What complements your enema session?

For my sub it used to be foreplay then a sex. Now it is snuggles, cuddles, and sometimes a simple hand job.

Because my medical fetish is very closely tied to my bdsm feelings perhaps completely intertwined. Enema is an important part of me entering my sub space if reviving dom space if giving. Its part of the ritualistic stripping of the sub that places them in a state of heightened vulnerability where they realize their body is no longer there’s but belongs to the doctor/dom. Plus it’s very hygienic so it’s useful prior to some very aggressive anal examination followed by a very intense anal therapy

From our bed next to master bathroom, I love listening as my enema is being prepared by my husband or more recently a wonderful semi-retired nurse who lives in our neighborhood. During the past year, Catherine has become a family friend who cared for me when I was ill over New Years. She gave me a Pedialyte retention enema with a bulb syringe when I was dehydrated. She is also a special friend and a grandmother-type to my older daughter. I also love a heavenly massage, neck to toe with special attention given to my bottom. I've trained my husband well.

Always enema themed porn or my personal videos with my partner.

Usually the things that complement my enema sessions are porn, edging, and dildo play.

With my wife it was always a prelude to anal sex...she usually started it by joining me in the shower, which signaled she was in the mood and she was never satisfied until she had pegged me to orgasm....with other friends some sort of anal play in the welcome closing to an exciting enema session...

Some enema visuals of course, that seems almost universal, but I really enjoy some low level estim as the liquid flows. I've got a home made stainless steel plug that can serve double duty as an anal electrode and enema nozzle. It seems that the estim makes it easier to retain the water.

My enemaplay sessions start with a series of soapy then salty bags to rinse. Lot’s of edging all the while😍Then a finish with a 3 quart green tea enema held in with my SNC 2.5 xl buttplug style retention nozzle😈Lot’s more edging and an extended hold time means I’m seeing stars by the finish line😘

My and my exes’ 4-5 other kinks and fetishes which we nearly always mixed in at various times during one of us giving the other a sexual enema, including latex and rubber, sneakers and running shoes, anal stimulation including plugs and inserts, role-playing D/s, and mild-moderate bondage. Especially the inclusion of Dominance and submission between us really added a great new level of stimulation and enjoyment. Interestingly enough, my last recent partner, my ex-wife , divorced in 2010, knew Iin detail all about my fetishes above including obviously enemas. She was very happy to enjoy them with me and include them in our sex and enema life. As a result, she gave me a number of sexual enemas from before our wedding to months afterward with me by choice being the submissive enema receiver. We were both Switches and for enemas I get enormous enjoyment from having my partner give them to me as her sub, mixing in the other kinks as well. These all went extremely well for both of us. The interesting part was that a few months after the wedding and many switch/sub enemas I got from her, one day out of the blue she writes me a long Email and then explains verbally that the most secret sexual desire of her life is that she had always wanted her husband to give her enemas but never told anyone until me, including her now-deceased 1st husband. He had been a Christian minister and she felt she could never tell him. Of course I was surprised about her secret but delighted to tell her I was very happy for her having the determination and courage to tell me. We began truly switching our sexual enema practice, I think within a day or two and we both had a wonderful time when she said she wanted an enema from me. It turned out she also enjoyed the D/s component of our previous few months of enemas together, and so all our enema sexual time then was her or me being the Dom(me) or sub respectively. I still wound up being her enema sub most of the time after that, just because I loved the feelings of benevolent but very strong Domme-inance or control she had over me and my large bowel function. I really seriously miss doing those enemas, either D or s, with her.

Eric🍑💦❤️

Properly furnished medical room or nursery with erotic art, lots of props around to gaze upon, and just the right scent really adds to an enema scene.

For a medical enema scene, iodine solution and coffee smells just like a medical office or hospital, and really ups the vibe of the milieu. Classical music or trip hop really compliments a session, and in my opinion, the “Mad Professor Vs. Massive Attack” dub remix is the perfect music for trancing out during a caning, enema, or fire play scene.

I forget where we got this stuff, but they make diaper scents that smell like baby powder or old school diapers, and both are perfect for age play scenes that stimulate all the senses. Kids music, nursery rhymes, or trance-like Cibo Mato style stuff can set the mood.

Obviously, both parties should be dressed in proper attire and lots of toys, instruments, and other gear should be displayed and handy.

P.S. Re: Post 13…. I forgot to add: FANTASIZING!!! I can come up with some masterpieces. ✔️

It most always goes back to my Mom and in the bathroom.

How strange is that?!! Funny how the whole psyche works….🤣🤣🤣

Having another person administer the enema rather than taking it solo.

OK, I know I'm warped, but one thing that really races my motor during an enema session is adding a pair of black thigh high stockings and a pair of my red sole heels. for some unknown reason, this combo seems to heighten the sexual nature of my enema. And an added bonus...if hubby is giving me the enema!

Woo Hoo!

Have fun and play safe!

Deb

@debgurl Warped? Yeah, but delightfully so! 😃

@debgurl Those stockings and heels would get my motor running too. Give you nice soapy enema in diaper position with your legs and heels beautifully showcased. Of course, the Model B would be employed.

@debgurl , thigh highs and Laboutins, definitely not warped, you are just very in tune with your mojo! Hubby is a lucky guy too. Have fun!

I enjoy having a ticking timer, a Nude picture of Saber's dripping bum after expelling, a fluffy towel or two under me, and a couple of dirty t-shirts rolled up for a pillow. My own or anyone's will do.

For my solo enemas - the best accompaniment is blindfold and music. Suddenly, Alannah Myles goes quite well.

Also, i always enable cold mode on air conditioner for contrast between hot water inside and cold air outside.

