Do you prefer to spank over the Panties, panties pulled down, or panties off completely?

My husband and I enjoy our spanking sessions. They can be non consensual up to the point our safe word is used at which point the spanking is immediately stopped. He likes to gradually work up to the spanking starting out with a lectue about my transgression (real or not) and then me having to fetch the implement of his choice derpending on the "severity" of my transgression. I am then placed over his knee and he begins by gently hand spanking me gradually working up in intensity. He will then raise my dress/skirt or lower my pants and continue the spanking but with increasing intensity that begins to "smart" but not yet painful. He will continues hand spanking me ever increasing in intensity. He will stop and again remind of my transgression and take off my panties exposing my bare bottom except when I might be wearing an open bottom girdlel with six garters holding sheer nylons up tightly. My bare bottom peeks out beow the girdle so he can get a glimpse of how the spanking is progressing. A hard hand spanking will come next and I will really begin feeling my bottom getting hot (as well as me!! lol). Once my bottom is a deep pink, he will stop and tell me to remove my girdle (if I am wearing one) and nylons and reposition myself over his knee. With a determined look on his face (spankings are done in front of a full length mirror), he will pick up the chosen implement (hairbrush, paddle, ping pong paddle, bath brush, etc) and ask me if I am ready for him to complete my spanking. I am to say "Yes please." The hairbrush ( or other implement) will now come down hard, slowly at first, and gradually pick up speed and intensity until I begin to howl and my poor bottom turns crimson red. Not only is my bottom red hot but I am too and when the spanking is done, we have very intense private moments together that are extremely satisfying for us both. This narative is but one of a wide variety of spanking scenes as we like to keep things fresh not knowing how it will go each time. The reader should know that my husband has many times been over my knee as well for what we would call "a good and proper spanking." Denise (P.S. The short answer to the question if to be spanked over panties, panties pulled down, panties off completely...all of the above!!)

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My husband and I enjoy our spanking sessions. They can be non consensual up to the point our safe word is used at which point the spanking is immediately stopped. . . .

. . . This narative is but one of a wide variety of spanking scenes as we like to keep things fresh not knowing how it will go each time. The reader should know that my husband has many times been over my knee as well for what we would call "a good and proper spanking." Denise (P.S. The short answer to the question if to be spanked over panties, panties pulled down, panties off completely...all of the above!!)

@Denise Excellent narrative. Thank you for sharing.

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Off certainly.

I recall seeing a comics page with an interesting pose - a girl had panties completely off and was straddling another girl's knee, so, as she was being spanked, her clitoris rubbed..

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I like to start with the panties on and then after about 30 smacks, take them down and do it again. I think it is more embarassing that way

A proper and severe, memorial spanking has to be given always on the bare bottom - because it is more shame- and also painful for the spankee, and on the other side the spanker can see soonly the results !!

Maybe for more discipline also can be a root of ginger be very helpful, inserted in the bottom anus, to make sure, that there where no clenching, and the cheeks will be hold in the assumed position, that they were told !!

I am not into giving or receiving harsh pain as many on here do. I prefer nice OTK bare bottom spankings with just a little red bottom results.

I like to start over the panties for a spanking . But will lower them to administer a bare bottom spanking .

Whichever will mess with her head the most, start with them on and take them off leaving her hope they will stay on or make her strip herself making her expose herself and "cooperate" with her punishment. --- it all depends.

This would depend on the type of spanking being provided.....meaning, whether it is punishment, maintenance, erotic. Erotic spankings may start with panties up and be slowly lowered as the session progresses. As these sessions also, have a sexual element, the panties are often fully removed.

On the other extreme, punishment starts with jeans and panties down or dress raised and panties lowered right out of the gate. Depending on the severity of the infraction, a ginger fig may be introduced into the anus for further emphasis.

Love to get spanked bare assed with a leather paddle or hand

In my case as a spanker, it depends on the type of spanking being provided(punishment OR fun) and the subject(young OR adult)

When I used to babysit, A young girl/boy would be scolded AND bear the embarrassment of me taking down his/her pants and underwear down while standing in front of me. Then go over my lap for a bare-bottom spanking.

Nowadays I mostly spank other grown woman and in a light "for fun" sort of setting. My preferred way to spank women is bent over a couch or bed. Going against the "common" procedure for a spanking, I immediately pull down her pants and panties and START on the bare bottom after the woman in question is bent over. I personally like doing this to observe my subject's bottom before and after my handiwork hehe

I get quite an eyeful😏

Good question.

I like to start a spanking over panties.

The reason for this is the anticipation of the knowledge that soon the panties will be lowered or removed.

There is also a very intimate and bonding feeling as the panties are lowered.

When I used to babysit, A young girl/boy would be scolded AND bear the embarrassment of me taking down his/her pants and underwear down while standing in front of me. Then go over my lap for a bare-bottom spanking.

@AzureJuniperNYC some of us prefer this approach as adults 😃

I prefer having her panties all the way off. But sometimes, for effect … as I have her over my lap… I will pull them down to her ankles. Once her panties are off, I can make sure her clitoris is positioned properly against my thigh.

My domme makes that decision. Always pant and undies off bare bottom. She wants it that way to know when to stop. She stops when my butt is cherry red.y

Start with spanking the outermost layer, then peel back like an onion and spank each layer until you get to bare skin.

Silky panties then pulled down....hobbies me so I can't get away.

I think an obvious answer is to start over the panties as a prelude, just like in any kind of sexual activity where you gradually get undressed. and then pull them down and off, to the final plateau of being bare.

Don’t have a choice. Baked from waist down. Hubby prefers it that way b4 I get spanking