Expulsion in private?

For those of us fortunate enough to have an enemate, do you prefer to expel the enema in private. Or do you mind having your enemate in the bathroom with you? Does your partner share your attitudes on the subject?

Speaking for myself, I like to be there when my partner expels. I enjoy the sounds and even the smells of the process. I also like her physical reactions and the looks on her face. My partner, for the most part shares my opinions.

Just curious.

It's hard for me to imagine wanting anyone to see or hear this happening. I want to be alone at this time.

Somethings are best done alone.

I love watching expulsions and don’t have any problems being seen by my partner while I am “discharging“!

One should share it.. Nothing like that intimacy

Have a partner... They like their privacy at that time. I like my privacy when it comes to that too.

If my enemate is favorable to it, I’ll have them hold their enema on the toilet while I work their clit with a magic wand, and try to time the expulsion with the orgasm. Maybe work the nipples too. It’s intimate, humiliating, and intense- but so are the orgasms.

I don’t have an enemate, but expelling in front of each other appeals to me at least in theory. It is such a private act, that the embarrassment and intimacy that it would trigger is very erotic to me. I am not sure if I would find it so attractive in reality. If things got really smell, that would probably turn me off. I certainly like the rather tame expulsion scenes in the Stonefox videos. I also have two very strong memories from childhood when I had to expel enemas in the presence of medical personnel — nurses once, and radiology technician in the other instance. Those experiences are so seared into my memory and still fascinate and titillate me when I reflect on them decades later.

@sirensong and I usually watch each other when we release an enema, it kind of feels funny, like abandonment to have a loving, intimate enema session, then not be involved at the end. We often maturbate each other during the release. Last week, after giving her a warm erotic enema, she invited me into the bathroom and had me bend over and spread my cheeks. And while she released her enema, she inserted the nozzle into me and began my enema while she caressed my balls and I stroked my erect cock. I carefully lowered myself to a near sitting position on her legs while I filled and she released.

My preference is to definitely expelled in private. And when I'm done, A quick jump in the shower to be sure all is nice and clean. Then a return to the bedroom for some anal action.

My sub would probably like a bit more time with me by his side or at least watching him. But he understands that the smell sometimes is off putting for me.

I have always avoided expelling in front of anyone. My enema givers in the past have taken no joy in giving them to me or in my concealed pleasure in receiving an enema. @Iris1858 is the perfect enemate. We both are doctors, lovers, soulmates. We both take pleasure in helping the other with the whole experience and I’ve found that I adore being comforted through the cramps, splashing, all of it. And I adore being the comforter. For the first time I can say that I find it wonderful. Go figure.

I wish I had a partner who enjoys enemas as much as I do. I have had a few enema partners and we always expelled

in private . But as I get older I wish I could watch their effluent coming out of their asshole in all its glory. It is only

a foul bodily waste but it gets me hard thinking of watching it come out in all its glory . Of course some Doctor

Bonners peppermint soap would really help with the smell. I have used it on occasion but use it sparingly.

This seems to be like Marmite. all of those who tasted it either hate it, most, or love it, small minority.

All of enemas I was given by play partners were part of BDSM play, and as a submissive I do like embarrassment and humiliation. Therefore I do like to be 'forced' to expel in the presence of others. It is clearly a fetish thing for me, because I have done it many times, but still I find it very embarrassing, even with same partners. The most embarrassing, and most arousing, is to have to expel in a position where my anus is exposed for all present to see.

In the past, I would have never even considered expelling an enema with someone else present. But my lover, @liquidsky, has changed all that. He makes me feel comfortable expelling in front of him and cheers me on in my efforts to empty myself. We have both made expelling with the other present part of our complete enema experience.🍑💦💩☺️

Other than my mother, the first time I ever recall having expelled an enema in front of anyone was on May 27, 1972. It was a Saturday afternoon and a friend of mine from high school stopped by my house on the way to her home. She had invited a group of high school friends, who were back from their first year in college, to an Indy 500 party (taped delay broadcast). I had been sitting out in the sun on the end of our driveway when she pulled in with her black 1958 Desoto. I didn't know she was going to stop by.

Prior to her arrival, I had brought the red 2-quart open top bag down from the upstairs bathroom where it normally hung, to the basement bathroom. I had already filled it with water and hung it from a coat hook in the bathroom before going back outside to sit out for a little longer. When my friend arrived, I completely forgot about the bag hanging in the bathroom. Now, she knew that my girlfriend and I were no longer dating on a steady basis and her motive for stopping by was to get a sense about how receptive I was to her and I getting together(at last), since she had a long-time crush on me through high school. She had slimmed down since I last saw her at Christmas and she looked great in that V-neck top and those cute orange shorts she was wearing. Let's just say she was really intent on getting into my swimming suit. When I went upstairs to get us something (non-alcoholic) to drink, I didn't expect her to go into the basement bathroom (in fact I had forgotten about the bag hanging there. From upstairs in the kitchen, when I heard the bathroom door close, there was that moment of panic, and then "maybe she won't notice" moment). But she was a nursing student and even as during high school working as a nursing assistant, she had told me about the enemas that were given.

