Do you prefer to spank over the Panties, panties pulled down, or panties off completely?

When administering a sound spanking, do you prefer over the Panties, panties pulled down, or Panties off completely?

Bare butt so you can watch it turn red and feel the warmth. Also a well spanked butt is super sensitive to touch- oh!

I always tend towards the Erotic, so Panties pulled down makes the spankee seem even more exposed and therefor more se y.

There is something about having them around my ankles specifically that I find makes me feel very submissive and is therefor extra erotic.

Starting over the panties, then after a suitable number of swats, slowly pull them down to mid-thigh then resume. With enough kicking, they'll remove themselves.

In our marriage, I am the spanker and my husband is the spankee.

However, In his dreams, my husband would like to spank me over his knee, over the panties for several bare-handed swats to warm me up, and then bare bottom with his bare hand for the duration.

I, on the other hand, no pun intended, never use my bare hand on his bottom because I'm a wimp and it hurts my hand to much. I will playfully swat him with my bare hand on his bare bum or over the pants, but never in earnest.

I give him spankings on the bare bum with a number of implements, including a black 30-inch-long Delrin cane, two different leather paddles, a waffle paddle, a paddle with holes, four or five other paddles in a variety of shapes and sizes and wood varieties, and three different back scrubbers purchased at Walmart for under $7 each. The back scrubbers pack a punch and the total cost of all three together was less than half the price of any of the real paddles purchased online.

@JillyBot I got my bath brush at Walmart too and it’s just as painful as any other . I also bought a delrin cane recently but we haven’t had the chance to try it out because we’re in the middle of moving. Any idea if it hurts worse than a typical cane?

My preference would be panties pulled down! For me it’s a more sensual experience.

We didn’t get into this, but when we experimented, it was bare butt, ACCESS.

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Comparing the Delrin cane and the traditional cane, I would say they both hurt a lot, but in different ways. The Delrin cane is heavier so it produces a deeper pain while the traditional cane is lighter and produces more of a surface sting. Both sensations are wonderful, depending on what you like.

However, we pretty much gave up on the traditional cane which is "traditionally" longer (36 to 42 inches or 91 to 17 cm). The extra length made it harder for me to control and I often accidentally whacked my husband's thighs or back with a pain that he did not appreciate. For this reason, we both prefer the Delrin cane. It consistently hits the spot on his cheeks. And it packs a punch. I have to warm up his bum before I hit with full force.

I know that an experienced wielder of the cane can consistently place the stripes in the right place forming a pattern of parallel lines on the bum or criss-crossing lines or the most painful: one on top of the other. And that same caner can strike hard enough to make it a deep pain, not just a surface sting.

I suppose we could have shortened the cane to the length of our Delrin cane, but we never got around to it.

I'm sure you will enjoy your new Delrin cane.

@PutMeInTheCorner

Regarding Walmart’s long-handled wooden back scrubbers:

The first one that my husband bought had a slight curve in the handle and an oval-shaped head.

Last week, he made another stop in Walmart’s bath aisle and found two new long-handled wooden back scrubbers. Both are a little thicker and heavier than my first purchase and both have round heads and one has holes in it! Each one has its own unique feeling with the “smack”. All three “paddles” are under $10 while all of my real paddles have cost around $40 to $60. And I think my husband prefers the single smack-spot of these bath brushes to the more expensive full-size paddles that cover both his cheeks. Actually, he enjoy sboth paddle sizes. But these bath brushes are a lot of fun!

If you go to Walmart online, you will find many more long-handled wooden back scrubbers.

@PutMeInTheCorner

Small correction to the post on back scrubbers . . .

I just took a quick peek at our toys and noticed that my husband, Vasbyt, only bought two back scrubbers, not three. The one that I said had the holes in it is actually a wooden food strainer that has been retired to the bedroom and my husband's bottom.

Actually, it went straight from Walmart to the bedroom and only passed through the kitchen on its way through the house to the bedroom upstairs. I don't think you would want to have dinner at our home if it were used for both straining and paddling, notwithstanding the clean state of my husband's bum.