

Glad you were able to connect with someone for possible in-person play! Out of curiosity, is this your first medical play exam ever, or just a new play doctor you're going to play with? I would suggest meeting over facetime or similar video-ing app prior to meeting, so that you can at get familiar with each other and rehash anything that you need clarification on.

Below are some things I would have some detail on prior to going in for the play exam.

- if using a hotel, how are the costs of the hotel being paid for?

- Is it just you and your play doctor, or are other people being involved?

- is there anything you need to bring for the exam?

- state of undress for the exam

- outline of the things that your play doctor will do during the exam. Also - if you are looking for a particular flavor of exam (ex. teen/puberty, realistic vs. erotic, etc.) establish that too.

- do you want any photos or videos of the play exam? How will that be handled?

Sounds like you've given thought to boundaries, which is great!

- Establish if there are particular things that you as the play patient really want in the exam or handled in a particular way, and make sure your play doctor is on board with those requests. The play doctor also has a vote in what they are comfortable with too.

- Be specific about things that are totally off limits/hard red lines on. For example, if you don't want urethral sounding or use of an anoscope, then you need to make clear that those are off limits for you. Likewise, your play doctor also can say if there are things they are not okay with.

Lastly, 100% be specific regarding anything that involves your genitals or sexual activity. For most, play exams involve elements of eroticism or are a sexual experience, but that also means that you need both parties to be 100% consenting. Maybe you are okay with having a genital exam, but not having your play doctor stimulate you to orgasm. Maybe you want the play doctor to masturbate you, but they want to have sex. Maybe both you are okay with sex. Not sure what you are looking for in the exam, but critical that you and your play doctor know what is okay or not okay to have happen from a sexual standpoint in the exam.

Thanks for the replies. I met this doc through backpack2. I think itnwill ve a bust as I asked for some more information and no response.

I'm not familiar with backpack2. Searching for it gives me a ton of search results for Timbuk2 Backpacks. Can anyone help me find the site?

Sorry, it's 2backpage.com

Thank you

Very jealous! hope it went well and both of you enjoyed yourselves!

Good luck! Remember, you can say no to anything!

Did you ever have a visit @PtArtie ? Looks like you got some of our attention again with this thread 😃

I am curious too, friend. Did you ever meet the doctor?

Unfortunately, this one never happened. Once I asked for some more information, I got ghosted.

@PtArtie That's too bad. Hopefully you can try again and deliver an account of your experiences.

My first time I met someone on here he was in New Jersey we chatted a few times sent pictures. Decided To meet at a restaurant down the street from my hotel. We covered boundaries and things he wanted to do and things I wanted. We agreed to go back to hotel. He had alot of equipment. He cleaned everything before starting exam. We started slow with exam just shirt off then proceded. He was wearing scrubs. He eventually had me completely naked and gave me the most thorough exam I ever had. We have had 7 exams together each time I have let him go a little further as I am comfortable with him. 2 times he invited a friend to have me have 2 doctor's. His friend also wore scrubs but had me strip to underwear first. I was lucky for a great experience.

As long as you’re comfortable and they’re comfortable, isn’t much to ask. Just make sure to establish all wants, needs, limits beforehand.