Ladies, what is your body count?

So ladies, what is your body count?

No shaming, we’ve all done some things. Whether it be 0, 1, 20 or 5000 we’re all on our own path living our own lives.

For me I think it would easily be over 100 sexual partners since I started experimenting around (hand stuff, oral, etc, included not just full sex), mostly guys but around and 10-15 gals.

I’ve lost count. 30. seems about right.

This is interesting, I'd like to keep Sammy's ball rolling with my count. Again, this includes different sexual activity, oral etc. I can't match Sammy, but I've had fun with 7 guys and 4 girls. It's all fun and I thoroughly enjoy experimenting. I'll share details privately.

If we’re using Sammy’s criteria - which I like: 32 maybe at this point? I may be forgetting some.

I'm sorry, but these kinds of questions twig all of my Rainman OCD need to categorize things obsessions.

So, counting everything where at least 1 person involved came:

Prior to 1st marriage:

1 mutual masturbation (female)

3 in High School that I did 'everything but' with

1 that I had PIV sex with (and eventually married)

6 hand jobs

1 BJ

I was 100% faithful to my husband during my 1st marriage. He was not. After my divorce:

2 woman (everything we could do - one I hooked up with hubby too but she's counted here)

8 men (PIV plus)

1 New Hubby

So when I met current hubs my count was at 23

Shit we've done post getting together:

3 women (one is Jane who is counted above but she gets 2 as we're entirely different people now)

3 men (PIV)

2 hand jobs

4 med fet examination without overt sexual contact.

OK, now I can let this go. LOL 35

As far as a body count, only 3 men I remember, my first love, a man 15 years older than I and my now husband. No I do not even count my first husband. The rest were short lived and not worth remembering but they were fun at the time.

As for women I will never forget my first lady love as she was 30 years older than oh what a lover she was. Thru college I came to enjoy women more than men, some I still think about and wonder what happened to them.

So there is a body count in my past, mostly forgotten as time moved on. A few cherished.

Men call it notches in their belt. Women call it body count! Wonder why the difference?

@Rigel I don’t think it’s a gender difference, I think it’s a generational difference. I first heard the term with males my age in the teenage years.

@Nurse_Phillips I really appreciate your OCD and wish I could break it down, but I know there are partners I just don't remember, or wasn't aware of. All of my sexual encounters have been consenting, but it doesn't mean I knew their name LOL. Excluding a few months of my teen years where I was passing myself around as a party favour (I just didn't value myself and didn't care if it went bad... Look after your mental health girls ❤️ ).

But to give it a go...

I have had a dozen or so friends in my teen years where there was exploration 3/4 of which were guys.

10 older guys I snuck around with while I was still at school

6 long term boyfriends

3 long term girlfriends

about 10 casual "dynamic partners" in my early 20s... 8 men and 2 women? Maybe 9 and 2? I'll go with the round number of 10

10-15 casual partners since I finished high school, 2/3 men.

One threesome with my current partner (another woman)

Guys: 43-45 that weren't just anonymous sex + guessing maybe 40 more, maybe more?

Gals: 15 or so, maybe 18

That's about 60, plus the anonymous sex and the two times where (to put it exactly as my gay friend put it because it made me laugh) "love trains when I am the destination"

I genuinely think around 100...

When my mental health gets bad I usually start degrading myself over my body count, but as I said in my first comment

No shaming, we’ve all done some things. Whether it be 0, 1, 20 or 5000 we’re all on our own path living our own lives.

None yet, I haven't been really lucky at finding the right person. I'm not one to sleep around, I would want my first time to be with someone with whom there's at least care and affection, and who I can kiss for a while before, during and after the act. She doesn't have to be my future wife or my one true love, even just a sweet but short-lived affair will do. The important thing is that it's not purely physical.

I have one notch in my lipstick. He is the only one I felt that connection to and went that extra step with. For me it isn't something to just randomly give hither and yon.

35-40 total male intercourse partners. Zero females but eager to explore 🤗

Less than 10. Only one was a guy that I kinda messed around with that confirmed for me that my preference was for the same sex. But even though my preferences are “non-traditional”, how I decide to give of myself tends to be I suppose. I’ve always been very cautious about sharing that part of myself with others.

Consensual?0 currently

Non consensual @Quietly123 ? Had to ask.

Non consensual @Quietly123 ? Had to ask.

non consensual?one bastard foster father

Very sorry to hear that @Quietly123 but suspected something along those line. Hope you didn't mind me asking? It sometimes helps to get that crap out there in the open.

Hugs.

Jim

If fingering and fellatio count, it's probably over 100. There was a lot of mingling when I was single.