Do you prefer to spank over the Panties, panties pulled down, or panties off completely?

When administering a sound spanking, do you prefer over the Panties, panties pulled down, or Panties off completely?

Bare butt so you can watch it turn red and feel the warmth. Also a well spanked butt is super sensitive to touch- oh!

I always tend towards the Erotic, so Panties pulled down makes the spankee seem even more exposed and therefor more se y.

There is something about having them around my ankles specifically that I find makes me feel very submissive and is therefor extra erotic.

Starting over the panties, then after a suitable number of swats, slowly pull them down to mid-thigh then resume. With enough kicking, they'll remove themselves.

In our marriage, I am the spanker and my husband is the spankee.

However, In his dreams, my husband would like to spank me over his knee, over the panties for several bare-handed swats to warm me up, and then bare bottom with his bare hand for the duration.

I, on the other hand, no pun intended, never use my bare hand on his bottom because I'm a wimp and it hurts my hand to much. I will playfully swat him with my bare hand on his bare bum or over the pants, but never in earnest.

I give him spankings on the bare bum with a number of implements, including a black 30-inch-long Delrin cane, two different leather paddles, a waffle paddle, a paddle with holes, four or five other paddles in a variety of shapes and sizes and wood varieties, and three different back scrubbers purchased at Walmart for under $7 each. The back scrubbers pack a punch and the total cost of all three together was less than half the price of any of the real paddles purchased online.

@JillyBot I got my bath brush at Walmart too and it’s just as painful as any other . I also bought a delrin cane recently but we haven’t had the chance to try it out because we’re in the middle of moving. Any idea if it hurts worse than a typical cane?

My preference would be panties pulled down! For me it’s a more sensual experience.

We didn’t get into this, but when we experimented, it was bare butt, ACCESS.

@PutMeInTheCorner

Comparing the Delrin cane and the traditional cane, I would say they both hurt a lot, but in different ways. The Delrin cane is heavier so it produces a deeper pain while the traditional cane is lighter and produces more of a surface sting. Both sensations are wonderful, depending on what you like.

However, we pretty much gave up on the traditional cane which is "traditionally" longer (36 to 42 inches or 91 to 17 cm). The extra length made it harder for me to control and I often accidentally whacked my husband's thighs or back with a pain that he did not appreciate. For this reason, we both prefer the Delrin cane. It consistently hits the spot on his cheeks. And it packs a punch. I have to warm up his bum before I hit with full force.

I know that an experienced wielder of the cane can consistently place the stripes in the right place forming a pattern of parallel lines on the bum or criss-crossing lines or the most painful: one on top of the other. And that same caner can strike hard enough to make it a deep pain, not just a surface sting.

I suppose we could have shortened the cane to the length of our Delrin cane, but we never got around to it.

I'm sure you will enjoy your new Delrin cane.

@PutMeInTheCorner

Regarding Walmart’s long-handled wooden back scrubbers:

The first one that my husband bought had a slight curve in the handle and an oval-shaped head.

Last week, he made another stop in Walmart’s bath aisle and found two new long-handled wooden back scrubbers. Both are a little thicker and heavier than my first purchase and both have round heads and one has holes in it! Each one has its own unique feeling with the “smack”. All three “paddles” are under $10 while all of my real paddles have cost around $40 to $60. And I think my husband prefers the single smack-spot of these bath brushes to the more expensive full-size paddles that cover both his cheeks. Actually, he enjoy sboth paddle sizes. But these bath brushes are a lot of fun!

If you go to Walmart online, you will find many more long-handled wooden back scrubbers.

@PutMeInTheCorner

Small correction to the post on back scrubbers . . .

I just took a quick peek at our toys and noticed that my husband, Vasbyt, only bought two back scrubbers, not three. The one that I said had the holes in it is actually a wooden food strainer that has been retired to the bedroom and my husband's bottom.

Actually, it went straight from Walmart to the bedroom and only passed through the kitchen on its way through the house to the bedroom upstairs. I don't think you would want to have dinner at our home if it were used for both straining and paddling, notwithstanding the clean state of my husband's bum.

My play partner and I have discussed this. Disrobing and exposure are a big thing for me. How she incorporates it into my physical exam… we’ll see. I trust her to create the scenario… she knows me pretty well at this point.

In my view, a good spanking shall be progressive and start over the panties for a while.

Then when the spankee start to feel uncomfortable, time to lower the panties to mid thigh for the bare bottom spanking, there is no good spanking that only consider pantied bottom spanking for me.

The bare butt is necessary for several reason:

- the spankee shall feel uncomfortable, emabarrassed, ashamed and that's fully part of a spanking

- the spanker can monitor the effect of his spanking (visually) and dose properly the spanking

- the spanking is more efficient that way

and often i like as well the corner time after lowering the pantie before restarting the spanking on the bare bottom.

