I was in the hospital a few months ago, and I seriously didn't want to become constipated but I did. It was a couple of days before I was let out of bed and that wasn't until after I was moved from the ICU. No one even seemed too concerned about wether or not I had had a bowel movement. I wasn't asked, but while arguing that I was well enough to get out of bed I told them that I wanted to get up to use the toilet for a bowel movement, plus I was having a hard time using the urinal. The nurse then offered to bring around a bed pan or a comode for me. Believe it or not, that idea didn't appeal to me at all at that time.
When I finally got moved to a room with a toilet I had difficulty there too. I had been cathed and was still quite sore from that and also having trouble peeing. Pushing/putting pressure trying to do a bowel movement was hurting me in the penis more than anywhere else. I sat on the toilet numerous times that day.
I told a nurse that I hadn't had a bowel movement since being in the hospital and that I didn't remember when my last one had been. They gave me a drink at breakfast a couple of mornings that didn't really help. I managed one small stool the first morning which I reported and didn't flush. I sat on the toilet a few more times tthroughout the day, producing nothing. The next morning some early morning gas after the drink and breakfast, no BM.
I reported this to a nurse, and she said there could be a couple of other options that "you probably wouldn't like." I told her I wasn't liking the state I was in either. She suggested a suppository, which I accepted. It was uneventful, which I expected. About 20 minutes later I was on the toilet and produced a huge and healthy looking BM, much to my relief. I didn't flush and reported the BM to the nurse when she came by later. She took a look and flushed it and asked how long had it been since my last BM and I told her it had been before being admitted. She apologised for the hospital and staff for my having to have had to wait for so long. I had two more smaller BMs after that one that day that I reported, but also flushed.
Perhaps if the suppository hadn't worked before getting sent home, I would had got a Fleet enema. I honestly wasn't angling for it though.