Expulsion in private?

Raised toilet seat https://www.hospitalbeds.co.uk/harvest-100mm-raised-toilet-seat.html or those with limited levels of mobility, the use of a raised toilet seat may be necessary to facilitate the toileting process.

South Tees https://www.southtees.nhs.uk/resources/proctogram/ The examination requires you to empty your bowels on a commode whilst taking x-rays. Only the people required to do the test are present in the room, the doors are locked and blinds are drawn to preserve your privacy and dignity.

Roma Medical https://romamedical.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2021/03/proctogram-chair-1536x1536.jpg

Setting Up a Colorectal Physiology Laboratory https://abdominalkey.com/setting-up-a-colorectal-physiology-laboratory/

Ottawa Hospital https://www.ottawahospital.on.ca/en/clinical-services/deptpgrmcs/clinics-and-services/proctographydefecography/ On the day of your exam, you will be required to take a Fleet enema between 2 to 3 hours before your exam time. This is required to ensure that the rectum is empty. You will also be asked to bring an adult diaper with you for use during the exam. The procedure begins with the Radiologist inserting an enema tube into the rectum. This is to allow the insertion of water-based gel until there is adequate distention of the rectum, creating the urge to defecate. During this procedure, one may experience some mild cramping.

Dynamic Rectal examination https://radiologyassistant.nl/abdomen/rectum/dynamic-rectal-examination

For X-ray defecography, you'll sit on a special commode that allows X-rays to pass through, with the X-ray tube positioned toward your pelvis. For MRI defecography, you may lie on a moveable examination table with your knees bent, wearing a diaper or on an absorbent towel, inside a traditional MRI machine or sit on an adjustable chair in an open MRI machine placed between two large magnets.1

The radiologist will ask you to perform different activities similar to performing a bowel movement, including:1

• Squeezing: Tightening the anal sphincter and pelvic floor muscles

• Straining: Pushing as if trying to go but without fully emptying

• Defecating: Emptying the rectum without stopping

https://www.health.com/defecography-8644772

@Thursdays_child thanks for the links and info. I’ll look more at them to better understand what they derive from it. If I ever have to do it, I’d rather not do it in a diaper!

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I completely agree with Gaugin; expelling in front of an enemate is arousing and makes me feel emotionally closer to a man that may have done loads of things with and to me and seen all of the most intimate parts of my body! Let me start by sayiing that I'm not into scat at all!

I have written something on this subject already, but ages ago I used to meet an enemate when we both had free time etc, and after several meets, I told him that I'd like to see him expel in front of me sometime! He laughed but said he was happy to, (as we'd had a few sessions in the preceeding months anyway.)

I had thought of this before, so had a chamber pot to hand and when the time was right, he squatted just above the pot with his back to me, and I guided him so that everything went into the container, and he slowly let go. I loved the fact that nearing the end of his releasing, I could see his arse lips move and go in and out as he tried to expel everything. To me I felt that it brought us closer and he was quite happy with the session; unfortunately he never asked the same favour of me!

With very few exceptions hubby and I expel in private.

@Emom I am with you girl. I have expelled in front of other females but it's not my favorite thing to do.

I have done enemas with two (male) friends and both enjoy being watched as the enemas uncontrollably exit their hiney holes. And… I have no issues being seen myself as I perform the same relieving function, usually straddling the toilet backwards to allow a good view of my hiney hole by my mate as the enema escapes.

It doesn't make any difference to me if she lingers around, especially if the bag is being refilled! As for my previous enemates, I think it is about 50-50. A previous girl friend that I was very close to and vice versa would absolutely burst before expelling in front of me.

If my lover are a clismo to then no problem. But if your love dont like or understand your true needs. Then in private. There are i think many in the same situation. You need your lover understand the true needs as a clismo have . Enema just to see a Enema bag or read about it online or write about it makes me feel Horny spot on. 😏😋

I'm easy either way - sometimes it's nice to have that kind of "caregiver" aspect and encouragement. Other times I prefer to expel on my own.

I find it embarrassing or humiliating when the person administering the enema comes into the bathroom and observes my bowel movements, my moans, and the splashing into the toilet. I understand that it's sometimes necessary to see what comes out in order to plan the next steps... nevertheless, it's unpleasant.

I find it embarrassing or humiliating when the person administering the enema comes into the bathroom and observes my bowel movements, my moans, and the splashing into the toilet. I understand that it's sometimes necessary to see what comes out in order to plan the next steps... nevertheless, it's unpleasant.

For sure, very unpleasant ! - and that is also " not my cup of tea " !! - observation will be one point in a play game, but not in this situation !! - that's private !!

I have never had a giver stay with me while I expell, but after a couple of enemas I would love to have someone with me. I think I would enjoy it, and I would love to be made pleasure them with my mouth while expelling a large warm enema.

@4711koeln

Absolutely - you're right! - That's very humiliating

I like watching women expel enemas, and if she wanted to watch me expel I wouldn't mind.

If I give someone a enema I am usually cleaning up the equipment while they are pushing out the poop in the same room. if I have someone give me a enema I tell them they can sit and talk to me if they don't mine the smell while I push out the poop.

I have only expelled together with somebody twice. First time was with girlfriend and we expelled together in her bathtub. It was a messy bathtub 😃 I did the cleaning afterwards. Other time was after I got an enema from girlfriend and she stayed when I expelled on the toilet, she cuddling and fondling me at the same time. Would love to expel with somebody again if it is a turn on for them, it is for me.