I came back downstairs and waited for her. She came out of the bathroom, carrying the full bag. She had undressed and said something about me being a naughty boy as she held the bag in her right hand. She was absolutely stunning looking, standing there holding that bag the way she did. The way the ceiling lamp lit her from above emphasized her figure and the full red bag she was holding. She gave me a marvelous enema (two bags for a total of 4 quarts) and kept urging me to hold it just a little longer (while she was sucking my cock and/or sitting on my face in the 69 position). When I could no longer hold it, she allowed me to head to the bathroom. I didn't expect for her to follow me in, even though she was carrying the empty bag with the nozzle still inserted into my ass (she liked the way it looked to follow me and seeing the hose disappear between my butt cheeks).. She had me put up the seat and sit on the edge of the porcelain bowl and slide forward. It was a round bowl instead of oblong like they are today. I sat down and she got down on her knees and took my cock in her mouth while I released. When I finally started to cum, I shot all over her before she got me contained in her mouth again. There were a few other shared expulsions between then and the next time I had some very enthusiastic enemates in the 1985 - 1986 time period. But since that first time in 1972, I've never denied someone who has given me an enema access to me while I expel. If they want to join me, I have let them. If they don't, that's okay , too. If they want privacy while they expel, I do respect that.

I have never done it, but I would love to have the person giving me enemas (male or female) stand in front of me and have me orally pleasure them while I sat on the toilet expelling. This would be best after I had already had a couple of enemas, for obvious reasons. My ex used to fill me up and then I would go down on her and do my best to make her orgasm before I had to expell. It was a very fun game.

Both y husband and I enjoy enema play, etc. but expulsion is strictly private for both of us. Denise

Personally I don't really care either way. Am very flexible and adapt to the partner. Having spent most of my life at sea, some in the navy, I got used to do my business without any privacy. At those times bathroom stalls and showers had no doors so you had no way but to do it in front of anyone coming in. Never been shy....My wife preferred expelling as privately as possible. With the right people I appreciate the company, the massages and touches accompanying it...both in giving or receiving mode....also found out that open air enemas, with very public expulsions, are very exciting.

Let me expel in private, thank you! 🙏Exception when I was recovering from surgery and feeling unsteady. I asked my husband to stay with me after he had given the enemas. Not the most romantic moments in the bathroom, but I did feel the intimacy and was very thankful he was there.

My girlfriend enjoys me sitting behind her as she sits on the toilet facing the wall and leans back into me. I masturbate her as she expels her peppermint scented soapy enema or herbal enema. Between my fingers and the vibrator she always cums while expelling. She always waits to expel until she can't hold it any longer and I love the sound of her enema gushing out.

I don’t have a regular enema partner. If I am receiving then it makes no difference whether anyone is watching. If I am giving, I’ll respect the wishes of the recipient.

@Iris1858:

In the past, I would have never even considered expelling an enema with someone else present. But my lover, @liquidsky, has changed all that. He makes me feel comfortable expelling in front of him and cheers me on in my efforts to empty myself. We have both made expelling with the other present part of our complete enema experience.🍑💦💩☺️

Relationship goals. Seriously.

I have responded to a similar post before, but we don't make big deal of expelling, unless there's a very good reason. If we both happen to be in the bathroom, so be it but otherwise not usually.

My siblings and I grew up getting enemas laying across our bed or in the bathroom together. And never got the opportunity to use the bathroom privately. We were accustomed to using the bathroom in the presence of others. Besides, we had to share a bedroom and by the time we were preteens, we were responsible for ourselves when it came to enemas. Shortly afterwards, my siblings and I started swapping enemas a couple of times a week and never gave it a second thought.

Fast forward a number of years, once I got married. Like my siblings and I, my wife and I gave each other enemas on a regular basis, using the bathroom in each other’s presence without a second thought.

He will come check on me while I’m releasing the enema. It doesn’t bother me. I guess I got used to my Mother staying in the bathroom with me when I was releasing. Plus he does come in the bathroom sometimes when I’m going 💩💩💩

With very few exceptions hubby and I expel in private.

I consider myself a submissive, that enjoys a bit of humiliation. I like a doctor and or daddy that doesn’t allow me any control over my basic body functions. If he gives me an enema or laxatives, he won’t allow me to expel in private. He’ll likely choose a shower drain or a bucket in the middle of a room for expulsion. Naked. Exposed. Doctor/daddy being able to position me so he can see every drop of liquid coming out of my most private places. Offering praise and encouragement. “That’s it. Keep bearing down, push all that yucky stuff out of my bottom. Good girl.”

During the moments of respite when I straighten my legs out, move around a bit, I don’t close my legs. “I see yucky stuff is dripping down your bottom and inside of your legs. I know it’s gross feeling it running down your legs, in between your butt cheeks. I’ll get you all cleaned up once your tummy and bottom are cleaned out.” Legs on autopilot spreading and squatting just a bit

as another wave of liquid shoots out.

“Oh, see more yucky stuff is already squirting out of your bottom.”

No choice but to completely surrender to my body’s demands and the doctor/daddy. My brain and body getting through the discomfort, pain, and humiliation with praise, coaching, as well his hands and fingers touching me just right, in just the right places keep.

I have been reading about defecography. I have to admit finding the thought of being required to sit on a commode and expel under instruction from a complete stranger extremely arousing. Thank you Zity for opening this up. Our local hospital does defecography this way, don't fancy the alternative of having to poo into a diaper, but not sure how I can get an appointment.

I have been reading about defecography. I have to admit finding the thought of being required to sit on a commode and expel under instruction from a complete stranger extremely arousing. Thank you Zity for opening this up. Our local hospital does defecography this way, don't fancy the alternative of having to poo into a diaper, but not sure how I can get an appointment.

I guess they get better information when the defecation is recorded in an MRI machine vs sitting on a commode. Either would be embarrassing for me.