Enema Play - Intimate

Hi there,

I have noticed that enemas play for a lot of people is a sub/dom connection. I always found enemas to be one of the most intimate ways to connect with another man. Do others see enemas as a way for two men (or female) to connect on a higher level? Curious to know your thoughts!

Yes, I agree with you. I find it to be a real bonding experience. For me anyway when with another man!

Enemas can definitely be a way for me to connect intimately with another guy. My experiences have run the gamut. I have given very clinical enemas to straight men where there was very little intimacy. However, I have experienced intense and deep emotional bonding with a few gay enema partners over the years. The enema is an integral part of the sexual encounter.

Enemas and administering them are certainly a way of being 'at one' with another person. The very fact of having your penis and arse on view to someone else, and also their fingers intimately massaging your body or rectum brings you closer together I feel, whether it be two people of the same or opposite sex to each another.

I think sensual and erotic enema play is an amazingly intimate connection. Especially when a retention nozzle is used and one holds a significant enema for a long time like 1/2 hour. That gives the top an opportunity to play with, arouse, and do all sorts of loving stuff to the receiver.

I would say that enemas are the most intimate form of M/M contact. When both partners are attuned to the sensations the other is feeling the connection is almost magical.

@Cal nicely said. I would love to be your receiver and than switch!

@funguy

That sounds like an excellent idea. Do you ever get to Phila? There is always Florida Efest in Orlando first weekend in Nov

Cal

I think giving and receiving enemas is probably the most intimate part of foreplay between men. I not only love giving and receiving them but we are sharing a very intimate part of our lives with someone else. It's a wonderful prelude to anal sex.

My wife is not into enemas at all while I have loved them since I was six years old.

Enemas are amazingly intimate for me.

Unfortunately, not at all intimate for my wife. Well, they are intimate by nature of our being naked, but, alas, not intimate for her like a turn on.

Decades ago, early in our marriage, I convinced my wife to let me give her an enema to help her bowels. I didn't really know how to give a good enema so it wasn't a good experience for her. We tried twice and she didn't want any more .

Then, 40 years later, I thought that with all my fabulous enema knowledge gleaned from the pages of Zity that I could give her enemas that would be so spectular that she would be hooked for life and enemas would become a regular part of our intimacy. Oh, and it would be nice if they helped with her bowels.

So about five years ago, I convinced her to try enemas again, ostensibly to help with her bowels, selfishly to feed my fantasies. With all my Zity skills, I gave her an enema every evening for 10 days in a row and I was in heaven. For me, it was extremely intimate to see her on her back with her eyes closes with her privates up close and personal, staring me in the face with a hose stuck in her bottom filled her innards with water. Wow! What's not to like?

But again, it didn't help her bowels at all and it did not turn her on at all, so she chose not to have any more enemas. She gave it a good shot, but I doubt I will ever be able to convince her to try it again.

@Vasbyt You gett an “A” for effort!!!

@Rigel Thank you for the "A" for effort.

And I give my wife an "A+++" for effort because she really gave it a good shot with 10 attempts.

In hindsight, maybe I should have tried to turn her on with a little clit action--a little rubbin' of the nubbin. Nah, I'm pretty sure she would have shut that down immediately.