@Allie80

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I like to look at the equipment that is being used, whether I am either the giver or the receiver. Personally, I think that enema bags and nozzles are incredibly sexy and arousing look at. The visual of the enema equipment is really important to me. When I am receiving, I like to be shown what is going to be used on me. I'd like to watch my enema get prepared, just like when I was a little girl watching dreading what was about to happen. When I'm getting my enema, I like to look and see the bag and the hose while the water is going inside of me.

When I am giving an enema, I like to get excited when I thoughtfully select the bag and nozzle that I want to use. I would show them to him and tell him to get very familiar with the nozzle, because I'll be putting it in his bottom very soon. Something else that I really enjoy is watching the nozzle disappear inside of him. During the enema, I like to see the bag as it deflates and the hose going into his bottom.”

Wow! We could be twins. I soooo love laying on the table while my nurse shows each piece of equipment that she is going to use. She explains the purpose of the nozzle that she’s selected and why she chose the particular enema bag. She hangs it on the IV pole and the brings the pitcher of hot water to the bedside and mixes her chosen solution.

By the time she’s ready to insert the nozzle, I’m about ready to cum, but that won’t happen until she massages my prostate after the enemas are done.

Enema scenes and methods should always be changing and developing, and then return with another visit again and again.

The next set will include a 3 foot long, 8 inch diameter exercise roller to sit on, and nozzle of choice with 5 quart reservoir getting continuously filled with filtered water. I always like to watch the reservoir and have quart fill lines marked on it, helping me to better understand the feelings I am getting.

Wearing a very used white T shirt, get greased up and sit in the bottom of a shower stall with drain cover removed. Lean against a wall or corner,, sitting on the 8" dia foam roller, point your drain at the drain. If you want in the corner, stand a 4 inch diameter 3 foot long foam roller behind your back. Leaning back more will give better access to your sweet-spot where the water and pipe are going in. This set up is an alternative to laying down and will reward you with a whole new perspective, as things move along. Using a 9/16 inch thick colon tube will be handy and allow you to sit on it and thus lock your nozzle or tube in against your perineum or lean back and let some run out. You may want to replace foam rollers with a plastic chair, with colon tube fit up thru it, at the front of center, which will allow you to lean forward to lock it in against the perineum. I have not used a chair, but I can see where some would. I like the rollers, because it seems to allow for better drain cycles. The activity is fun to watch too. If you are good at making noises, this will tend to bring them out. Suction cup grab handles on the walls might be helpful. But they have a reputation for coming loose. All enema play tends to get me in trouble, as I get lost in the moment, I forget safety and make odd slips. My most frequent slip is by not keeping up with water going into the reservoir. I will let it suck dry or more often, run it over and get splashed, wet and cold, maybe. One time I turned over my inversion tilt TEETER table,,,,

with a nice load in my belly. ( 🥳 )

For my solo enemas - the best accompaniment is blindfold and music. Suddenly, Alannah Myles goes quite well.

Also, i always enable cold mode on air conditioner for contrast between hot water inside and cold air outside.

@R_J_LLex

I never thought of it. My place is always a bit on the cool side. Probably nothing like you do with the AC. I feel the warm enema inside.

You came up with a totally awesome way to enjoy an enema!

I believe anal toy play would compliment an completed enema wonderfully!

Hang the enema bag from a bungee cord. As the bag empties it rises, increasing the pressure!

I'm a perfectionist, and one of the first things I carefully check is the water temperature. I trust my pulse; if it feels warmer than normal, it's fine. Another thing I can never do without is: UN

a vaginal douche, one of those that squirts the liquid out the sides, deeply stimulating the inside of the rectum and the prostate. The pressure of the water suddenly discharging when the CLAMP is opened creates a prolonged pleasure, especially when I try in vain and consciously to stop the flow. It is like this Irresistibly fascinating to be dominated!

For a medically necessary enema for IBS, I’d never want to be without a hot water bottle. I use it to warm the bed, then fill my belly with it placed under the small of my back, both lifting my hips for easier filling and giving warmth and counter pressure to ease cramps.

When I roll to my right side for retention, which is often a very painful moment, I place it over my IBS trouble spot of the right lower quadrant and keep it there unless I need to massage the spot or some other part of my bowel hurts more.

When it’s time to expel, the hot water bottle accompanies me to the toilet, again for counter pressure and warmth against cramps. If expulsion is slow, it makes the trip to and from the bed, keeping me warm and as relaxed as possible.

Another favorite accessory is my extra small glass plug, which I heat in water and use to relax and lube my rectum before nozzle insertion, and again to help with retention.

For a maintenance enema, sometimes other, larger glass toys can be a fun accompaniment.

Of course, in both cases my ultimate favorite would be not going solo, but instead having the gentle help of a giver, with relief and fun to follow.

I combine enemas with electrostimulation. The right amount of enema (typically a gallon) and the e-stim almost always leads to a marvelous HFO.

First of I like to play music and sometimes I like to take my tablet with me to watch enema porn or read enema stories. I also like to have my magic wand available. Every now and then I like to put on a chastity and play with my magic wand. But my favorite is to put on a diaper and take an enema then release it in the diaper.

@Sweetest_Relief

Love your using a hot water bottle to add warmth before receiving an enema. A nurse who cared for me years ago taught me this to help relieve pre-menstrual cramps. Warming pad also works wonders for relaxing “down there.”

Older daughter on occasion used to get constipated before her period, and she was uncomfortable. She resisted laxatives. About 20 minutes with a hot water bottle on her abdomen, followed by one quart of warm water with sea salt in an enema that she could easily retain worked wonders.

Fortunately, a good exercise program, hydrating and watching her diet in the days before her period now maintains a better balance for her.