Stripped completely naked below the waist maybe I’m wearing a patient gown or ridiculous pink frilly nightgown but I’m squirming as she bends me over her knee and reaches for the hair brush

I wear little girl cotton panties. He starts spanking with the panties on. My legs are slightly spread. He rubs, pats my butt, then swats my ass. I start to get aroused. He keeps checking to see if there is a wet spot between my legs. As soon as he sees the wet spot, he pulls down my panties to my knees. He starts swatting me harder. My back is arched, my butt in the air, begging to be spanked harder. I’m crying, moaning, panting, aroused by the pain and humiliation. He’s talking to me the whole time.

When he knows I’m about to become delirious from arousal, he gets up, positions my ass the way he likes it, and rams his cock into my ass.

It’s one of my favorite sex acts with him.

I come just about instantly.

My preference is panties pulled down. It makes me feel more vulnerable

Pull my panties down. It’s part of the experience

Spankee made to take them off completely in front of the spanker, this is the most exciting to me.

Do I have a choice? Most of my spanking are with panties down😢and sometimes naked.

The one that giving the spanking decides how you should be spanked and the one that receiving it have to follow instructions accordingly.

So it not what I prefer but my husband prefers.

First off, I give all of the spankings in this marriage. Second, as we are both over 70 tears old now and he is on a blood thinner - we don't use corporal punishment as frequently or as intensely as we once did. But using good judgement and caution we still enjoy a few sessions a year. We have a variety of 'whackers' - some leather, some wooden, some made of man made materials (such as delrin), and an assortment of canes. My selection of implement(s) depends on my mood and intent. The 16/18 inch wooden bath brush with the 5 inch head ranks very high on my list. I'm not much on over the knee spanking, I like to have room to move around and vary the target area. In my opinion the bare butt is the best for tactile, visual, and emotional effect. The intensity, duration, and aftercare are all at my discretion. Everyone needs to find their own level of comfort or "un-comfort". Then enjoy yourself. DommeOB

I prefer to pull her panties off.... then comes the sniff test... mmmm mmmm then I tell her to open her mouth wide, then I would stuff her panties into her mouth.... then a piece of duct tape over her mouth. then the spanking will begin....

A good spanking has to be humiliating and embarrassing. Then should be spanked or caned till the tears come. then what is a good ass warming with out some good naked corner time...

I think unless your just talking about a few swats with your hand, a proper spanking should always be carried out on a bare bottom. Besides adding a layer of humiliation and exposure to the spanked, it allows the spanker to fully assess the bottom as he's spanking and direct spanks more accurately. White areas mean bruises will follow which you can't see under panties.

I prefer bare bum giving or receiving with a bare hand. It is just more personal like this, especially in public.

A proper spanking should hurt a lot: that's my view but that doesn't mean that's the only way! But I think it should also be a shameful and humiliating experience and that means bare bottom. The exposure of the bottom and the front adds to the intensity of the experience - not just because it hurts more but because of the additional emotions of embarrassment etc that it brings to the occasion.

Panties pull down

I like to start over the clothes, then gradual removal and increase in tempo, severity.

By the time I am sliding her panties down she should be fairly pink and moving towards becoming red.

For us, spanking is about the whole ritual of it, the humiliation of being so under the authority of the other person, that you will submit to whatever they require.

My husband likes to be treated as my little or even baby girl.

When he’s dressed in his frilly knickers and short dress he already feels vulnerable and exposed. When it’s time for his spanking I play on that.

First he’s ordered to fetch whatever I’m going to spank him with, maybe my wooden hairbrush, maybe a table tennis bat, maybe a slipper. Him fetching and presenting it to me forces him to feel complicit in his punishment.

Then he’s ordered across my lap, and all the while I’m telling him what a naughty girl he is.

I put my hand up his dress and onto his bottom, stroking him through his knickers. And then I tell him something like “Shall Mummy lift up Michelle’s dress so that everyone can see her knickers? And then Mummy can begin her spanking?”

He’s forced to reply in the affirmative, making her further complicit in his punishment, but also ensuring his clothing plays a big part in it.

Then I start spanking him, with his knickers still in place. After a few spanks I stop and gently rub his bottom again, playing with the frills around the legs and waist of his knickers, before asking something like “Shall Mummy pull down your panties so that she can see how red her little girl’s bottom is?”

Then the knickers are gently pulled down to his knees, before I admire how red his bottom is, and how much redder it is about to become.

So his dress, and especially his knickers, play a big part in the ritual of his spanking.

My Master decides how to punish me. Mostly of course pulled down.