Rare to find women who are in to diapers

It seems to me that most of the discussions and images here on zity about diapers/diaper fetish are from males, maybe even 95%. That seems to be in real life kink play, as far as I've found. Why is that? Because men are often raised to "be in charge" and they sometimes need a "relief", or what? Would love women to comment on why they aren't interested in diaper play.

Probably because many women with children have had to deal a lot with nappies, diapers in real life situations so it would in no way mean anything sexual to them!

From what I've seen it's more common for men to be into fetishes in general. When reading papers in scientific journals I see a lot more male participants.

I believe it's some combination of the factors that:

1. Some men are more encouraged to embrace sexuality [varies greatly by region]. This may lead to an easier time labelling a fetish as a fetish for men, or for women may repress "non-standard" desires.

2. The fact that a responsive desire style is more common in women

3. That hookups/sexting can be less desirable/fulfilling for women

4. Negative experiences with attention that's received when disclosing you're a woman online.

So one or more of the above coupled with the common assumption is that someone is male online when not stated otherwise, it makes the gender gap look even more vast. Of course, nobody of any gender is going to fit a generic mold, and since experiences differ quite a lot these aren't accurate to every person. This is just based on experiences, observations, and what I've read in studies and online.

FWIW, I find places like bluesky/twitter/tumblr have a lot more women there that are into diapers.

I was never into diapers, or nappies as we call them here. It wasn't that I had any negative connotations about it. I'd just never thought about it.

But last year my husband confessed to me that he'd like me to sometimes treat him as my little/baby girl. He wanted me to smack his bottom and put him into panties and/or nappies and frilly dresses.

At first I was quite shocked. After all, I'd always been brought up to think of the man as the dominant one, so the thought of the man I love wanting to be put back into nappies and treated like a little girl was, to say the least, quite challenging.

But we talked about it, and decided to give it a go.

He has a very stressful job, and he said that this would help him relax.

It did feel very odd having him lay on our bed and let me put him into a nappy, but he was so excited about it that it actually turned me on too. The first time we did it I'd only just got his nappy pulled up between his legs when he came more powerfully than I could remember.

Since then we've both come to really enjoy it, and it's revealed a side of myself I didn't know existed.

So my advice would be to talk to your wife/girlfriend about it. Be prepared for shock and perhaps initial rejection. But if you both agree to give it a go it might turn out to be a lot of fun for both of you.

I think a lot of women would like to be in diapers, its just that they've never tried. From what I read to get a woman in diapers, don't bother with ABDL matching / dating sites there are hardly any on there, what there is will turn out to be trans or mummies etc. Better, find a 'normal' woman who you can be imtimate with and introduce diapers later. Rather than ask her to diaper you, try it for her as a treat / surprise etc.

How to say it nicely? I look at a guy in a diaper and say thats fuckin wierd man not going to put you down for it but it is just weird. I don't know why you're doing it. I wear one after an oil enema or something like that because there's a reason for it.

I do not get off on it. I do not know any women into diapers. I know some who wear them for medical reasons, and they do not like it.

Probably, there is a psychological reason.

I think that a lot of females may not be interested in diaper play because they either have preconceived notions about what it entails or perhaps they just have not had the right opportunity to experience it. I am pretty open minded and kinky, in addition to already being into some other things that were related to age play, so I was open to trying a diaper when my Daddy suggested it. There were a lot of things that I liked about it, like all the different anal aspects that can be incorporated with it like enemas, suppositories, rectal temperatures, exams and bottom checks etc. But I also really like the whole aspect of being vulnerable to someone and letting my Daddy take care of me. The diaper itself is actually pretty comfortable and cozy, it feels really good to be all snuggly with someone when you are wearing one. I'm talking about the cute ABDL diapers and not the adult ones that you buy at Target. Another thing that really feels good while I have one on is using my magic wand on my clit, that feels amazingly good. People should just keep an open mind about diapers and not rule them out until you have tried them. I am glad that I have incorporated them into my play, when I am both the baby and the Mommy 😊

Actually most women do wear diaper after childbirth a few days to a week.

I did wear postpartum diapers for a week when I gave birth to my child. We experience vaginal bleeding (lochia) as the uterus sheds its lining. Postpartum diapers provide extra absorbent protection during this time.

So it is not that rare that women do wear diaper after all.