Watching Your Spouse or Partner Get Spanked

This has been a fantasy of mine for a long time. We have this planned with a friend who will spank my wife as I watch. Has anyone else ever done this? She is nervous about it, but she is going along with it (with a few stipulations). I'm not going to participate other than be a spectator. I would like to hear from others who have engaged in this share their experiences.

AS we were swingers this happened quite often with other like minded spanking couples

I have spanked a few ladies in front of their husbands. All of which have been the wives ideas.

I still spank a friend in front of her husband on a fairly regular basis.

For sure not, that is not " my cup of tea " !! - in my opinion it has to be a ritual between two like minded people, without any spectators !!

We have had family discipline sessions in our family and all the family members present receive a spanking. So I have o served my wife and her sisters family get spanked. My brother I. Law does the spanking.

I have never done that, but have long thought it an exciting idea and I would love to do that. Whether serving as a witness and watching the husband spank his wife, on the bare, in front of me or me spanking his wife in front of him. Very hot scenario. I have spanked a married woman once (no sex… just a spanking)… who really wanted me to give her a thorough spanking and as she put it “send me back to my husband with a very red ass”.

I have been trying to arrange for another guy (or guys)_spanking my wife for a while. She is hesitant, but I think I can convincer her to go through with it. I DID convince her to let me spank her with two other guys watch, though. Let me know if yoou's like to hear more.

This finally happened last weekend. Our original plan last year was postponed due our friend breaking his arm and requiring wrist surgery. He is healed up now, finally (pins still there) and we finally got to go through with this fantasy of mine. It was worth the wait, my wife is pretty sure she doesnt want to do it again. The spanking was quite painful and it brought her to tears but she is good with doing it. I enjoyed it immensely.

This is a scenario I love!

@Spponer was your wife even been spanked by you or someone else?

@Spankingdoctor Yes, she has been spanked by me many times. She was brought up with spanking as discipline but, she is not a real Spanko . She can't take a spanking as pure pleasure unless she is masturbating while being spanked. This spanking, she wasnt allowed to have a vibrator on her clit so it was the real deal.

My wife wanted to experience a Dragon's Tongue, but we didn't own one at the time. We were at a venue and A friend of ours produced one and asked if she wanted to try.

I wasn't really into whips back then and told her to go ahead if she wanted to.

I'll give her due, she took it quite well. Ended up with some pretty impressive welts on her tush. Never repeated the performance and we never bought one until much later.

She liked me to use it now and then, but not too often.

It was quite interesting watching her submit to someone else.

That is a very intense and exciting fantasy! It takes a lot of trust and communication to bring something like this from the fantasy stage into reality, so it's great that you and your wife are talking through it and setting stipulations.

Watching your partner with someone else, even in a non-sexual or strictly BDSM/spanking context, can bring up a whole mix of emotions—from high arousal to a bit of vulnerability. The fact that she is willing to try it for you, despite being nervous, shows a massive amount of love and trust.

We had a lot of trust in this friend. She was in good hands. He is actually not a spanko but he handled it like a pro. It had to be a real spanking and he did a great job. She was very comfortable with him even though her butt was being set on fire.